Women wishing you a Merry Christmas!

Imagine 4 days from now. Jingle bells, Christmas lights, ladies in their most astonishing and stunning dress, with hair beautifully done up, smelling good with their brand new perfumes, that glossy new lip color seldom appears and with a smile that can melt all the ice in the Antarctica.

As she walked towards you, you cannot help it but look into her eyes, where she smiles back at you, with the least intention of flirting (or not), but showing you the "You are cute" kinda look.

If you have been following Powers of Attraction, this situation should be a no brainer for you.

If not, listen up.

If you do not response to her reaction within the next few seconds, chances of you attracting her will be minimized. Your reaction to these passive ‘approach invitation’ should be fast, witty and confident.

In this case, it might be your advantage to ASSUME. You might be thinking, “Is she looking at me or my friend? (In case I’m besides you) Or could she be smiling at someone else?”

It doesn’t matter who she is smiling at, as long as you go for the approach first, your value appreciates. Yes, women love men who initiates. (Not irritate)

You initiate, your value appreciate. Hesitate you will depreciate.

Yes, this is just to prepare you with the readiness after you go through our success with women transformation. Girls, ladies, women will be taking the initiative to invite you for the approach, and you must know how to react!

Tip #1 Attracting approaches

Using of peacock or Boomz accessories

Women are the greatest observers and they are 156% more sensitive to what men perceive. Your peacock item will come in handy here, where it allows her to pass an innocent comment on it, just to get your attention. Items include Caps, Hats, outlandish blazers, lady sunglass, funny ties etc. You can pull off anything with attraction and confidence if you know how to. Let us show you how in our workshop.

Attracting women who initiate the approach, especially during this Christmas season is not uncommon. The key is that you must be able to take the baton, carry on the conversational thread and attract her into your life.

Come for the workshop and experience it for yourself.

Attract your dream date into your life before Christmas and let her know you are the most wonderful Christmas present ever for her. How does it sound to you?

Merry Christmas and drink less, wink more.

POA

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Accelerate comfort and trust in women

The game is played in comfort. Yes and this is how the top 5 percent of the men escalate the relationship(s). No matter how attractive you might be, or how attracted she WAS to you, without this comfort phrase, the game is OVER. Let’s just be friends.

Once the attraction is established, we will have to move to the next stage where the women feel absolutely comfortable with you, at the same time maintaining the attraction vibe and the emotional connection. At this time, test her. Ensure she is totally into you through compliance test, probing sensitive questions about her, letting her be creative with her sexual imagination.

If she plays along, you are in. If not, continue the powers of attraction.

Where are we coming from? This initial stage of the attraction building is potent. This is where during the attraction phrase, you portray that you are NOT another friend, but a POTENTIAL partner. This is where a small shift in the perception earlier on can determine where the relationship will become.

Now you may ask how to establish that comfort?

To gain trust, build rapport and establish comfort with women in a shortest possible time is an art. You will find out more at our workshop ‘SUCCESS with Women”. As for now, note this:

• Get her into the feeling mode
  
• Test her with touch (More sensitive areas like back of neck, collar, inner thighs)
  
• Make her become feely (Both emotional and physical)
  
• Even better, entice her to touch you and tell her to hands off J
  

Many men fail at this stage when it comes to women.

Attraction without comfort you end up as a crush.

Comfort without attraction you end up as friend.

Attraction with comfort gives you newer meaning to the relationship(s).

Following these ‘simple’ steps will definitely ensure your success with women.

Come for our workshop; let us show it to you on real women.

You can bring your own woman along for us to show you to how to build comfort with her.

2nd thought, better not.

We are just kidding. Go learn how to ‘comfort’ your own woman.

Enjoy and be responsible,

BR
POA

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Get a date during this Christmas Season

Tested and proven tips from the workshop ‘Success with Women’

During this Christmas holiday season, many singles will be especially more attentive to look-out for potential partners/soul mates to complete their lives.

The fact that you are not in a relationship gets painfully clear, more during the festive season because we see more loved ones coming together, reminding us that we are still alone.

Why not let Powers of Attraction help you change this Christmas and get what you always wanted?

