No man is an island.
There can be no true individual success as this success only display unwillingness to share and help.
A person who is inward is a failure.
Individual success, no matter how great, can never be greater than group success.
Individual success compared to group success, is very easy, because you only need to care for yourself.
Having individual success is not difficult, almost like a joke. One can have all the successes he strived for up to a point… what’s the difference for another one. Eventually, the feeling of emptiness will creep in again, like what happened to me, at a more terrifying quantity as the success he strived so hard and spent so much time for is not what he wanted.
Anthony Robbins (World renowned life coach): But how do we make sure that we enjoy a life of happiness and satisfaction when a man does not really need much for himself?
To answer this question, we have to understand a quality of a human, makes me proud and should make you proud too. ‘Man we will do more for others, than they will ever do for themselves.’
Enjoy helping. Easier said than done.
Also, having people around who acknowledge you contributions, especially when there are female companions around, shows that you are a social proof person. This is a very big turn-on for women as they know that there is a man whom other men respect, something the individual high-flyer will not have.
So many stories of how our friends have contributed to our success. I am really grateful for what Mr S did for me towards the end of the Dec field trip. He is more to me. If he did not help me open up the gorgeous Korean women, if he is not sensitive enough to move back when the women was more interested in me, I wouldn’t have a great time with them and close her email.
Although I don’t if I am able to get her in the end, what really matter most is the self-esteem you gave me. Thank you Mr S, you really made a difference.
Powers of social proof
Your friend matters more than a new girl who you just met.
Man to man talk about friendship loyalty (意气). Women to man talk about feel and seldom talk about love (which cannot come before feel). Feel can change (obvious) and I didn’t say loyalty cannot.
But at least, loyalty and friendship cannot change overnight as it has been build so dearly by our blood and sweat (perhaps tears lolx), something that is worth spending a lifetime cherishing.
Having said that, to be honest, I really don’t deserve any credit for this article as a person who don’t practice what he preach is a liar.
Up till now, I am still not a very good team player. At many times, I will just slip back inwards to the selfish me. Please be patient to guide me back to the spirit of brotherhood. I promise to listen.
Let this spirit always be the one that helps the Brotherhood stay together.
I look forward to day where all of us, brothers, sit together at a restaurant beside the evening Hawaiian beach, enjoying the sea breeze with our woman and wine.
Thank you Brotherhood.
Your sensitive, attractive man,
Stewey
Graduate, Married
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