Group success versus individual success with women

Self success is a disillusioned concept. There can be no true individual success as this success only display unwillingness to share and help. A person who is inward is a failure.

Individual success, no matter how great, can never be greater than group success. Individual success compared to group success, is very easy, because you only need to c...are for yourself. Having individual success is not difficult, almost like a joke. One can have all the successes he strived for up to a point… what’s the difference for another one. Eventually, the feeling of emptiness will creep in again, like what happened to me, at a more terrifying quantity as the success he strived so hard and spent so much time for is not what he wanted.

Anthony Robbins (World renowned life coach): But how do we make sure that we enjoy a life of happiness and satisfaction when a man does not really need much for himself? To answer this question, we have to understand a quality of a human, makes me proud and should make you proud too. ‘Man we will do more for others, than they will ever do for themselves.’ Enjoy helping. Easier said than done.

Also, having people around who acknowledge you contributions, especially when there are female companions around, shows that you are a social proof person. This is a very big turn-on for women as they know that there is a man whom other men respect, something the individual high-flyer will not have.

I am really grateful for what Mr S did for me towards the end of the Dec field trip. He is more to me. If he did not help me open up the gorgeous Korean women, if he is not sensitive enough to move back when the women was more interested in me, I wouldn’t have a great time with them and close her email. Although I don’t if I am able to get her in the end, what really matter most is the self-esteem you gave me. Thank you Mr S, you really made a difference.

Man to man talk about friendship loyalty (意气). Women to man talk about feel and seldom talk about love (which cannot come before feel). Feel can change (obvious) and I didn’t say loyalty cannot. But at least, loyalty and friendship cannot change overnight as it has been build so dearly by our blood and sweat (perhaps tears lolx), something that is worth spending a lifetime cherishing.

Having said that, to be honest, I really don’t deserve any credit for this article as a person who don’t practice what he preach is a liar. Up till now, I am still not a very good team player. At many times, I will just slip back inwards to the selfish me. Please be patient to guide me back to the spirit of brotherhood. I promise to listen.

Let this spirit always be the one that helps the Brotherhood stay together. I look forward to day where all of us sit together at a restaurant beside the evening Hawaiian beach, enjoying the sea breeze with our women and wine.

Thank you POA Brotherhood.

Your sensitive, attractive man,

Stewey

POA Graduate

www.powersofattraction.com.sg

Unleash your attraction with women

* Featured in Her World Magazine for Singapore’s TOP DATING COACH
* Featured in Sunday Strait Times, Dating and Lifestyle executive coaching
* Featured in Wan Bao (WB News), Dating and Lifestyle executive coaching
* Featured in NUYOU magazine, for Dating and Lifestyle coaching (Female)
* Featured in Hong Kong Magazine, dating guide and lifestyle
* Interviewed by clicknetwork TV, a guide to dating
* Certified NLP practitioner, American Board NLP
* Certified Life Coach, Excellerated Excellence
* Certified Hypnotherapy, Excellerated Excellence
* Certified Train the Trainer, Coaching skills
* Toastmaster Competent Communicator Public speaker
* Coaching Basic/Advance/Leadership Training, Asiaworks
* Selected for Singapore Successful Entrepreneur of the Year 2010


Hey YOU,

Take a look at the SINGAPORE women around us

The SEXY Girl that walked passed you
Girl NEXT DOOR
SUPER Hot MODEL
Long Lost SWEET PRIMARY SCHOOLMATE
PRETTY WAITRESS
ATTRACTIVE Colleague
The Female STUDENT
That CUTE DANCER
Prettier EX GF

Ever WONDER why

THESE GIRLS we like are always
NOT INTERESTED in us at all?

Or always
ENDING up only as FRIENDS?

And the ONES that we are NOT INTERESTED
LIKES us?

What is GOING ON?

Now, take a look at the MORE ATTRACTIVE men around us.

Are they really

BETTER LOOKING?
RICHER?
MORE INTERESTING?
More ATTRACTIVE?

The answer is

NOT ALL!

Now the QUESTION,

Can we BETTER UNDERSTAND our OWN ATTRACTIVE TRAITS and be
The ULTIMATE FEMALE MAGNET?

Do you wish you could magically
ATTRACT anyone whenever you want it?

In our UNLEASH YOUR ATTRACTION workshop,

The answer is YES!

Understand YOUR OWN HIDDEN ATTRACTIVE TRAITS and UNLEASH THEM!

I do believe serendipity has brought us together, and I’d like to explore how I can support you in magically and authentically attracting the

MOST BEAUTIFUL and QUALITY WOMEN into your life.

THIS IS MADNESS!?!?!?!

YES, this is YOUR WORKSHOP

We are exposing the SECRETS!

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‘POA Academy’

UNLEASH YOUR ATTRACTION Workshop ~ NOV 2010 version

By Powers of Attraction academy

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We will be sharing the 3 most POWERFUL secrets of the attractive man that
TURNS ALL women ON!

In YOUR FREE 3 hour long workshop, you will:

* Understanding the various TRAITS of ALL ATTRACTIVE MALE

* Be enlightened on the Powers of Attraction that makes
MOST WOMEN DRAWN to these men!

* No longer need to ‘BEG’ the woman for a date,
WOMEN START DATING YOU!

* Effectively demonstrate to women that you have the qualities
THEY DESIRE most.

