men are saying sorry for talking to women

The number one fear of all men is public speaking.

Even more frightful, Imagine speaking to a crowd of a hundred beautiful gorgeous women?

What if the audience are not interested or attracted to your speech?
What will happen to you after the speech?

We move on.

So what? Does it really matter that much? Why not just take it as feedback and improve?

Successful men always believe ‘Do what you fear most to over come them.’

We local men are more conservative and shy. It is also due to the way that we were brought up since young.
Our parents always tell us not to talk to strangers. School teachers always tell us to mind our own business.

Picture this. A grown up man who walks up to a woman and says: ‘Sorry, excuse me, I need to disturb you for a moment. Can I have your lumber?’

These are the commonly used ‘openers’ that we use to initiate conversation with strangers, especially women.

What’s wit the sorry? When you approach a women, even before you get her to speak, you are already apologizing. Is there something wrong that you are going to do?
Or maybe you are sorry for being a man?

We are guilty of such mistakes from time to time. What do you think and feel about that person who comes to you with a sorry frame?
You presume that they are going to ask something from you right? To ask a favour from you? To borrow money? To take advantage of you?

We as men don’t have to be sorry. In fact, the women should be sorry if they ignore us. Yes, it will be their loss and they will be sorry.

Apologize only when you are in the wrong, in this case we are being sociable and there is nothing wrong being friendly and sociable.

We want to be an ALPHA male, we should start behaving like an ALPHA male.

Women are so sick of the wussy men in our society. So how do we know if these women are approachable or not? There are only two ways to find out:

(1) Surf the internet; check on her Facebook/Friendster account. Read testimonials from their friends. Try to analyze which type of character she belongs to. Get her birth date and year find out her horoscope. Finally go up to her with an indirect opener ‘Hi there.’

(2) Just go up to her with an indirect opener ‘Hi there.’


Which idea will you prefer?

Come on, as much as we men like to procrastinate, we eventually lose out a lot of wonderful people, especially women, who could have be a friend..or more.

Humans are irrational when it comes to dating. We don’t have to analyze too much. Be sorry if you do because it’s always about gaining the experience, seizing the opportunity.

And remember, with an SW attitude, we wouldn’t dwell too much on individual loss when it comes to getting IOI from women.

SW attitude
Some Will
Some Won’t
But then, So What?

So when is it a right time to say sorry?

When a woman is cold and unresponsive, tell her ‘Sorry dear, I’m leaving. It’s your loss.’



Have a great weekend ahead my dear POA friends.

Enjoy and be responsible,

PY