This holiday season can actually be a great time to start laying the basic groundwork for up coming relationships. After all, the women during this time of the year will be feeling lonely as well, and be more open than usual to social situations.

Enough said, so where can a man go and meet these beautiful lonely creatures?

Shopping for presents

The last minute shopping frantic can be much target rich than any other butter factory or clubs. The shopping malls are where all the action is. Yes.

Being the most extreme retail period of the year, the women will always running around to get some items done.

Location: Vivocity, Orchard, Suntec or any other malls

Women during shopping, or retail therapy state, are more open to social situation, it is just a matter of how you are going to do the approach.

Would you prefer a live demonstration?

Holiday activities

Everyone loves to take part in activities during the holidays, be it arts and craft, charity, social work or carolling. However, as much as you like these activities, why not consider one that has a healthy ratio of gender? Simply activities with lots of women involved.

Activties like volunteering for social organization to help raise money, community chest etc, is a one hit 2 kill activity. We can't tell you how many women you will meet through that type of volunteer work.

And it is easy to meet them, because they'd come up to you if you happen to be any appointment holder. Not only will you be doing a good cause, you will also be helping yourself meet some fantastic people.

Meeting is only the A1 basic, attracting them will be another story, but not as difficult as you think.

If you are serious about yourself, and have identified that your social skills with women could have been more fruitful with a little help, come to our workshop.

Why not invest and reward yourself with the best gift this Christmas?

After the workshop, you can tie a ribbon on yourself and be the best Christmas present ever for your woman.

We are not kidding. =)

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BR

POA

Imparting attraction is attractive

Success with women is like sports. The more you are well prepared, trained under correct supervision, with practice, soon you will excel.

Competition among men is inevitable, in school, during NS days, at work and sometimes among friends. Women are always in demand, as beauty lies in the lie of the beholder. (Subjected to the number of beholders.)

Men fight because of women since 12 000 BC. So if there is going to be a fight, so why not learn how to win?

Welcome to THE GAME. The game of life, dating and survival. Don’t blame the players, blame the game. Infact don’t blame the game, play the game and lead the game.

You know you need to win. You know you deserve the best for yourself. You deserve the BEST from POWERS OF ATTRACTION, and the slogan says it all:

ACCELERATE ATTRACTION AND SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.

To guide you accelerate attraction, to attract the women of your dream into your life. Let us help you gain this peace of mind and emotional wellbeing. Let us help you maintain your unique work/life balance- focusing on what YOU need- not what others think you need with women.

Let us help you direct your life and live to its fullest with women, not just react to circumstances. If you noticed the difference between Powers of Attraction Academy the other academy is that our focus is not primarily on women. Our focus is on YOU getting the women.

We don’t only talk about women, we want you to talk to women.

We don’t only want you to talk to women, we want women to talk to you.

With all due respect for the other institution telling the world how good they are at picking up women, putting them to bed within the same night etc… They are still telling you how good they are at with women, not how they are going to impart the skill set to groom you to be successful with women.

We can show off and we can show you how. Then you decide how you want to show off.

What do we want? Yes, we want YOU to be successful with women and improve the standard of ALL Singapore men. This is the real substance and true essence in coaching and training. You are the DEAL.

Spread the seed and spread the word.

And with the end game in mind where you will be taking more control of your dating life, we will start by helping you to identify and clarify what you really want with women.

Then, we help you to decide the best way for you to achieve it. Together, we look at the things that are holding you back from realizing your goals, things like limiting beliefs, emotional blocks, negative thoughts, old habits or behaviours and agree on what we will do to help you to eliminate them. And this is only the basic module of our training.

Your success with women starts when you take the first step to sign up for our workshop.

Take action now. No woman likes an indecisive and skeptical man.

Mark these date: 11^th Dec, 12^th Dec, 13^th Dec, 19^th Dec 2009.

This Christmas will be your most memorable one.

See you at the workshop.

http://www.powersofattraction.com.sg/

Hurry, don't lose out to the others.

Enjoy and be responsible,

POA

Dating women on halloween

Let’s welcome Halloween, the evening every woman is waiting for, to dress up and to have fun!