* Get credibility and GAIN CHARISMA with all the women and people around you

* Date QUALITY WOMEN and attract the DREAM PARTNER into your life

* Learn how to build
LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIPS and BOOST your FEMALE social circle dramatically by 200%!

* To INSTANTLY turn yourself into a
NATURALLY ATTRACTIVE person who gives off a charismatic vibe,



So how does this sound to you? We're going to make achieving this success as
EASY AS POSSIBLE FOR YOU.

YOUR SUCCESS MEANS EVERYTHING TO US

The workshop will guarantee THE EXPERIENCE of a lifetime.

How much you take away at the end of the course will depend on how much effort you contribute during the workshop.

Yes, it will BENEFIT YOU and with proven results, accelerated learning is just a step away.

So,

That is how certain we are that this system will positively and permanently change your life!

Our goal is to BRING OUT THE BEST IN YOU, more confident, and naturally attractive person...FOREVER!

However, you will need to comply with the following criteria to qualify for the workshop.

To QUALIFY:

We encourage PROACTIVE PARTICIPATION, active learning and
BE INTERACTIVE

And the
Criteria for the workshop:

- Male residing in Singapore
- Age 18 and above (Birthday age on 24th Nov 2010)
- Adhere to our Code of Ethnics (www.powersofattraction.com.sg)
- Have a decent career
- Have interest in the world beyond dating science


LIMITED to ONLY 16 MEN!


Once you agree to the conditions, you will proceed to change your life and adhere a smooth transition with our guidance

Location:
Goldhill Centre, Level 3
MRT: Novena
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To register for the Workshop, you must either:

Email titled: UYA, name + contact number' to
powersofattraction@gmail.com

or

sms UYA + name' to
82039299

________________________________________________________


For the early birds, we are also throwing in a Free CD with Ebook on
‘SUCCESS WITH WOMEN’! *While stocks last

So many have done this and benefited before you.

Only YOU and no one else know what is IMPORTANT to you.


YOU DESERVE QUALITY women. Nothing less.

LET THIS HAPPEN NOW

Take the JOURNEY to YOUR SUCCESS

There is NO NEXT TIME


See you at the workshop Wednesday 24th Nov 2010, 7.30pm



Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul

www.powersofattraction.com.sg

Empower Attraction and SUCCESS with women

Are You an Attractive man?

How many times have we heard this? She just wants to BE FRIENDS.

Getting the woman to like us seems more like decision by destiny.

Seeing our friends get hitched, going on dates and sharing with us the joy and woes they have with their girlfriends. When is it ever going to be my turn?

We as men are never better liars than women. Yes, this is a FACT. However there is one person that we are most effective at lying to.

Ourselves.

‘Oh, Alvin’s attached, but look, most of the time he is busy accompanying his girlfriend, so pre occupied. Poor guy, luckily I’m single and free. Yeah, I can go home and watch my porn’

‘Look at Paul, so what if he has so many women around him, but do the women REALLY Love him? I’ll just stick to CHASING ONE woman for the rest of my life, hopefully one day she will be TOUCHED.’

‘Wow, Gary’s wedding story impressed me. But I don’t think I can be as attractive as him. He is much richer and better looking than me, I will never be like him.’

SELF-INTOXICATING BULLSHIT.

If the man is never confident and attracted to himself, guess what?

HE WILL NEVER BE.

When was the last time we wanted to be confident and ended up being anxious instead?

When were the last time we told ourselves we would CHANGE and GO FOR IT right now and FROOZE immediately when a lovely, sexy, beautiful 9 pointer woman appeared in front of us?

Remember having the conversation in our head ‘Look at that beautiful lady! Go for it!’

But......

Thoughts do not get us the woman. It is ACTION.

Attraction may not be a choice. Success with women is a choice.

Let’s try this my dear gentlemen, take the first action.

Get yourself a free starbucks coffee.

Call us for a meet up.

Meet us next week for a free 1 on 1 coaching. Let us bring out the attractive traits in you.

By giving us a phone call, you ARE already an ATTRACTIVE man.

Why? Because you have chosen and taken an action.

Throw away your porn materials and get real RIGHT NOW.



Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul

POA academy

82039299
powersofattraction@gmail.com

Approaching your future girlfriend

How many times have we seen a most lustrous girl walking on the streets and we say to ourselves, “Damn. I wished I knew her!”

How many times have we seen other guys holding hands with a model-standard kind of girl and we say to ourselves, “How the hell did he get to know her?”

How many of us have felt restrained and limited by the girls in our social circles? Especially in work or school where girls are as rare as diamonds in the field? Engineering, IT, technician fields all have one thing in common.

The lack of female presence. Who has cursed the fate of his selected field of work because of the lack of opposite sex? I, for one, am guilty of that.

When our social circles cannot provide us with an adequate amount of the opposite sex to interact with, what can we do? We can blame our fate, of course, that’s one option. We can also pack more activities in our lives and get out more and hope there’ll be girls inside.

That’s a better option. However, the fastest and surest way to getting to know more girls would be at…? Everywhere! Shopping malls, food outlets, train stations, bus stops, on the streets, stall vendors, the girl standing next to the pillar, the MILF outside the school (if that’s what you like)! Everywhere and anywhere!

Sure, it could take a lot of guts to go up and just talk to someone you’ve never met before. But once you go through that initial stage, it is FUN. Meeting new people is always challenging and fun. You never know who you’ll meet the next moment!

