There are hundreds and thousands of dating advice out there in our world right now. Tip number 1, “You are supposed to pretend that you are not interested in her, or say something so that she will know you are not seeking her approval, just to win her.” Well, the bad news is, this is SO WRONG.
Take these two men for example. There is a significant difference between these two men. Richard and Ricky.
Richard, puts up a front, gives women the impression and makes the women think that he doesn’t need her approval, but infact deep down he does.
Ricky, no front and cool. Does not need women’s approval. Period.
Guess what? Richard is not successful with women, Ricky is.
If on the inside you actually DO need her approval, and on the outside you’re pretending that you don’t, then you’re just putting on an inauthentic front. And if women are as sensitive as I know them to be, then that’s it, because they can feel it!
In the past when I was in the ‘AFC’ mode, no matter how hard I pretend not to be needy, the women still find out. They could feel it either way. And unless they were also just as needy (if not more), it was a no-go. You will still be with her, but be lead by the nose, or she will find you pretentious and leaves you.
Either way it’s lose-lose situation.
Now, how do we solve this issue?
You will have to become Non needy from the inside and as a whole rather than just attempting to convey the outer facade of not being needy.
Hey, how in the world am I going to do this?
For my story, I didn’t do it alone.
A coach who have lived and breath the local ground, encountered and had experienced the true hardship of social dynamics, can offer you guidelines and structures to break free.
This journey will not be easy, but it has been proven over and over again with many individuals. Hard it may seem, but it is all worth it. At that time, I was now allowing myself to feel it fully and deeply, without a need for any woman.
IT IS POSSIBLE.
Once you realized that you are fully in control of your inner self, you will feel this freedom, I can assure you, the women will experience a completely different you. They would say “Hey! You feel different!”
They will be more emotionally charged and open to you, which bring a whole new world to you and her.
Warning! Once you embraced and realized this Powers of Attraction, the process is irreversible.
But who cares?
A coach really helps. No amount of reading free eBooks on seduction or attraction was going to bring me this far.
Get rid of your neediness (which I did) and practice with authenticity.
The women deserve better, we need to be better.
Come for our workshop. You know you should take action now because when you wake up tomorrow you will still be the same. Make this your new year resolution.
Enjoy and be responsible,
PY
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