Gentlemen, it is one of the best time of the year for you as well, BUT only you do it right.

Let us share why this is such a beautiful event.

(A) RPG: Role Playing Girls

Everyone is grabbing for attention, especially the girls. High energy plays, lots of touching going on. Fun loving girls, double the energy, double the vibe. Opening to anyone is almost idiot proof, which makes the game so much easier. After all, if both of you are in costumes, one tip: continue the role play with her! Make up a story and play along!

Listen guys, this is important: The choice of your costume, the role you are playing. Choose an ALPHA, high energy and higher value character. Get into the role and experience the true Alpha male for a day. Do it. (After all, you are behind a mask, if you are wearing one). Approach as your character and talk to her character. Start the game and FEEL THE VIBE!

Imagine the entire possible scenario and imagine all the possibilities for the night.

(B) Women dress much sexier

Women take up roles and they fufil their roles when they act like one. What does this mean? What they dress normally is an extension of who they are. Go figure.

These women are bounded by general rules and specific rules in such stituations. They are Ready and Dressed to have fun. They will be a lot of social flirting and competing for attention, even among friends. It's the kind of night when a woman who doesn't normally go back with a new guy will make an exception. You are the new guy in her life.

(C) Friends who were brought along

A lot of women will be out partying who don't usually go out. That means more variety. The girl who has better things to do most Saturdays than another night at the club will still be out on Halloween. You should be out too. Starting tonight, Friday’s night.  

These are not the usual girls you see every weekend. Some of them are taking the opportunity of the occasion and are dressed to meet people, Quality people like us.

Along with the whole evening of fun, interaction, flirting and so on, there will also be a lot of FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY, ROLE PLAYS, and HANDLING TESTS going on. Of course, that is where all the fun and challenges comes in.

Don’t worry too much on the result for the evening; however you should equip yourself to the best for the Halloween, ready to meet the women out there.

Don’t frighten the girls, surprise them. Scare them and catch them, into your arms.

Happy Halloween!

Be scary and responsible

BR

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Multiple men dating a woman

Women of beauty are seldom found alone. We believe the woman of your interest is definitely not lacking in suitors.

As you might say, should the most good looking, powerful talking and handsome looking guy get the women among all competition?

Do you really think so? Look at those men with the women. Do they look very rich and handsome to you? Not ALL.

What about “POWERFUL TALKING”?

Now, can you talk? If the answer is yes, you can win the woman. Read on.

Know your subject

This has got to be the most important fact to take note. To win the woman and attract her into your life, you must know your competitors, reading between her lines and always be NON NEEDY of her attention.

Ask questions. The key to know women is through conversations and questioning. The more they talk about themselves, the more they feel about you.

Identify your competitors

The mindset or frame of a man is very important. How confident a man is will be in the way he demonstrates value to a woman.

There was this man who after seeing his woman of interest getting a little close to another man, starts questioning the woman who that man is, gets jealous and even bad mouthing.

If you are a woman, you will know this man is definitely insecure and possessive.

How can a woman ever fall for such an insecure and possessive man?

Closing

I will have to emphasize on the closing part as most men hesitate when it comes to closing. You want the woman to be yours, and when the moment is right, why do you have to wait and tell yourself later? If you have successfully built the attraction right from the start, do you still wait for an auspicious date for the closing?

Women are very sensitive when it comes to selection of quality men. Reckless men who take risks get slapped, and men who did their homework, plans and takes precise calculated risk often gets the women.

Embarrassment often happens when a man reads the interest from a woman wrongly. The only prevention will be not taking any action at all.

Question, ask yourself. Is the woman you like worth a little risk? Equipped with the right mindset and structure, I will say our risks are well managed and calculated.

The hardworking man who works smarts gets it all.

A farmer works hard, but is often equipped with minimum knowledge.

A businessman works hard and equipped with sufficient knowledge, gets smart.

Do your homework. Know your competitors. Win the woman, she is worth the work.

*This article has been researched and written from successful TRUE life stories.

Enjoy responsibly, woo wisely

POA

powersofattraction@gmail.com

*write in to enquire more about our upcoming workshop

Why should you get a coach to date women?

