Dial for that date and handling rejection

Women flakes. That’s normal. One minute they are fun, next minute they run. People change their minds, especially women. It can be for any reason.

In general, if women are polite but seem disinterested, a good response will be ‘Hey, its ok. Just recall the fun time we had, imagine we can be enjoying more but all the best to you. You have fun’.

Cool, no bitterness, no date, no deal.

Ah ha, unless she is rude, nasty or cold, then that is a different story. Listen here. We’ve all experience that one in a while and can be quite a shocker when it is such a major turn around from the first meet up.

An ideal response to her will be ‘Hi, you pretend to be rude and cold, anyway, you have fun’. Hang up.

Don’t cry its ok. If she's just being defensive or insecure you've given her a chance to apologize and come round. Notice the word "pretend" which implies you think she's not really this way, but capable of better. This way, there is a higher chance of her calling back for a make up date then just hanging on the phone ‘Hey baby, what’s wrong with you? Did I say anything wrong? Blab la…’.

Of course, some women are super-moody. Some have an initial interest, but their fears of intimacy or their frozen nature just takes over. Some just think they are entitled to treat the world like crap. If she calls you back with anything other than an apologetic tone, hang up on her and write her off. Trust me, you don't need the trouble or bother. Move on with the gift of your skills and find someone more fun, more pleasure, less bother.

Make sense? For you at home, reading this, understand that an important, but often neglected part of learning success with women is QUALIFYING. Social more, get more dates and learn to qualify the ones that you see potential and who you can imagine having a fun time with.

It is only ordinary for women with swings, bad days and feels moody too. Men are compassionate and understanding.

Exceptions to frozen, emotionally cold and stuck up women with too frequent wild mood swings. Good luck to them.

As we move up the learning curve, the gift to offer appreciates in value. Don't give it or continue to offer it to those who do not deserve the best.

Great men in Singapore are rare commodities. You are the prize. How much did you price yourself?



Dial the next one and have fun!

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More singles leaving it to chance to find their other half

Channel NewsAsia - Wednesday, June 24

SINGAPORE: More singles in Singapore are leaving it to fate to help find their other half, according to a recent survey conducted by local dating agency Lunch Actually.

While singles in Singapore cited more traditional methods of relying on peers or having family and relatives keep a lookout for that special someone, more have decided not to rush into things, and leaving it to chance.

In a survey conducted by the agency in 2005, only eight per cent said they left it to fate to decide who they will meet.

This group has grown since.

Now, 14 per cent of singles surveyed said they do not mind leaving it to fate to find that someone who shares the same values and interests.

Lunch Actually’s co—founder Violet Lim attributes this mindset change to media influence.

Said Lim: "(This is due to) the movies that we watch, the books that we read. So we feel that it is only right that we meet someone by chance, as opposed to taking a more proactive approach to meeting someone.

“And because so many people are hoping to meet someone by chance, the probability of that happening is very low. So as a result, why many are still single is because they have not met anyone that they want to be involved with.”

— 938 LIVE/yb


So gentlemen, are you the proactive or reactive type? What can we learn from this article? Leaving your life to fate?

Are you still waiting for your family or friends to introduce potential soul mates to you?
Think about it.

Did you realize just by being proactive you stand a higher chance of knowing more women out there?

Do you want to be the top 10% of the population who always gets the woman?
Imagine, because eventually you can.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Dating belief change and start connecting with women

Belief system

Today we know as we read on this article and recall the following ‘wonderful’ memories from our close friends/family

Love yourself the way you are and women will love you

One day, you will eventually find someone, just be patient. (Patient in my term means a sick man lying on the hospital bed)

‘Just be nice. Women love nice guys’. When I was much younger and ‘nice’, the women always added a ‘BUT’ behind every statement

Most men who are still single or only had been intimate with less than 5 women in their lives ignore the current reality and bury themselves in a shell of comfort. The sad fact is that, if for whatever reason their girlfriend left them, they immediately enter a state of what we call ‘Social Inept Emergency’.

At this state, the men will talk to themselves and pretend that they are happier being alone, hearing constant ‘head voices’ about how things will be ok, asking advice from supportive friends telling them ‘You will find someone better’.

Excuse me, how are these men who had been together with less than 5 women in their lives even going to build the instant attraction in the women they are going to meet in the future?

Please correct your mindset. Change is easy and fun. Change both your thoughts and behaviour. How shall we engage the women when we ourselves are not ready? Think about it.

There are many students our there with incredible theoretical knowledge on success with women. They collect books, DvDs, tapes, videos etc.. but they still can talk to women in the real world!

Connection on a deeper level

What are the emotional states you have to let women to experience for?

Get her to feel instead of act.

Safety, trust, comfort, connection, rapport.
You might be thinking, does comfort really let to a more intimate relationship?

