The Dating game: How to Get a Girl’s Number

We are constantly faced with various situations and scenarios, either at work or play. It will be nice to be able to effortlessly work every circumstance around. Conversational skills are very important, and it’s only through practice that you can make it smoother.

Let’s channel our attention on conversation with women.

Telling her that you are in a hurry, or you really need to go is an excellent approach where you subconsciously disarm them. A time constrain is very important for people where they know they need to make a decision by that time, else they will rise losing ‘the deal’. In this case, YOU ARE THE DEAL.

Here it goes: After casually chatting with her for awhile, let her know that you have to go and catch up with your friends. Say goodbye and as you walk away, turn back and say ‘Oh yes, I guessed I will need your number to contact you!’

By applying this gentle and subtle execution here, you will greatly reduce her defence and you become totally fun and unpredictable. For women, Predictability in men KILLS, remember this.

For my case, I always prefer email over her contact number first. This way, email will seems more subtle and difficult to reject. And of course, while she is writing the email for you, simply ask her to include her number as well. Chances are that she will just write them down.

Of course if your level of escalation has already surpassed a certain level, you might want to ask for her address instead! (First make sure her MAD husband or bf is not staying at home with her!).

Here is another famous number closing strategy called ‘The one business card for two’.

You can pull out your own business card, where you just tear your card into half in front of the woman. This creates a sense of mystery and fun once she knows what you are eventually getting at! You hand her the half with your contact number on it, and look at her with an expecting look that she will write down her number on the other half of the card. One word to describe: ‘Brilliant!’

Another move that I personally invented is called ‘A pen and your hand’. This move requires you to build a certain level of attraction and fun already with your new friend. Get a pen, hold her wrist and write down your number on the top side of her palm. This way, she will definitely call you and wants to record down your number before the ink fades away. Also, this number on her hand reminds her of being appreciated; along with the fun image that you created. Once she calls you the next day, you will know she’s interested.

You can also use the same method to ask her to write her number on your hand, which by leaving it on, it also helps to appreciate your value if other women notice it. We all work hard and party hard, and visit the restroom often. So please, record her number before it fades away, this is the last thing we want to hear about.

So are you looking forward to your next session? Sure you are.

Remember, enjoy and be responsible.