Thursday, March 26, 2009

Using a buddy as ‘wingman’

How many women can you handle at one time? I guess this is where a 'wingman/buddy' comes in handly.

Let’s say you are going out with this buddy and you want to get to know some women for the evening, make sure he's ALOT better than you at meeting women. Pay attention, let him lead, and learn from the situations you get into. It has to be a mutual thing, so let him know first.

If you don't have any friends that are good with women, FIND SOME. Make some friends that are really good with women, and watch closely as they communicate with women. You'll learn a lot more than just reading books and conversations. When I say really good, I mean you know that he is a natural, not just a façade. (some guys gets alot of women attention, but none of them are actually attracted to him, you must see the difference)

It's also a good idea to use a wingman if you need the "moral support" of a friend to get yourself started meeting women. But make sure that your friend can handle himself when talking to women. If he can't, he's probably going to make things worse and scare women away from you. Trust me, it really makes a difference.

What I'm trying to say is that using a "wingman" is great if it works for you. Try it.So in the end, the woman still never asks my name, is it a sign that she's not interested?

First, I'll say that if a woman doesn't ask your name, it MIGHT mean that she's not interested.But the thing that concerns me about your question is that you're really looking in the wrong direction for clues to decide if a woman "likes you".
Whether the woman likes you or not, it doesn’t really matters!!!!!!!!!!

The only thing that matters is whether or not she feels that powerful, magical, all-important emotion called Attraction!I've had women who were annoyed by me, bothered by me, and basically upset at me still feeling attraction for me because I did the right things.
I've had a woman who started out fighting with me feeling so attracted to me that when I threaten to leave, she pulled me back again!

My point is that you need to get over caring what a woman thinks about you and start doing the right things. If this doesn't make sense to you, then maybe you should continue to stay at my blog for more postings or talk to a pro on this.

Enjoy your weekend ‘fruitfully’.

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