For people who have found their Plus One in their school/work/social environment, how can we know that they are truly The One? How do we know that our real One is not out there shopping for her new pair of heels or reading a book in Kinokuniya?

Perhaps the lady you’ve been stealing glimpses at every morning on your way to work could just be your One.

Take action NOW.

Before you know it, you might never get to see her again.

Join the POA community today. I did four months ago and how I wished I’ve join much earlier.

Let us show you how EASY you can bring out YOUR BEST style of approach.

See you at the December's workshop.

Talk and walk with her

Yours truly,

Walker

Simple Dating Formula

Dear friends,

Here is the world's simplest formula for getting the woman.

attraction + comfort

Suppose you have already attracted the gal, so let's get into comfort building.

How does comfort helps in getting a gal..

1.she will let her guards down
2.she's more willing to let u invade into more private parts of her life, in turn allowing you to find out more about her and work on it.
3.If a gal feels comfortable with you, she will be more than happy to come out with you for a second date.

How to build comfort?

1.Establish common grabpoint eg talk bout women's common topic, fashion, accessories etc

2.Use a more relaxed and slower tone to talk to women, it will makes the women feels more relax and at the same time it will hide your nervousness and anxiety if there is any

3.Be genuinely interested in the women's topic, prompt her to continue on her conversation using conversation enhancer like carry on, tell me more etc. and let her know you find her interesting.

4.Display abit of vulnerability at times, for instance tell her bout some embarrassing things which happens to you in the past or when you are asking her about some topics like handbags. Play noob, this will enable her to speak more and lighten up the tense feeling which she might have while talkin to you for the first time

Additionally, get her to feel closer to you by sharing some secrets of yours to her while she is telling you her hobby.

For instance when she says she likes movie. you can tell her, looks can be deceiving, although i look really aloof and cold hearted, but theres another sentimental side of me which you dunno.

My favorite movie of all time is Titanic and i remember crying so badly when i watch it for the first time. Untill now, i still find it embarrassing. Imagine a big boy crying at home watching DVD.

Lucky i nvr watch it in the cinema.That will be so embarrassing haha. Anyway, this is a secret between the two of us and no third person shd know about this. Additionally you can throw in a lame joke by saying, i know who to kill if anybody else were to know about this.

Things to watch out for

1.Excessive comfort, and you will end up in the friend zone or become her "sister" as she starts pouring out her woe to you. You won't want to end up in the situation whereby she turns to you whenever she has emotional needs, but to other jerks for sexual needs.

2.It's good to be funny, but some topics although funny to man will be offending to woman. Avoid jokes on sex, race , religion etc

So gentlemen,

Let's keep life simple.

Meet the woman, attract, build comfort and close.


See you in Sept's Workshop.


Build comfort,

YOUR window to intimacy

SS
Your Professional Date

Win back your ex girl friend

From Jackson:

Totally cold. When I sms her, she no longer response. The phone calls were no longer as stimulating as the past.

She didn't want me here pleading in her life anymore. She loved me, but she wants me to go. The more I stayed the more I hurt. Yet the pain was all that I had left of our relationship.

Reality check, my status has changed and I hated the thought of now becoming
single.

Maybe I am not good enough for her? How could that happen? 8 years of relationship, just gone like this?

Maybe she has changed, or maybe she has met someone new? Perhaps met guys from Powers of Attraction academy?

Keep my ego or lose the girl? Heck, let’s just give this POA academy a call.

I met up with the Lead Coach for coffee.

Here goes the imparted structure.

“My friend, all basic of dating begins from yourself. Go on a date with yourself and you will see the ATTRACTIVE MAN’

That was the opening line after we chatted for 20 mins. It doesn’t make sense, but after going through the 2 hour coaching session, I begin to feel inner confidence.

“The attractive traits of men, you already have it. Otherwise she would not have been attracted to you in the first place. “

Powers of Pre–selection

Powers of Presentation

Powers of Playfulness

These three secrets were that is all on my mind when I bounce my ex to dinner for a last attempt to revive the relationship.

Everything went well. There was no unnecessary tension present during the dinner. No pressure tactics.

How beautiful can an evening get? The feeling of the very first time we dated.

Instant attraction. This is my story. ~ Jackson


Now, many of you are like Jackson, came here for her, that one girl that you are broken for. Often I am asked "How do I get her back?" And yes I know the prescription for your affliction, it's my own design.

It is the sin of vanity to seek to resuscitate a dead relationship, to recreate your passion of the past.

The truth is that if you manage to get her back it will self-destruct again.

There's too much hurt surrounding you both to make it right, not saying that it is wrong, but we are often blinded by the consequences and emotional reality.

At POA academy, we share all the secrets you wish you knew about attracting and approaching woman to wining back your ex.

If you put in the time and effort to truly learn, you WILL become better.

You will become successful with women.

You can become the life of the party, the guy with the girlfriend
of his dreams or the guy not afraid to approach any woman you are attracted to.

Or all of the above, Why not?


Pain is part of the learning curve.

All these successful men at POA Academy wouldn't have learned to be
the man they are today without going through the pain.

You know you want the woman. We want the woman to have the best of us.

Take the first step. Do the nation proud and improve the standard of men.

Happy National Day.



Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul

The ART OF DATING - FREE WORKSHOP!

The ART OF DATING - FREE WORKSHOP!