Answer is: Yes and no. Too much comfort without attraction will let you to the ‘just be friends’ zone. Knowing how to balance attraction with comfort is the key. Give, lead and let go, push and pull at the right timing.

The magical thing is women are drawn to emotional situations that they cannot figure out. It challenges their powers and when it comes to emotions, they NEED to find out.

Men make many mistakes when challenging their emotions. They neg (tease in logically funny ways) too much and questioned with too much ‘Why’s. Men don’t have to land her in the state where she feels a fine line between loving and hating you.

Switch this behaviour and focus on a variety of ways to make her feel fantastic. The intensity of the feeling could be different; still the emotional trigger is pulled every time.

As you touch her more on a deeper emotional need, with variety, there will be no single moment where she will think you are in negative thoughts or loss of confident.

Why settle for a life of mediocrity? Blow away the dust and we know we are going out there tonight.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Same 5% Men get 95% of the Women

In the world of business and dating, if you noticed, there are similar commonalities in the distribution of resources and acclamation. In the fight of survival, it is a free-for-all, dog-eat-dog world.

These top business boys learn how to manage their risk, and are able to bounce back from failures fast. These are the people that take themselves to the top and enjoy the financial abundance, resulting in a tremendous imbalance in the distribution of this wealth.

The 5% controls 95% of the wealth in our society, exhibiting similar context in the women and dating world. The 5% of the men get 95% of the women. Similar theory as the law of epidemic quoted in Malcolm Gladwell’s The Tipping Point.

Few men are actually good with women. Some of these men were ‘lucky’ in the sense that they met a woman in their life, love them and end up holding on to them tightly, because they know they can’t meet anyone else. There is nothing wrong with that, just in the event that they broke up, the man becomes so socially inept and might take a very long time to ever get ‘lucky’ and meet another woman in his life again.

This is the truth in most Singaporean men! They simply do not know how to interact with women, and the few that do have a tremendous advantage, simply because no other guys understand the Powers of Attraction!

Think. Why will women be attracted to a needy man who has no social skills? Attractive women will get their dates all the time. Furthermore, they have the right to choose, and being a woman, they will prefer to compete for the 5% of competent men.

Don’t envy, these 5% worked hard to get where they are. There is one universal secret of getting good at the skill you want: Practise with the correct knowledge. Once you recognize your own inconscious incompetence, you will take the first step to be good at it.

But then, why are there still guys out there hoping to get ‘lucky’ and land a date with a woman that you don’t even like at all? The only luck I can share with you now is that you are lucky to have found this site: Powers of Attraction. We will share the secret and show the way.

Even if you fail miserably at first, you will still make more women friends than the guys who stand around and wait for something to happen. Women are more attracted to men of action. Take action and put all the learning pieces together. See the bigger picture.

Probably as you are reading this article (in the library, from your laptop, coffee clubs etc..), the 5% might have already met another new woman.

Not too late. Learn and start now. Imagine being the 5%.

Enjoy and be responsible,

Powersofattraction@gmail.com

Overcoming the fear of approach

Here is a preview chapter from the Ebook:

We have demons in our heads and trust me, if you don’t identify them, they will consume you and affect your life. Even till today, most men have this strong anxiety of approach, especially if the woman is of great beauty. Fear of rejection and ridicule. However, go reflect on your own experiences and think, did you regret over the procrastination or a ‘rejected’ approach? For me, how I wished I had done those approaches that I procrastinated instead of letting it slipped through.

Remember what we talked about identifying your limiting belief in chapter 1?

Identify what is your worst fear when it comes to women. What could be the consequences that I will face if I execute this approach? What if the lady is attached? What if the guy is his boyfriend or the bouncer is?

Your questions are not uncommon and we have already identified most of them. Yes, we have solutions.

Cultivating the ability to be comfortable and competent in approaching people is important in our current society. It will be applicable when it comes to networking, creating opportunities and expanding your social circle in life.

If at this point of time you are still feeding yourself with limiting and destructive thoughts how other people might think of you, I suggest you read chapter 1 again or sign up straight for the workshop. In the workshop, you will practice an important ‘Wingman’ concept, where we will pair up teammates and practice ‘anchoring’ each other for optimum learning. We will teach how you can anchor your success and eliminate your limiting beliefs. Anchor/anchoring is an NLP term where it helps the person overcome their fears, changing the anxiety energy into constructive behavior.

You will feel much more confident and eventually realize that actually talking to different people, men or women is fun! You will notice the friendliness that even the most hostile bouncer, club’s door bitch, the snobbish hot babe are actually very sociable and open, once you did the approach right.

Have you brought out the best in you yet?

Enjoy and be responsible.

powersofattraction@gmail.com