Monday, March 30, 2009

Top 3 mistakes guys make


Number I
Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women


Women are very different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful young woman, he feels a sexual attraction immediately.But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?Well, after studying this topic for many years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Go figure.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

Think about this. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see this pretty young woman.

But it's not an accident. You can learn how to enhance on this area.



Number II


I just wana be ‘NICE’


Have you ever noticed that the really hot, interesting women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys? Or perhaps just let them be a close ‘guy friend’? Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in you.

What’s seems wrong? It's actually very simple...Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful Gut feeling/attraction for them.

And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman feel that attraction, cause you are just 'one of them'.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman feel attracted to you. (or label you as just a friend)I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to accept, but please wake up.
Unless you accept the fact that this is reality and wants to act on it, otherwise you will be having the same success with women. (or the lack of it)


Number III
Convincing her she should like you


This one is my favourite.

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested? Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I guess attraction is something that you can’t convince or psycho a woman to feel so.
Unless you know mind powers or you have special skills in this aspect, else NEVER. You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you by using "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her? Most guys do that.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
If it really works, I guess it wouldn’t be for long either, until the sympathy votes runs out.


Please share with me if you do know anyone whom made any of the mentioned mistakes and are NOW very SUCCESSFUL with women. You just can’t defy nature. Hope your weekend was good!


6 comments:

  1. If gers are not attracted to nice guys, that means they are attracted to jerks right? Meaning they want to be screwed right over till they are 80 years old and never settle down?
    Have you noticed how happy women get married to nice guys, and women who end up with jerks end up being loose?
    I am nice, and yet I can cause attraction to occur in a woman. Get that distinction, right.

    Women who are attracted to jerks are not sensible women in my book. I wouldn't want to marry them, who knows how many green hats I will wear.

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  2. Women can always marry 'nice' guys of course.

    Women cannot choose not to be attracted to guys who are different.

    There is a difference.
    Wish you the best in your marriage.

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  3. I agreed with Anonymous. Although I agree with " Powers of attraction " some of your mention methods but I don't think mostly "Nice girl" will attracts to "Jerks".

    I cannot say I am a " Nice guy " but I behave like one. I had many girls surrounded me; "Nice" and "Bad" girl. Its not because I have the power of wealth. Its because getting close to a girl is too easy for me. Attracting girls are about outgoing and show them you are honest and confident in everything you talk.

    As a man you gotta impress them in your life like work or school or achievements.

    Getting a sexy,hot and pretty girl who likes only "powerful guts" guy. I wouldn't marry them either. Its not that I have no guts but they eventually get me a green hat by going to another powerful gut guy.

    Anyway nice blog you have =)

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  4. just wondering who started this whole marriage topic?

    There wasnt anything about 'How to find a good/great wife'.

    Gotcha.

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  5. i feel its all the same, whether if you are looking for a gf or wife or just enjoy being intimate with girls. qualities like a jerk doesnt really mean the man is a jerk, just my point of view.

    Anyway, I am in a long relationship with my gf for 4 years.

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  6. hey pretty boy , lucky you..to be able to get close to girls easily.

    And Mr Anonymous, lucky you as well, to be able to be in a long term relationship with the gal of your dreams.

    just my humble feedback

    i believe 'jerks', as per posted by POA , is only the so called generic word to describe the bad boys image... And

    'Nice' Girl / guy or 'Loose' woman is also the so called generic word which both pretty boy and Mr Anonymous used to describe a person.

    Everyone's perception of nice/bad/loose/jerks
    is different.... and those so called the above 4 catogory ppl can simply be an image which they choose to protray to the world.

    therefore, my two cents worth, POA is merely describing the overview of how ppl's perception is.... P.S Therefore, tgt the comments/feedbacks were getting a little too personal - from own point of view ?

    well , but nice reading this post...really interesting! take care my friends!

    regards

    Mr Z.

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