Powers of Attraction Academy is offering a 1 night special workshop:

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"The ART OF DATING”
Singapore Style

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In this workshop, you will get an overview of the Attractive Traits to women!
We will also be sharing the top attractive traits that instantly trigger attraction in women!
You will also learn the following traits to let the woman be enthralled on the 1st date!

*********************** Learn these SECRETS!! ***************************

• How to meet new people with confidence and leave a lasting impression
• Effectively demonstrate to women that you have the qualities they desire most.
• Get credibility and gain charisma with all the women and people around you
• Learn the style and art of approaching women
• How to number close the woman you have just met
• Effective follow up with the woman and maintain the attraction window
• How to successfully date the woman out after getting her number
• ‘Do’ and ‘Don’t’ of the first date
• Transition of location on the date itself
• Read interest indication not only through words, but through non verbal cue assessment and
eyes glazing
• When to touch a woman
• When is the RIGHT TIME to hold her hand
• When is the RIGHT TIME to KISS her
• Learn how to build long lasting relationships and boost your social circle dramatically
& MORE!!!!

We will be sharing the top mistakes men make that turn women off, and how to AVOID these
MISTAKES

Come for the Workshop, bring along like minded friends who wants to GROW and Attract Quality women into their life’s!

We will answer all your Questions on Women and help you effective build the PERFECT DATING LIFESTYLE and be the MAN of DESIRE!

Don’t lose out to the other!

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Date: Tuesday 29th June 2010, 7.30pm – 9.30pm (Limited seats)
Location: Goldhill Centre, Next to Novena MRT
Age limit: 18 above
Cost: FREE
Only for the first 16 men!
(Free CD with Ebook on SUCCESS WITH WOMEN will be given, while stocks last)

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RSVP with an email to powersofattraction@gmail.com

or sms 'Art of Date + Your name' to 82039299

(Subjected to availability)

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Remember, women of beauty are seldom found alone.

Many men are constantly pursuing them.

What separates you from the others?

You need to be QUICK.

Many have benefited from POA academy and are now enjoying success with women, and it is now YOUR TURN!

Date her before your competitor does.

See you on Tuesday.

Enjoy and be responsible,
Paul
POA academy

www.powersofattraction.com.sg
Accelerate attraction and success with women

Are you from Powers of Attraction Academy?

You probably hide the fact you are reading this blog in front of your family and friends, and you are wondering what will be their impression of you when they find out you are reading this materials of attraction.

You must have hidden our Ebook ‘ Success with women’ very well in a hidden folder as the title says it all.

For POA graduates who have taken our SWW workshop, most of them emerged proud and confident that they have taken this huge step going through this life changing experience.

Those with the strong frame tell people about it.

We came across many potential men who tell me this. “Hey, I don’t need some many women, I don’t want to learn any pick up. I just want to be myself, and be natural about it. I don’t want to be labeled as a pick up artist.”

Honesty and Respect.

But please read on.

Pick-up women, PUA, seduction, multiple women, the community. "Are you a pick-up artist?" “Are you from Powers of Attraction academy?”

Terms that are not so popular with our non-forgiving society, especially Singapore. Is that really a fact?

I have discussed with many, including women what exactly is this term pick up art?
Let’s take job interview for example.

Some guys are just "natural" interviewers. Smooth, polished, ready, they just get it. They're just good.

Some guys are "average" interviewers. And they may wonder why the "natural" interviewers are so good. They may state that they are just "naturally" like that.

Well, the "natural" interviewers are like that because of the way they were brought up, parents and peers' influences, previous work experiences, etc. Interviewing is "natural" to them.

And have you noticed? The "natural" interviewers have multiple offers lined up already, and the recruiters are wining and dining them to get them to sign.

While the "average" interviewer are usually struggling to get one or two to get the recruiter to like them and hire them.

An interview is not a conversation. Ultimately, you want to show off your values and skills and communicate them to the recruiter.

Self marketing, why you want to work at the company, and why they should hire you.

Overall, you're more inclined to get better, to put your best self forward, to prepare for different questions and situations, so you could present and sell your best self to the recruiter in the interview.

Bottom line: You are prepared. You have a game plan.

I hope you're following this analogy. The interviewer is the guy. The recruiter is the girl. The job is whatever you want out of your relationships with girls.

It took me many years to realize that POA and natural does the same thing at a bar/club. Except this:

A POA practitioner has a heightened awareness and sense of his "social plan" when he approaches and talks to women. He is more aware of what he's saying and doing, the girl's responses, and the social dynamics between a man and a woman.

But this "heightened awareness" is all the difference there is. You are equipped with knowledge, skills, and a game plan when you go out.

Everyone has different goals and agendas, of how they want to utilize what they will learn in the community, with consideration of moral and ethic.

Becoming part of POA and joining this community is one great way to get
there.

To realize and reach your goals and become happy in your relationships and yourself.
Many can’t be wrong. To be or not to be part of POA, is not the question.

When should I start?

It has to be NOW.

The only regret that we have is not having this academy earlier. Well, it’s better late than never.
Allow yourself to change your life.

Let the rest of the men out there live in their own self-denial.

Let’s heighten our awareness today. Explore the possibilities.


Enjoy and be responsible,

PY
POA academy

Differences between Men and Women

I stumbled upon on a news website talking about the genetic differences between men and women and it actually collected feedback from people on their opinions about gender differences. This certainly shows how average citizens have their very own sense of gender humour. I have extracted some of them, so read on for a good tickle.