Men will always be men.

As approach a woman or walk into a club, you mind keeps spinning the same pattern of thoughts “What should I say?” or “Maybe I will be interrupting her?” Anxiety occurs and you stumble into a mental block.

A friend might be able to help you. Someone qualified as a COACH.

Singaporean invested several thousands of dollars for our education, Kindergarten, PSLE, O’levels, Degree, Masters, PHD etc..

Are they worth the investment? Has anyone ever doubt the real value of these paper qualifications?

Is it worth to invest a little more in a REAL COACH that guides you through the painful curve of courtship and attraction?

When you need him the most, the coach whispers into your eyes.
“Go approach that woman and shoot with an indirect opener.” Your limiting pattern has been broken.

Many times we need people to break our unproductive and limiting patterns.

As our local NLP coach Adam K mentions in his Neuro Linguistic Program “Modelling is the key to success.” And with the right mentor, sooner than you think, you are already excelling on your own. Some guys can do it alone, most guys can’t. I was one of them who needed help and was proud to admit that.

Old patterns die hard and they need a PROVEN STRUCTURE to help them Emerge from their sleeping state, to be able to successfully attract WOMEN of their dreams.

When I was much younger, I used to hang out with a lot of guy friends. Some of them were successful with women, some are not. Guessed what? Those that were successful with women eventually hang out less with the less successfully ones.

I belonged to the remaining lot. There is nothing wrong with hanging out daily with all boys.

There was this saying that struck me. ‘If you continue to do what you do daily, you will continue to get what you always get. “

True enough, most of us remain single and desperate (but most of them didn’t admit the desperate part =)

One fine day when I wanted to call this friend for lunch, which I realized, he is not available because he had an appointment with a lady.

Being a curious friend, I asked him how did he managed to get his date and in details WHO WHAT WHERE WHEN WHY and HOW. I analysed his every successful pattern, broke it down and integrated into my lifestyle. It got me a date! However, the date turns out disastrous.

This is where I decide to go further and improve on this aspect of my life. I decide to pay for a dating coach and commit myself to this study. To learn about the POWERS OF ATTRACTION.

How much was it? Really expensive.
Becoming successful with women for LIFE? Priceless.

You start to open up and break free from your regular patterns, along the way, all grey areas covered, and most importantly, a lot of conversations, dates and …. with woman, and women.

A dating coach guides you and opens up your perspective. They train you to see the world of how a woman views man, and how men who are successfully with woman see women.

Ask yourself, which state will you prefer to be in?
Feeling shameful to get a coach on how to get women?
Or hiding your shame of not having any quality women in your life?

Even the best men in his area of expertise need a little help.
We all need it sometimes.

How about talking to coaches who have live, breath and tested the local ground?

Drop us an email now and tell us how we can guide you to embark on this new journey.

Be quick, the women can’t wait.

POA

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Singapore population of 4.99m is older, more likely living alone

By channelnewsasia.com Posted: 28 September 2009

Singapore: The population of Singapore at the end of June stood at 4.99 million according to the 2009 Population Trends report.

The Department of Statistics report issued Monday also showed that there were 3.73m Singapore residents and 1.25m non-residents.

Singapore Residents and Permanent Residents formed 75% of the population, with the resident population growing 2.55% in 2009, from the 3.1% total growth over the previous year.

The statistics compiled through the register-based approach indicated that the number of Singapore citizens grew to 3.20m.

This is as the number of permanent residents rose to 0.53m while non-resident numbers eased to a growth of 4.8% compared to 10% seen in earlier years.

The Population Trends report also found that the Singapore population is now older with a median age of 37 years, as the baby boomers of the 1970s move into the 45-64 years age group.

There are also more women in Singapore as the gap widened in 2009 with females outnumbering males by 44,400.

While the number of marriages went up to 24,596 making it the largest number since 2000, it also turned out that more people were marrying late with many still single despite being in their thirties.

However, while more men did marry, more women were widowed, indicating the longer life-span of women.

Women were also giving birth later, delaying till the age of 30-34 years, with fewer families opting for a third or fourth child.

