The Dating game: How to Get a Girl’s Number

We are constantly faced with various situations and scenarios, either at work or play. It will be nice to be able to effortlessly work every circumstance around. Conversational skills are very important, and it’s only through practice that you can make it smoother.

Let’s channel our attention on conversation with women.

Telling her that you are in a hurry, or you really need to go is an excellent approach where you subconsciously disarm them. A time constrain is very important for people where they know they need to make a decision by that time, else they will rise losing ‘the deal’. In this case, YOU ARE THE DEAL.

Here it goes: After casually chatting with her for awhile, let her know that you have to go and catch up with your friends. Say goodbye and as you walk away, turn back and say ‘Oh yes, I guessed I will need your number to contact you!’

By applying this gentle and subtle execution here, you will greatly reduce her defence and you become totally fun and unpredictable. For women, Predictability in men KILLS, remember this.

For my case, I always prefer email over her contact number first. This way, email will seems more subtle and difficult to reject. And of course, while she is writing the email for you, simply ask her to include her number as well. Chances are that she will just write them down.

Of course if your level of escalation has already surpassed a certain level, you might want to ask for her address instead! (First make sure her MAD husband or bf is not staying at home with her!).

Here is another famous number closing strategy called ‘The one business card for two’.

You can pull out your own business card, where you just tear your card into half in front of the woman. This creates a sense of mystery and fun once she knows what you are eventually getting at! You hand her the half with your contact number on it, and look at her with an expecting look that she will write down her number on the other half of the card. One word to describe: ‘Brilliant!’

Another move that I personally invented is called ‘A pen and your hand’. This move requires you to build a certain level of attraction and fun already with your new friend. Get a pen, hold her wrist and write down your number on the top side of her palm. This way, she will definitely call you and wants to record down your number before the ink fades away. Also, this number on her hand reminds her of being appreciated; along with the fun image that you created. Once she calls you the next day, you will know she’s interested.

You can also use the same method to ask her to write her number on your hand, which by leaving it on, it also helps to appreciate your value if other women notice it. We all work hard and party hard, and visit the restroom often. So please, record her number before it fades away, this is the last thing we want to hear about.

So are you looking forward to your next session? Sure you are.

Remember, enjoy and be responsible.

I just want to say I like you very much

STOP! Don’t ever think about telling this to some woman that you have only recently met.

Why? Let’s begin with some confusing stuff before we get to the actual juice of today’s article.

Let’s just get the woman to say or admit that she likes you first before you even proceed further with lovey dovey mushy stuff.

Now pay very close attention.

Well, that simply implies that you do like her as well, by asking her to admit it, it only confirms on her side that you like her.

HUH?

Why is this so important? Simple, really. I personally believe that TELLING a woman that you ‘like her’ is one of the WORST things you can do.If you want a woman to know that you like her, the best way is to have her FIGURE IT OUT by the fact that you guys are getting intimate on a physical escalation.

Further confusion?

‘Telling her’ that you like her and ‘feeling like you really want to tell her’ are two completely different issues, and they're BOTH bad... but for different reasons.TELLING her is bad because it takes the MAGIC, the SUSPENSE, the MYSTERY, and the ATTRACTION TENSION out of the situation.

Bubble is burst too soon, along with the chemistry (even before there is any)

Feeling like you want to tell her and then thinking about how to tell it to her is bad because it shows that you are SELFISH.

So let's talk a bit about ATTRACTION.

It happens for reasons that are difficult to explain to a person who has a ‘bad model’ of how it works. But let's just say that if it DOES happen, you want to AMPLIFY it. You don't want to WEAKEN it. One of the problems with ‘telling her how you feel’ is that it instantly changes the dynamics of the situation.

When you say ‘I like you’, in her head the woman hears: ‘Oh now I can finally hear it from him that he likes me, so it’s a confirmation. Now I have the control and I can rest assured that he’s mine, to keep or to ditch. Well, maybe he’s not really that attractive after all.’

I realize that this sounds crazy, and doesn't make a whole lot of ‘logical sense’, but it's what usually happens. If ATTRACTION makes sense, why are there so many heart broken people in the world for over many of century?

If you want to ‘tell’ a woman that you ‘like her’, the best way to do it is to take a little risk here, touch her. In other words, bring it up to the next level. DO something, don't SAY something.Words are to be used when ACTIONS don't work better.

And Kiss her NOW. But DO NOT ‘tell her how you feel’. Enjoy the attraction building up.

Magic!