Men & women - opposite ends of the bed

Men’s perspective

Women have the If you need to be told I am not going to tell you gene

Men like to have all their stuff (DVDs, CDs, etc) on show to impress their mates. Women like to hide things in cupboards.

Ask a woman in the street how to get somewhere and she will direct via shops. Ask a man and it will be via pubs.

Men appreciate the importance of a 42 inch plasma screen. Women do not.

Women can use sex to get what they want. Men cannot, as sex is what they want.

For men, 1am is time for sleep. For women, 1am is time for a discussion about where our relationship is going.

If you told a woman that you had just returned from a trip to the surface of the Moon, she would show her interest by asking who you had gone with.

When men want something they ask for it. When women want something they make a point distantly related to the subject and wait for a response.

Men refuse to pay more than $15.00 for a hair cut as it is not that important.

Women enjoy planning a wedding.

Women eat curry if they like it. Men eat curry to prove they can.

Women could never invent weapons that kill, only ones that make you feel really bad and guilty until you surrender

Men can drive without having to look at themselves in the mirror.

Men look at going down the gym as a physical activity, to women it is a social event.

Women have the ability to brain dump their entire day when they get home – men can only remember that it went OK

Gentlemen, then again, what makes the difference between POA men and the rest of the guys out there?

Yes, we from POA can see it from the women’s perceptive.

Have a great week ahead with beautiful women.


Enjoy and be responsible,

POA Academy

The ART OF DATING - FREE WORKSHOP!

Powers of Attraction Academy is offering a 1 night special workshop:

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"The ART OF DATING”
Singapore Style

<><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><>

In this workshop, you will get an overview of the Attractive Traits to women!

We will also be sharing the top 3 attractive traits that instantly trigger attraction in women!

You will also learn the following traits to let the woman be enthralled on the 1st date!


*********************** Learn these SECRETS!! ***************************

• How to meet new people with confidence and leave a lasting impression

• Effectively demonstrate to women that you have the qualities they desire most.

• Get credibility and gain charisma with all the women and people around you

• Learn the style and art of approaching women

• How to number close the woman you have just met

• Effective follow up with the woman and maintain the attraction window

• How to successfully date the woman out after getting her number

• ‘Do’ and ‘Don’t’ of the first date

• Transition of location on the date itself

• Read interest indication not only through words, but through non verbal cue assessment and eyes glazing

• When to touch a woman

• When is the RIGHT TIME to hold her hand

• When is the RIGHT TIME to KISS her

• Learn how to build long lasting relationships and boost your social circle dramatically



& MORE!!!!

We will be sharing the top 3 mistakes men make that turn women off, and how to AVOID these MISTAKES


Come for the Workshop, bring along like minded friends who wants to GROW and Attract Quality women into their life’s!

We will answer all your Questions on Women and help you effective build the PERFECT DATING LIFESTYLE and be the MAN of DESIRE!

Don’t lose out to the other!

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Date: Friday 14th May 2010, 7.30pm – 9.30pm (Limited seats)

Location: Goldhill Centre, Next to Novena MRT

Age limit: 18 above

Cost: FREE

Only for the first 16 men!

(Free CD with Ebook on SUCCESS WITH WOMEN will be given, while stocks last)

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RSVP with an email to powersofattraction@gmail.com
or sms 'Art of Date + Your name' to 82039299

(Subjected to availability)



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Remember, women of beauty are seldom found alone.

Many men are constantly pursuing them.
What separates you from the others?

You need to be QUICK.

Date her before your competitor does.


See you this Friday.


Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul
POA academy
www.powersofattraction.com.sg

Accelerate attraction and success with women

Attractive men continue to attract women

“Look at that guy with the hot girlfriend! Hmm… he must be rich and these kind of materialistic woman are only interested in his money.“

The men who gets it obviously knows what trigger the attraction in these women, or can I say most women, as compared to those men who doesn't.

Face it, men who are attractive to women continue to be attractive, and the men who doesn’t, stay that way, finds silly reasons, like the guy is rich, to justify for the match.

The cycle continues, these men stay single until they got LUCKY.

But what if some of these men never got lucky?

Dating for men is always pro active in the beginning and is never purely based on LUCK.

Come on, in fact dating is like sports. We take for example swimming.

It is better to learn how to swim first instead of being thrown blindly into the pool, struggling for help.

You might even drown or develop a phobia of water forever.

Learn the correct powers of dating and attraction.

And it can only get better with practice.

As Powers of Attraction practitioners, we know what are the Attractive Traits that trigger attraction in most women. Let’s continue to share these TOP 3 traits for both the ladies and the men out there.

Powers of Pre-Selection
Women are attracted to men who are already in the company of women. How could possibly the attractive men be lacking of women? Just look at his company of friends, possibly a healthy gender ratio. He never hides from the rest of his female friends whenever he goes out on a date with woman.

Powers of Protector (Non Protective)
What separates a true protector and a protective man? The willingness of mutual freedom exists between him and the woman. He exhibits care, but not control. The woman feels safe instead of pressured with his existence.

Powers of Presentation
How can any man so well gloomed, appearing confident and radiant, but shows incongruent in the way he speaks, walk and talk? Women can sense insecurity and neediness even from the slightest gesture or words you use. Build your presentation both ways, inside and outside.

