Dating belief change and start connecting with women

Belief system

Today we know as we read on this article and recall the following ‘wonderful’ memories from our close friends/family

Love yourself the way you are and women will love you

One day, you will eventually find someone, just be patient. (Patient in my term means a sick man lying on the hospital bed)

‘Just be nice. Women love nice guys’. When I was much younger and ‘nice’, the women always added a ‘BUT’ behind every statement

Most men who are still single or only had been intimate with less than 5 women in their lives ignore the current reality and bury themselves in a shell of comfort. The sad fact is that, if for whatever reason their girlfriend left them, they immediately enter a state of what we call ‘Social Inept Emergency’.

At this state, the men will talk to themselves and pretend that they are happier being alone, hearing constant ‘head voices’ about how things will be ok, asking advice from supportive friends telling them ‘You will find someone better’.

Excuse me, how are these men who had been together with less than 5 women in their lives even going to build the instant attraction in the women they are going to meet in the future?

Please correct your mindset. Change is easy and fun. Change both your thoughts and behaviour. How shall we engage the women when we ourselves are not ready? Think about it.

There are many students our there with incredible theoretical knowledge on success with women. They collect books, DvDs, tapes, videos etc.. but they still can talk to women in the real world!

Connection on a deeper level

What are the emotional states you have to let women to experience for?

Get her to feel instead of act.

Safety, trust, comfort, connection, rapport.
You might be thinking, does comfort really let to a more intimate relationship?

Answer is: Yes and no. Too much comfort without attraction will let you to the ‘just be friends’ zone. Knowing how to balance attraction with comfort is the key. Give, lead and let go, push and pull at the right timing.

The magical thing is women are drawn to emotional situations that they cannot figure out. It challenges their powers and when it comes to emotions, they NEED to find out.

Men make many mistakes when challenging their emotions. They neg (tease in logically funny ways) too much and questioned with too much ‘Why’s. Men don’t have to land her in the state where she feels a fine line between loving and hating you.

Switch this behaviour and focus on a variety of ways to make her feel fantastic. The intensity of the feeling could be different; still the emotional trigger is pulled every time.

As you touch her more on a deeper emotional need, with variety, there will be no single moment where she will think you are in negative thoughts or loss of confident.

Why settle for a life of mediocrity? Blow away the dust and we know we are going out there tonight.

Enjoy and be responsible,

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