Households were small the report found, with a 10% rise in the number of people living alone.

CNA

Now dear gentlemen, does this mean? Either:

1. Modern women are more into non-commitment relationship till their thirties


2. They choose to be single because they are independent or....


3. Most Singaporean MEN doesn't know how to ATTRACT Women

The fact is that many men and women are still having great relationships out there, so don't WE think that the Average Frustrated Singapore men who haven’t had any success with women should wake up and know how to make a woman FEEL and START ATTRACTING?

Please, help these lonely beautiful matured ladies.

POA
powersofattraction@gmail.com

Date women online

Here is an article for online dating by Kenji, who has successfully dated many beautiful women met online. =)

Finding love online has been a very effective method in Singapore. Many of my friends met beautiful girls from the MySpace, MIRC and ICQ days. There is a main difference between the 21st century and the previous decade. Nowadays, profiles are more transparent in 2 ways. From facebook, we can actually see a lot more details like a persons interests, her friends and also the newtwork he has. The second point is that many profiles has multiple photos from her own camera or Tag from friends. Gone are the days of almost blind dates from the MIRC days. I used to remember my friend asking for height and weight from MIRC every girl she met during the 90s.

For online game, we need first of all to understand whats the purpose of Facebook, Tagged, friendster, Hi5 or MSN. The goal is to bounce, nothing more. It is almost impossible to build the seduction phase online, and building comfort is too time consuming. Attracting online is good, and only for the purpose of establising a bounce location.

Profiling

To do that, first of all the profile. Social proof through facebook. Convey 2 things on facebook: Friends, Fun

1) Friends

Add as many trusted friends as possible on facebook. People whom you can rely on to give you that extra comment on your wall to demonstrate your value. This is social proof. Go out partying and use indirect openers, social proof and cold reading.Bring along a camera. Making friends in clubs are easy (use the camera to open sets, ask them to take pictures), so often snap away partying shots with women and add them to facebook. This can be also with existing friends. Photos convey subtle hints of your standing and value with women, and this will demonstrate value to all other facebook friends.

2) Fun

Facebook has the groups function in the info section. Join groups that are fun or demonstrate your ambition, protective nature. Have photos of parties or travels.
One of my favourite is to use the "whats on your mind" section in facebook. Short and catchy phrases are sticky and invites curiosity for your friends to comment. Write an interesting short comment on your current event, or use sticky qoutes. Your friends will start to comment. Use this function to build a DHV (demonstration of higher value).


The Attraction phase in online dating

Various applications in facebook like Are you interested, and Meet Me in Tagged are good for casting the net wide. This is the opening of the attract phase. Of course a good photo is important but this is only the beginning. Getting a "YES" or "WINK" is only 10% of the game.

After the girl clicked "YES" on you what should be done? Most guys would comment about how hot the girl is...but the #rule is to never comment on looks. Commenting on fashion sense and style is good but never ever compliment a girl on her looks online, because hundered of guys will do the same.

Most online profile nowadays comes with complete details on theil likes and dislikes, groups they join, their friends etc. This means we already have most of the info to open with curiosity. Ask the women questions about the character if the girls from the info the try to portray from the profile. See the common grab points in the profile pictures and grab the common topics (eg. where they travelled to. This can easily leas to a DHV thread on travel stories).

After 2 IOIs from target (continuing the thread with you is also an IOI) you can add her to MSN already. The idea here is to convey non-neediness. Trying to bounce the target or number clos before IOIs conveys too much neediness and is to be avoided. Experiment with baiting the target and realeasing, freeze them out for a while, this conveys that you have options.Continue to thread and get 3 IOIs and then you can continue to bait with a bounce.

This then is the target of the online game and nothing else, the rest would be a topic for another day.

- Article by Kenji

Meanwhile,

enjoy and be responsible

powersofattraction@gmail.com

How to approach and attract women

Such an easy question, you might wonder. Imagine seeing this lovely woman across the bar, in the bookshop, the girl that always takes the same HDB lift with you every morning. Hmm… 20 wasted seconds of silence.

