In this modern IT advance society, even dating can be done at home, online. Facebook, myspace, Friendster etc, are some of the more commonly used social networking sites for meeting new friends, women.Occasionally, when we do find some interesting ladies online, the tendency to act interesting and get her attention is common. Have you ever though of the number of messages, inbox and notifications received by the ladies are countless? What really makes you think she will read your message or worst, even know you exist? (Of course we are talking about some solid 10/10 babe)
Fret not, infact there are certain pointers we can take note to improve our online dating success. Following are some key features you will need to understand, applicable to both online and offline women, girls.
Number ONE
Never ever do what the other guys are doing
A simple example: Take a look at all the common posts on anyone of the more popular lady’s facebook. How many those kind of ‘Wow, you’re hot’ or ‘You are simply beautiful and you blew my mind’ posts? Results: Not even a thank you for the lady. Why is that so?
Ask yourself this question if you are a girl. Which man will you find more genuine interest or attraction?
Robert tells you he likes you because you are beautiful and hot.
Louis tells you he finds you interesting because you are bubbly, having great energy and share common hobbies
It also applies for guys too.
Susan tells you he likes you because you are handsome and rich.
Joanna tells you he finds you interesting because you are bubbly, having great energy and share common hobbies
In the art of seduction, the powers of attraction are the primary factor to consider and understand first. Women love seduction too, don’t deprive and take away her fun of seducing you too early. Women in general if they win you over too easily, her sub conscious belief will transit her into thinking that you are easily attainable and undesirable.
Once she is in this state too fast in the initial stage, you will no longer be ‘the deal’. Of course you can still get some women without being ‘the deal’ but not the most desirable ones of course.
Number TWO
Test and understand
In the real world, predictable patterns/messages are always found in the inbox of beautiful women. This is life.
If you do not believe, you can always get any of your pretty girlfriends and ask them to set up a ‘false’ account on facebook or Friendster. Watch the overwhelming terrible responses she gets from the first few days. You can start collecting a series of LAME introductions from the men!
You will be very surprise by what you find and please, don’t ever do what those guys are doing!
Remember, success does not happen overnight.
If your life had always been the same and one fine day you expect instant success with women, I will say dream on. My firm belief is once if you do understand what really works, practice and enjoy the results. It is a journey. Most people do not understand this transformation, and this is where you know what you really want out of your social lifestyle.
Three words for the day: Practice, Improve, results
Invest in yourself. Why not?
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