Attraction is a continuous lifestyle. Attractive men are successful with both men and women, and they just keep getting better, you agree don’t you?

Look at some of the successful and yet to be successful men around you. Do they possess these traits? What separate the average Joe and the Suave David?

The answers are out here, at the Powers of Attraction SUCCESS WITH WOMEN workshop. Let us open the door to a new life of success with women.

Enjoy and be responsible,

PY

POA academy

powersofattraction@gmail.com

How to confidently approach woman you are very attracted to

Article by PY

Can you recall any situation in the past where you walk up to a hot lady and all of a sudden, you mind goes blank?

In a matter of split seconds, you just felt that the world had stopped right in front of you.

“Eh, your eh, you know, um… ya…alright, sorry bye”

You start speaking in a foreign language only aliens can understand. The look in the woman makes you want to dig a hole and bury yourself.

Or have there been situation where you are completely having fun with this woman, laughing, exchanging of touches and vibing, but you just all of a sudden freeze out and could not convince yourself to take another step?

If these happen to you before, you are not alone.
Why does your mind go blank when everything is going on well?

It has to do with our inner game.

“Inner Game is about sorting ourselves from within. It concerns understanding, tackling our misconceptions, and developing the right mindset. Our mindset and understanding unconsciously affects our outer behaviour and reality. Fixing ourselves from within will accelerate our development to become attractive to women.”

Before we go out to face this dynamic world out there, we need to re program ourselves. Awareness and adjustments, sub conscious suggestions and embedded commands that results in our external behavior.

Remember this; every man’s brain is designed for survival and replication.

The left and right brain must work in sync.

Emotions and rationalization, creates the output behavior like your speech, body language, actions, attraction and seduction.

However, we will first need to internalize our inner deepest most emotions: the root of all inhibition: FEAR or perceived fear.

Whenever there is a perceived threat the brain switches to survival mode. So when you are reacting to survive, you literally cut off your access to think and speak properly.

So when in danger your mind goes blank, when in a relaxed state you have proper access to thought and speech, which you know you will perform the best.

Picture this. When you are with your friends or family do you ever run out of things to say? Usually not, the reason because you know there is not a perceived threat from them and usually you actually have things to talk about.

Most POA friends who practice this potent art wants to be able to walk up and attract any women, anytime, anywhere, but this takes a lot of skill and practice.

Now the thing is, if you already have problem striking conversation with anyone who is not a potential suitor, or simply a 3 or 4 pointers ladies, then we foresee more problems when it comes to women that you like.

Remember this fact.

Guys who are naturally good with women always tend to be good with most people!

POA devotes our time and effort to help men recognize their inner game challenges, reduce anxiety when talking with women and build self esteem, unfortunately we can not help you to break through in just a blog article.

Just remember this tip:

If you want to build good memories with people and make them feel attraction and comfort in the shortest matter of time, follow the law of association.

Elicit their emotions, not rationalize. Follow this basic guideline and your conversation will never be the same again.

Meanwhile,

Enjoy and be responsible

http://www.powersofattraction.com.sg/

PY is a certificated hypnotherapist practitioner and life coach. He has been performing hypnotherapy session in his SWW workshop and being one of the top dating coach in Singapore, he identifies the main problem of most local men is their inner game. For more information on his SWW workshop and upcoming ‘A Date with your Inner Game’ workshop, write to us. Powersofattraction@gmail.com

BEING an attractive HUMAN BEING

Fame, fortune and failures. Powers of temptation. Face the fact. Imagine you are a movie director, with the POWER to groom and get intimate any women you want, with the allure of sirens in your everyday life.

We as HUMAN BEING, man can easily crumble to the lure of the forbidden fruit. But then again, let’s all take a review at our local on going scandal right now.

Our dear movie director.

We sincerely wish he would tide through this tough time and hopefully move on.

Right now, let’s just take a step back and observe it from an attraction perceptive.

Do you really think women find him simply irresistible and seductive?

Maybe when he is in drag as a Grandma?

Hu hu hu, can I, hu hu hu, get your phone number? Hu hu hu….


Definitely not.


Money and fame. How can we sustain and keep women attracted through these means? Another question, what kind of women are we attracting here?

This is reality but this is not the ONLY WAY of attracting women.

A friend of mine, Mr S, Technician, makes $1875 a month, stays with his parents in hougang 3 room HDB flat.

His ‘track record’ with women is countless. I can proudly compare that his latest girlfriend, is 10 times more physically attractive then our 22 year old Wendi.

One thing in common though, he is just as ‘good looking’ as our movie director.

Of course we are not advocating that either one of them is to be our role model, but surely there is something we can learn and understand from these two case studies.

Notice that the news did report that there are more REJECTIONS from our MD advances then success with women.

Hey, an attractive ALPHA male will never send 30 smses to CONVINCE attraction.

Where is he coming from? Did he attending the wrong dating school?


Persuasion and persistent leading to irritation academy?


For our friends who read our Ebook, attended our workshops, you will have understood this is NOT ATTRACTION.


Attraction through Money, Fame and empty promises is temporary and it is not SOLID.

It has been proven so many times. Do not let ourselves be stuck via this limiting belief that all women are materialistic.

My rich friend, CEO of a shipping company, who has been single since June 2002, is constantly getting women’s company via paying for it.

Tell me about it. The real reason is that in their mind, they have already carved and stone that that girls
will not like them if they do not have MONEY.

