I just want to say I like you very much

STOP! Don’t ever think about telling this to some woman that you have only recently met.

Why? Let’s begin with some confusing stuff before we get to the actual juice of today’s article.

Let’s just get the woman to say or admit that she likes you first before you even proceed further with lovey dovey mushy stuff.

Now pay very close attention.

Well, that simply implies that you do like her as well, by asking her to admit it, it only confirms on her side that you like her.

HUH?

Why is this so important? Simple, really. I personally believe that TELLING a woman that you ‘like her’ is one of the WORST things you can do.If you want a woman to know that you like her, the best way is to have her FIGURE IT OUT by the fact that you guys are getting intimate on a physical escalation.

Further confusion?

‘Telling her’ that you like her and ‘feeling like you really want to tell her’ are two completely different issues, and they're BOTH bad... but for different reasons.TELLING her is bad because it takes the MAGIC, the SUSPENSE, the MYSTERY, and the ATTRACTION TENSION out of the situation.

Bubble is burst too soon, along with the chemistry (even before there is any)

Feeling like you want to tell her and then thinking about how to tell it to her is bad because it shows that you are SELFISH.

So let's talk a bit about ATTRACTION.

It happens for reasons that are difficult to explain to a person who has a ‘bad model’ of how it works. But let's just say that if it DOES happen, you want to AMPLIFY it. You don't want to WEAKEN it. One of the problems with ‘telling her how you feel’ is that it instantly changes the dynamics of the situation.

When you say ‘I like you’, in her head the woman hears: ‘Oh now I can finally hear it from him that he likes me, so it’s a confirmation. Now I have the control and I can rest assured that he’s mine, to keep or to ditch. Well, maybe he’s not really that attractive after all.’

I realize that this sounds crazy, and doesn't make a whole lot of ‘logical sense’, but it's what usually happens. If ATTRACTION makes sense, why are there so many heart broken people in the world for over many of century?

If you want to ‘tell’ a woman that you ‘like her’, the best way to do it is to take a little risk here, touch her. In other words, bring it up to the next level. DO something, don't SAY something.Words are to be used when ACTIONS don't work better.

And Kiss her NOW. But DO NOT ‘tell her how you feel’. Enjoy the attraction building up.

Magic!

Remember, when you're already at the stage where it's time to take things to the next level, you must take action. There are times to take action, and times where you can just be friends forever.

But I’m pretty sure we all had enough of these kinds of ‘forever friends’…….not again….

Till then, enjoy and be responsible