Easy, just walk up to her and say “Hello, my name is Dick Desperate. What is your name? I think you are very pretty. Can we be friends”?

What a winning statement. Keep your fingers crossed so that she will be attracted to you and invites you over to her house.

We are sure that you have tried the mentioned approach with 0.01% chances of success. (0.01% that she might be a she-man)

Let’s change an approach. Let’s do this instead.

Try a ‘Statement’ opening. Make an indirect comment. Say you are in a club. Walk up to the woman, even when she is on a group, talking over your shoulder as you are about to walk pass over and throw a casual statement at her. Watch us demonstrate LIVE.

*With a SUAVE body language, this casual statement can lead to another opinion, and end up as a stimulating conversation. Sweet.

Now compare your chances between these two styles of approach. We always stress and advocate on the structure. Now you can learn attraction through the proven structure. By following the structure, you will experience attraction like never before, and once you do, it doesn’t really matter what you ask the woman or how your approach her anyway.

Indirect approach works the best. How do we know? Reverse engineering of human behavioral that triggers attraction from women to men.

We have talked to many men who have done hundreds of approach, we have modeled whatever that works, fined tuned it and improved the art of approach and attraction into a structure.

Approach with style, indirect opening and curiosity. Attract with confidence, structure and substance. Then again, these approaches will never work, until you try it.

By the way, we will show you exactly live how we do this. And if ‘Mr K’ who is bald and not the most pleasant looking guy around can do it, so can you.

*results might vary

Till then, enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Moving on to other women

Attraction is a vapor and using accelerated attraction technique, we must know when to go in and shift the gear for the close. Timing and action is important. Attraction is built, comfort is established, however you feel that investment is only one sided.

What would you do?

Rule of thumb, if your target is still cold after several hours of interaction (total interacted hours), investment is only one sided and you are the only one that is making the effort to keep it advancing.

Move on and let her know she is not your only date.

If she is not investing and putting any energy in to you, get the hint and move on. Let’s go when you're not appreciated. If this situation does occur, try to figure out why. How did she perceive you? What turned her off? Learn from mistakes.

The only motivation and reason for not moving on is that there are no more women left on the island and your social circle is really limited.
(Adam had to put up with Eve because she is the only female around)

If the girl blocks the advancement of the relationship with negativity and tells you let’ just be friend, tell her that you already have lots of friends and BYE.

Seriously, how long do you want to hang around a girl who is not that interested in you?

The relationship will never get to where you want to go if you have been labeled into the LJBF zone.

And even if by some miracle the relationship did advance, she would be dictating the where, when and how much. If she wants to cut you off at any time, she can and you have to accept it because that is the implied agreement from the start. You gave her the baton; she is in complete control and will never be satisfied with you.

Picture a DOG leash on your neck.

How can we save ourselves from falling into the ‘Let’s Just Be Friends’ zone?

Cut off from her for a time period and start from scratch. Learn from your previous mistake and come back anew.

Easier said than done.

You are not the first as we have been there, done that.

Use our structure to win her back. We know it works.

Remember, a stranger is more intimately attractive than a close friend


Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

The Date with the woman, sealed with the kiss

It was a great evening so far with the woman that you have attracted.

Every word just came out right.

Every bounced location went just fine.

Laughter were exchanged, push and pull tension was followed closely. There were lots of laughing, humor was present, lots of touching and the attraction continued to follow through.

The night is still early… hmmm…

If at this point of time the proven structure has been executed perfectly, you would have won the woman’s emotional comfort.

The key state for the woman is for her to feel comfortable, build enough trust in you and still feel attracted.

3 basis phases of attraction and seduction in their respective flirting order:

Mental, Emotional, Physical

Did you portray enough values and matched what she was looking for?
Did we get enough interest indication?
Did she pass the sub conscious compliant test?
Did both of you felt fun together?

Watch her body language, gently glaze into her eyes.
Were her pupils dilated as she looked at you with amazement?

Observation of these interest indications have to be practiced and you will gain more experience through more interaction with the women. You will be able to spot the interest in her growing as you follow the proven structure.