No money, no fame, no empty promises means single.


We really want you to meet our TOP dating coach who doesn’t even pays for women’s dinner.

Your inner frame supersedes your bank account when it comes to attraction. The Attractive traits that exhibit from within can never be taken away.

And remember this, attraction is irrational and it is never a choice. When attraction occurs between two people, the vibe occurs naturally.

In the real world, it doesn’t really make sense to a woman, and she just falls for him, despite the fact that he could be married with kids.

Come on, this is reality. Right or wrong, it’s up to you to decide.

The bottom line is we should not be living in self denial.

If we have an area where we do have a problem, let it be a conscious incompetence.

Seek help and break though. We must be equipped with the POWERS OF ATTRACTION to protect ourselves and even our loved ones.


The ultimate solution: SWW Success With Women workshop


Meanwhile,

Enjoy and be responsible,
POA

I need friends or events to meet women

Thursday, Friday. It’s the weekends again! Called Simon, but he will be out with his girlfriend. Called Bobby, even he has a date.

You know you don’t want to spend the weekend sitting at home alone, playing mafia war on facebook.

Where are your trusted buddy or ‘wingmen’? You know there are parties going on but there’s no one to accompany you!

Who’s there to disarm the friends when you approach a set of 5 women?

Hm, let’s try calling Pauline, Jennifer or even Sharon, most of the time they will be willing to go out with anyone.

Sms, no reply.

Called, no answer.

You feel awkward going out alone. Maybe it’s just this weekend and it feels weird going out alone.

NO EXCUSE.

Man when he was born he did not start off in a group.

We meet people along the way.

We were forced to go to school, meet people and attract them natutally. This is part of life. But as we grow older, we seems to forgot that all man initially started off alone, and slowly growing in social circle over the years.

Any excuse that our creative minds can come up with, if we are not going out, the chances of meeting women is ZERO.

If you do really hate going out alone, here’s a few surefire places that will gurantee you find fine women, to approach, attract and flirt with. Hey, Im sure you can go to these place alone!

Ok, let’s go!

Sign up for social events

Dance classes, cocktail parties, food tasting. If you have been following our blog so far, you would have gotten the ideas how to perform approaches, smoothly, subtly and effectively.

Shopping malls

Get into the mood of socializing by talking to everybody. Retail guns, vendors, assistances, food servers.. hahah..this is so exciting!! And before you know it, approaching a hot woman, anytime, anywhere, will be just a day in your life, not a FINAL LIFE GOAL that you have been planning for.

Road shows

Banking, mobile promotions, insurance, property open house. Women are everywhere. Be interested, not only in their product, but in them. One of the best women to talk to are women in the service line. Yes, don’t be surprise you might just make their day.


In conclusion: New places, new women, new experience


Practice talking to anyone, men or women, even when your friends aren’t around. So when that a 9 pointer hot babe suddenly pops out, you are well prepared.

Why not practice this together in our SWW workshop where like minded men come together and grow in this area of success?

Success with women is just an SMS away. Key in "SWW" and text it to 82039299

Dont we simply love meeting and attracting quality women?

Enjoy and be responsible,

POA

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Dear POA friends,

Powers of Attraction Academy is showing appreciation for the continuous support of our 1000++ Fans. We are organizing a very special workshop this Thursday evening, called:


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Success with women, let’s make things happen.



See you at the workshop.


Enjoy and be responsible,

POA
http://www.powersofattraction.com.sg/

getting phone numbers and options

The following is based on a true story: (the name has been protected)

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Dear POA,

Your ebook on success with women is genius. Your tips on getting emails followed by phone numbers were perfect.


I put many of your tactics into action. I work in XXXXXX, so I get to meet a lot of beautiful ladies, walk ins.

The initial reluctance to ask them for their email/phone number was pretty strong, however, I just though to myself, ‘What the heck? Since I’m single anyway!’

The emails and numbers were coming in pretty easy.


Then there was this Friday night (yes, I work through the weekends)

This 7.5 pointer, big eyes, great figure so intimidating that I am pretty sure you will be anxious to even look at her in the eyes when she smiles.

She approached me for general enquiry. And I directed her off the topic. We ended up talking about nice chill out places in town and so I suggested keeping in touch.

I told her 'I will need at least an email from you, here, key it onto my iphone.'

At first, she was reluctant, but I insisted, so the numbers came naturally as well. You can imagine the look that my juniors gave me when they saw the lady smiling and waving goodbye when she left.


I am now filled with more options and it’s really up to me to choose which numbers I should follow up on. I have never been more grateful in my life to have stumbled upon your blog.



Keep the articles coming in! I will definitely attend your workshop once I have more time in April.


Thank you POA!


Sincerely,

XXXX XXXXXX


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POA:


We will definitely visit your work place!

Now that you know asking for emails and numbers from complete strangers is not that difficult after all.

It is wonderful to have options especially when you are single.

When a guy has options, the mindset is completely different. Just by knowing that woman A turns down your date that day is no biggie, you will no longer indulge in that self pity, asking silly questions like why didn’t she like me, why she choose to bath her dog etc…

Move on and call your other dates. Time has to be better spent.

We strongly believe in the powers of pre selection, because when women can feel that you have other options, they will be attracted.

Doesn’t make sense? Yes you are right. Women are not logical.

With the tips that you are equipped right now, you can imagine how successful you can be when you come for our workshop.