Remember, when you're already at the stage where it's time to take things to the next level, you must take action. There are times to take action, and times where you can just be friends forever.

But I’m pretty sure we all had enough of these kinds of ‘forever friends’…….not again….

Till then, enjoy and be responsible

Touching a woman to build connection

If you do love that woman of your dream, you will want to do everything to please her, that includes respecting her by not touching her at all. (Except when she says she’s afraid to cross the road along, you held her by the wrist, WOW!)

Just imagine, you are a simple beautiful, smart and witty woman. And further, imagine that you were approached by men all the time, and you had the opportunity to go out quite a few men before. Will you ever have the experience that men, almost instantaneously fall in love with you within minutes?

Yes you do.

And what do you when this happens all the time?You will think to yourself "What's the deal with all these guys who fall in love with me after only knowing me for 5 minutes? Are these guys really losers? Or do they simply have no life? How can one ever fall for someone so fast?

Attractive women are very used to men falling all over themselves that they see it as insincere and predictable. I have a thinking on this topic is that one falls in love so fast and becomes clingy, naturally the attraction backfires. Even if there is attraction in the first place, this is overkilling it.

Why do men make this mistake so early in a relationship? (Or even before a relationship starts)

Please my dear friends.

I have seen so many true life accounts failing and going down the drain. PLEASE WAKE UP.

When we talk about sexual attraction or giving them the touch, the subject takes on completely new meanings.Instead of a woman being "upset" with you because you were being "manipulative" when you do something like this, you'll find instead that women will smile and say "Oh, I feel that’s wonderful". Or they'll get mad at you and hit you because they know that you got it, and they're attracted to you.

This stuff is powerful and attraction is inevitable. This is another level of communication.

Example, personally, I don’t think that giving a massage to a woman is actually a bad thing to do. When used at the right time, it only helps you to escalate the relationship to a next level!
Lay back about it, taking two steps forward and a step back. It’s just like dancing. This is an art form.

However, please be careful about it as if the execution is done at a wrong timing and style, you could come across as perverse and even desperate. It’s always situational, but once you get it, cheers!

We as men should REALLY start learning how women work, what ticks them and most importantly, sincerely trigger attraction in them. Nature will NEVER take its course if you don’t learn!

Any men can significantly increase his success with women, once they put in the effort to understand them, instead of simply following their instructions.

Enjoy your life!

How much should you compliment a woman?

“Hey, you have the most beautiful face I’ve seen tonight.”

Sounds familiar?

Women tell us they want us to compliment them.Mummy always say be nice to the ladies right?
So we continue to pay our compliments and making sure she will response with a smile and thank you.

But here's the question:

How do compliments create attraction? Is it working?

Most of the time, NEGATIVE.Women love to be complimented. Why? More or less, to get men's attention and be complimented, else why would they spend hours getting ready, and buy all that clothing and stuff? Sure, their faces light up when you make them laugh or they really have fun.

But, how many times have you seen that special girl smile at you and kiss you like there's no tomorrow when you tell her she's the most incredible thing in the world and that she's so beautiful you just can't stop loving her? Probably never, because you think that's not the thing to do to trigger attraction.

Who really bothers to tell you that you are wrong??

Most women don't always really know they want until they experience it.Women don't like to admit what's really going on inside them, because it can be irrational and illogical.

It's very important to realize that there is a CRITICAL difference between a girl you've just met or have dated a few times and a SPECIAL girl in your life.

Do women love to be complimented? Yes.

In fact, I think that many attractive women feed off of attention and compliments. Themore attention and compliments they get, the better and more powerful they feel. It's an ego booster.But this doesn't mean that a woman will feel attracted to you if you give her compliments.

Attractive women are always receiving compliments every time, everywhere, in any form, it becomes an expectation.

As a matter of fact, if you start talking to an attractive woman and say, "You're really beautiful. I mean, are you a model or an actress?" The most LIKELY response you're going to get is her giving you the cold shoulder.

You mean she doesn’t know she is attractive?Why? It is because it is already an expectation and she knew you are instantly attracted to her. (For her physical beauty)

Don’t be like anyone else who will be instantly labelled as all “the other guys.”

We can of course, pay her interesting compliments but I NEVER let it become part of the actual conversation. “Hey, I like your hair. Is it real?”

Well, I guess we can integrate compliments, teasing and fun as part of an interesting conversation.

The conversation will be definitely be different.

And building Attraction?

Well, never the same.

Have a GOOD Friday.