Demographics have shown that 30% of Singaporean men
remain single after the age of 40
Spending most of their time with aging parents,
or eating dinner alone in their 600sf home.
I could have been one of them
At first, I was ashamed to share with you my story
Hey, why not because I was just like any of you
remain single after the age of 40
Spending most of their time with aging parents,
or eating dinner alone in their 600sf home.
I could have been one of them
At first, I was ashamed to share with you my story
Hey, why not because I was just like any of you
Paul Teo growing up
Born Singaporean into a typical Singapore family,
Grew up in a 2 bedroom hdb in Haig road with my extended family of 10
being taught to not talk to strangers
And be careful when speaking to girls
Grew up in a 2 bedroom hdb in Haig road with my extended family of 10
being taught to not talk to strangers
And be careful when speaking to girls
Where I grew up, Haig Road
I used to face the same problem with woman as much as you do
Have you Ever walked past someone that you like and didn't have the courage to talk to her?
I did.
Countless times.
Before I discover the beautiful psychology of attraction
There were numerous opportunities, people, women whom I could have initiated and become
More than friends.
In my earlier years, I would see this attractive beautiful woman from afar
And watch how happy she is with someone else
Have you Ever walked past someone that you like and didn't have the courage to talk to her?
I did.
Countless times.
Before I discover the beautiful psychology of attraction
There were numerous opportunities, people, women whom I could have initiated and become
More than friends.
In my earlier years, I would see this attractive beautiful woman from afar
And watch how happy she is with someone else
All dressed up ready to go clubbing
Years back, There was this unforgettable time at a club, I remembered it was at zouk
First time going to a large branded club
Totally excited about going out to meet new people with a few of my poly mates
You guessed what happened the whole night when I was there?
So many beautiful people all around but I just didn't know what to do
So I ended up sitting in a corner with another single guy friend talking about women and guys stuffs instead of
Talking to women!
Yes the whole night.
10pm to 2.45am closing
Watching how other couples and friends happily enjoying themselves and having fun was always my envy
Who does not want to be in a great company of friends and having our girlfriend with us?
Instead of embracing the wonderful spirit of female companionships, good buddiesAll the time I ended up jealous and envy why some guys seems to have better luck with women
First time going to a large branded club
Totally excited about going out to meet new people with a few of my poly mates
You guessed what happened the whole night when I was there?
So many beautiful people all around but I just didn't know what to do
So I ended up sitting in a corner with another single guy friend talking about women and guys stuffs instead of
Talking to women!
Yes the whole night.
10pm to 2.45am closing
Watching how other couples and friends happily enjoying themselves and having fun was always my envy
Who does not want to be in a great company of friends and having our girlfriend with us?
Instead of embracing the wonderful spirit of female companionships, good buddiesAll the time I ended up jealous and envy why some guys seems to have better luck with women
I started to hate men who are good with women
I started to detest women who only like fun guys
And this happen for a long time, living in jealousy, anger and of course the unbearable feeling of being left out and lonely
Can you imagine
My buddies around me started to get attached
The women whom I met only treat me as only a friend (yes ALL of them)
Just wanting to be able to put a smile to a woman who I just met (a smile of interest, but not those kinda 'I'm just being polite type')
Having unbearable feeling of how it really feels to just be loved and can love another woman?
Numerous nights I have doubts about myself
For years and years
I ask:
Am I fated to be the last single friend in my community of friends or family?
Yes, I do have a few 'puppy relationships' every now and then
But they were the ones who pitied me and gave me a chance
Should not I have the equal chance like any other men
To be with someone whom I like and she like me as well
I'm Wondering why the people I'm are attracted to are not attracted to me
And just happen to be 'lucky' to be with ones who I didn't really feel for
I tried. Didn't turn out well.
Believe my experience as I openly share this
No men feels good being in a pitied relationship
And it's affecting me a lot.
Im losing my ability to focus and the sense of insecurity creeps in stronger everyday
At one season,
I tried to isolate myself from the world
By playing video games like final fantasy and many time consuming role playing games that will allow me to be a hero in the game
Keep doing the same thing by leveling up
Playing video games takes away my zero in life to become the hero in fantasy
But it didn't took me long to realized everytime I competed a game,
I felt totally lost about what's next
Then I realized,
It will repeat for every new video game
Nothing's Gona change unless I do something about it
Explore Something different
It's not about the girls around me
It's about me
My desire to get a girlfriend who I really like was still there and I refused to believe I'm fated to be single forever
I prayed
I asked
and God sent me the answer after many years again
I started to detest women who only like fun guys
And this happen for a long time, living in jealousy, anger and of course the unbearable feeling of being left out and lonely
Can you imagine
My buddies around me started to get attached
The women whom I met only treat me as only a friend (yes ALL of them)
Just wanting to be able to put a smile to a woman who I just met (a smile of interest, but not those kinda 'I'm just being polite type')
Having unbearable feeling of how it really feels to just be loved and can love another woman?
Numerous nights I have doubts about myself
For years and years
I ask:
Am I fated to be the last single friend in my community of friends or family?
Yes, I do have a few 'puppy relationships' every now and then
But they were the ones who pitied me and gave me a chance
Should not I have the equal chance like any other men
To be with someone whom I like and she like me as well
I'm Wondering why the people I'm are attracted to are not attracted to me
And just happen to be 'lucky' to be with ones who I didn't really feel for
I tried. Didn't turn out well.
Believe my experience as I openly share this
No men feels good being in a pitied relationship
And it's affecting me a lot.
Im losing my ability to focus and the sense of insecurity creeps in stronger everyday
At one season,
I tried to isolate myself from the world
By playing video games like final fantasy and many time consuming role playing games that will allow me to be a hero in the game
Keep doing the same thing by leveling up
Playing video games takes away my zero in life to become the hero in fantasy
But it didn't took me long to realized everytime I competed a game,
I felt totally lost about what's next
Then I realized,
It will repeat for every new video game
Nothing's Gona change unless I do something about it
Explore Something different
It's not about the girls around me
It's about me
My desire to get a girlfriend who I really like was still there and I refused to believe I'm fated to be single forever
I prayed
I asked
and God sent me the answer after many years again
attracting women becomes so naturally easy
I discovered the key to unlocking
Psychology of attracting women and with this gift
Psychology of attracting women and with this gift
The rest is history.
So what is your story?
Whatever your story will be, we want and will be part of your growth
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