Here is a preview chapter from the Ebook:We have demons in our heads and trust me, if you don’t identify them, they will consume you and affect your life. Even till today, most men have this strong anxiety of approach, especially if the woman is of great beauty. Fear of rejection and ridicule. However, go reflect on your own experiences and think, did you regret over the procrastination or a ‘rejected’ approach? For me, how I wished I had done those approaches that I procrastinated instead of letting it slipped through.
Remember what we talked about identifying your limiting belief in chapter 1?
Identify what is your worst fear when it comes to women. What could be the consequences that I will face if I execute this approach? What if the lady is attached? What if the guy is his boyfriend or the bouncer is?
Remember what we talked about identifying your limiting belief in chapter 1?
Identify what is your worst fear when it comes to women. What could be the consequences that I will face if I execute this approach? What if the lady is attached? What if the guy is his boyfriend or the bouncer is?
Your questions are not uncommon and we have already identified most of them. Yes, we have solutions.
Cultivating the ability to be comfortable and competent in approaching people is important in our current society. It will be applicable when it comes to networking, creating opportunities and expanding your social circle in life.
If at this point of time you are still feeding yourself with limiting and destructive thoughts how other people might think of you, I suggest you read chapter 1 again or sign up straight for the workshop. In the workshop, you will practice an important ‘Wingman’ concept, where we will pair up teammates and practice ‘anchoring’ each other for optimum learning. We will teach how you can anchor your success and eliminate your limiting beliefs. Anchor/anchoring is an NLP term where it helps the person overcome their fears, changing the anxiety energy into constructive behavior.
You will feel much more confident and eventually realize that actually talking to different people, men or women is fun! You will notice the friendliness that even the most hostile bouncer, club’s door bitch, the snobbish hot babe are actually very sociable and open, once you did the approach right.
Have you brought out the best in you yet?
Enjoy and be responsible.
I felt the idea of approaching women is tough, especially if the lady is beautiful. How can we as men simply just go ahead and talk to any women?
ReplyDeleteYour limiting belief, that is. We can show you how to overcome this. Stay with us.
ReplyDeleteHi anonymous,
ReplyDeletei love beautiful women! they ain't scary as you think they are.
think about it, ladies, and esp. beautiful ladies traditionally will not take the 1st approach to talk to 'we', men 1st. For centuries, it has been a natural process/cycle that men take the lead 1s , in terms of courtships.
but then, modern women have become so strong that , men have start to doubt their own stand and positions.
so, the beautiful ladies end up leaving the place sadly as no one approach them.
Go get them , Tiger!
regards
Mr Z.