With interaction and intensive practise with real women, comfort building and dating design, you know you will benefit even more from our ‘Success with women’ workshop.

From numbers to date and attracting quality woman into your life.

My friend, your story is truly inspiring.

We want to see you at our Workshop and further enrich your life.


Meanwhile,

Enjoy and be responsible,

POA academy


http://www.powersofattraction.com.sg/

men are saying sorry for talking to women

The number one fear of all men is public speaking.

Even more frightful, Imagine speaking to a crowd of a hundred beautiful gorgeous women?

What if the audience are not interested or attracted to your speech?
What will happen to you after the speech?

We move on.

So what? Does it really matter that much? Why not just take it as feedback and improve?

Successful men always believe ‘Do what you fear most to over come them.’

We local men are more conservative and shy. It is also due to the way that we were brought up since young.
Our parents always tell us not to talk to strangers. School teachers always tell us to mind our own business.

Picture this. A grown up man who walks up to a woman and says: ‘Sorry, excuse me, I need to disturb you for a moment. Can I have your lumber?’

These are the commonly used ‘openers’ that we use to initiate conversation with strangers, especially women.

What’s wit the sorry? When you approach a women, even before you get her to speak, you are already apologizing. Is there something wrong that you are going to do?
Or maybe you are sorry for being a man?

We are guilty of such mistakes from time to time. What do you think and feel about that person who comes to you with a sorry frame?
You presume that they are going to ask something from you right? To ask a favour from you? To borrow money? To take advantage of you?

We as men don’t have to be sorry. In fact, the women should be sorry if they ignore us. Yes, it will be their loss and they will be sorry.

Apologize only when you are in the wrong, in this case we are being sociable and there is nothing wrong being friendly and sociable.

We want to be an ALPHA male, we should start behaving like an ALPHA male.

Women are so sick of the wussy men in our society. So how do we know if these women are approachable or not? There are only two ways to find out:

(1) Surf the internet; check on her Facebook/Friendster account. Read testimonials from their friends. Try to analyze which type of character she belongs to. Get her birth date and year find out her horoscope. Finally go up to her with an indirect opener ‘Hi there.’

(2) Just go up to her with an indirect opener ‘Hi there.’


Which idea will you prefer?

Come on, as much as we men like to procrastinate, we eventually lose out a lot of wonderful people, especially women, who could have be a friend..or more.

Humans are irrational when it comes to dating. We don’t have to analyze too much. Be sorry if you do because it’s always about gaining the experience, seizing the opportunity.

And remember, with an SW attitude, we wouldn’t dwell too much on individual loss when it comes to getting IOI from women.

SW attitude
Some Will
Some Won’t
But then, So What?

So when is it a right time to say sorry?

When a woman is cold and unresponsive, tell her ‘Sorry dear, I’m leaving. It’s your loss.’



Have a great weekend ahead my dear POA friends.

Enjoy and be responsible,

PY

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Valentine's day is coming. Date her before your competitor does.

Enjoy and be responsible,

POA

www.powersofattraction.com.sg

Overcome Neediness with Women for Life

There are hundreds and thousands of dating advice out there in our world right now. Tip number 1, “You are supposed to pretend that you are not interested in her, or say something so that she will know you are not seeking her approval, just to win her.”

Well, the bad news is, this is SO WRONG.

Take these two men for example. There is a significant difference between these two men. Richard and Ricky.

Richard, puts up a front, gives women the impression and makes the women think that he doesn’t need her approval, but infact deep down he does.

Ricky, no front and cool. Does not need women’s approval. Period.

Guess what? Richard is not successful with women, Ricky is.

If on the inside you actually DO need her approval, and on the outside you’re pretending that you don’t, then you’re just putting on an inauthentic front. And if women are as sensitive as I know them to be, then that’s it, because they can feel it!

In the past when I was in the ‘AFC’ mode, no matter how hard I pretend not to be needy, the women still find out. They could feel it either way. And unless they were also just as needy (if not more), it was a no-go. You will still be with her, but be lead by the nose, or she will find you pretentious and leaves you.

Either way it’s lose-lose situation.

Now, how do we solve this issue?

You will have to become Non needy from the inside and as a whole rather than just attempting to convey the outer facade of not being needy.

Hey, how in the world am I going to do this?

For my story, I didn’t do it alone.

A coach who have lived and breath the local ground, encountered and had experienced the true hardship of social dynamics, can offer you guidelines and structures to break free.

This journey will not be easy, but it has been proven over and over again with many individuals. Hard it may seem, but it is all worth it. At that time, I was now allowing myself to feel it fully and deeply, without a need for any woman.

IT IS POSSIBLE.

Once you realized that you are fully in control of your inner self, you will feel this freedom, I can assure you, the women will experience a completely different you. They would say “Hey! You feel different!”

They will be more emotionally charged and open to you, which bring a whole new world to you and her.

Warning! Once you embraced and realized this Powers of Attraction, the process is irreversible.

But who cares?

A coach really helps. No amount of reading free eBooks on seduction or attraction was going to bring me this far.

Get rid of your neediness (which I did) and practice with authenticity.

The women deserve better, we need to be better.

Come for our workshop. You know you should take action now because when you wake up tomorrow you will still be the same. Make this your new year resolution.

Enjoy and be responsible,

PY

powersofattraction@gmail.com

http://www.powersofattraction.com.sg/