“Hey, you have the most beautiful face I’ve seen tonight.”Sounds familiar?
Women tell us they want us to compliment them.Mummy always say be nice to the ladies right?
So we continue to pay our compliments and making sure she will response with a smile and thank you.
But here's the question:
How do compliments create attraction? Is it working?
Most of the time, NEGATIVE.Women love to be complimented. Why? More or less, to get men's attention and be complimented, else why would they spend hours getting ready, and buy all that clothing and stuff? Sure, their faces light up when you make them laugh or they really have fun.
But, how many times have you seen that special girl smile at you and kiss you like there's no tomorrow when you tell her she's the most incredible thing in the world and that she's so beautiful you just can't stop loving her? Probably never, because you think that's not the thing to do to trigger attraction.
Who really bothers to tell you that you are wrong??
Most women don't always really know they want until they experience it.Women don't like to admit what's really going on inside them, because it can be irrational and illogical.
It's very important to realize that there is a CRITICAL difference between a girl you've just met or have dated a few times and a SPECIAL girl in your life.
Do women love to be complimented? Yes.
In fact, I think that many attractive women feed off of attention and compliments. Themore attention and compliments they get, the better and more powerful they feel. It's an ego booster.But this doesn't mean that a woman will feel attracted to you if you give her compliments.
Attractive women are always receiving compliments every time, everywhere, in any form, it becomes an expectation.
As a matter of fact, if you start talking to an attractive woman and say, "You're really beautiful. I mean, are you a model or an actress?" The most LIKELY response you're going to get is her giving you the cold shoulder.
You mean she doesn’t know she is attractive?Why? It is because it is already an expectation and she knew you are instantly attracted to her. (For her physical beauty)
Don’t be like anyone else who will be instantly labelled as all “the other guys.”
We can of course, pay her interesting compliments but I NEVER let it become part of the actual conversation. “Hey, I like your hair. Is it real?”
Well, I guess we can integrate compliments, teasing and fun as part of an interesting conversation.
The conversation will be definitely be different.
And building Attraction?
Well, never the same.
Have a GOOD Friday.
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