Push and pull, continuous value demonstration, throwing subtle negs and bait her to be touchy with you, not you touching her too much. You can test with a light touch, and observe the feedback. Escalate more kino. Did she like it? Yes, go for more. If not, continue to portray more value and review the structure.

So now, at this point of time, when can we pop the question and go in for the closing?

Timing.

We are talking about experiencing deep intimate kissing with the attractive and attracted woman of your evening.

You must be able to spot once the window is open, throw in a disarming word or statement like, “If I have the chance, I will kiss you right now.”

As she lean in and says “what chance are you talking about?’ Yes, she is interested.

Go in NOW.

Lean in 90% for the kiss, wait…. ……………and let her close this 10%.
Let her feel she is part of this.

Be the first one to stop and reward her again if she wants to continue. Enjoy this intimate moment that you have been waiting for. Taste her sweetness and embrace the seductive attraction.

Respect her if she says ‘Not here.’
Tell her ’I know’.

So did you plan for a backup bounce location?

If not, you should.
If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.

All great men plan for their life goals, work, relationships and even play.
We are not naturals but we train hard towards competency.

Till then, we wish you a wonderful sexual date.


Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Dealing with the AFOG: Alpha Female of Group

When you open a set, it is necessary to identify the leader of the pack after the first few statements. Mainly the leader of the pack is the male, unless in a set of all females which you will have to identify.

Winning the AFOG is important, as she can decide and influence all her friends whether you and your wingman are of any value and fun to be with.

THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT.

To acknowledge and win her, else the set is lost. There is none like her, just like her counterpart the Alpha Male. Though they are many Alpha males and men who want to be like him, there are few genuine AFOG. Yes, there are, even in sets of mixed gender where the leader is the FEMALE.

Not too many women want to be like her, because they want to be liked by other women. AFOG are way beyond that. She doesn’t get her identity from other women, but one she alone defines. Both Alphas can be found in nature among the animal kind. Check out the wolves. Study wolf-pack behaviour. The AFOG is unique in that she’s not a bitch, she’s not a saint, and she simply wins.

Here are the 7 traits of an AFOG in the club

1. She is unafraid to use, and sometimes, exploit her femininity to get her way with men. See how she makes the men buy the drinks and carries her handbag

2. A woman who is completely in control of both the males and females

3. Ruthless, more so than a man, because you never see it coming, she’ll smile, then cuts you off

4. You immediately know when an AF walks in the room; enters at the same status as the leaders in the room, she glides in; close mouthed smile, eyes canvassing everything for the big swoop down

5. She is full of contradictions often keeping the male in a suspended state, not sure exactly what to do with her

6. She crushes her female competition to get the most wanted man in the room, in fact she revels in her power over men, in fact, men love her for it

7. Has a “clique” or a pack when ready, but AFOG are cave dwellers and truly blossom when with their complementary half, an Alpha Male. She is dominant over all men and women, except her Alpha male (Btw, they eat Beta men for breakfast)

The AFOG route in life is quite different from that of other women. She has come a long way, and often feels misunderstood as cold, a bitch or a whore.

To win the AFOG as your target, you must be a little more direct, exhibit some resistance and challenge her, else she will easily take you as a pushover. She likes the challenge and love the man of resistance that can match hers.

Dominating and fear of being dominated, let her feel that she is in control.

Beneath that tough amour, lies the soft and sweet jelly in her.

Penetrate that armour, and this lady is all yours to embrace.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

dating waitress and hired guns

Hired guns: Women employed by the management of the location for their beauty, examples like hostess, shooter girls, waitress, race queens etc. Normally with very good social skills and high EQ.

Sex sells. But you don’t have to sell sex. Millions of dollars have been generated by this use of women tactics to close the men on buying in. We understand this is reality.

Typical example places like night clubs. These hostesses makes the men feel special and they know how to bait them into coming back for more. Some men even think that the hired guns like them. Question is, how do they know they are for real?

These hired guns know what it takes for them to bait the men coming back for more. Pubs with young sweet waitress. The waitress engage the buying customers to a drink, continues playing and chatting with them to make them feel special and appreciated.

Some men eventually get the idea that these women are interested or ATTRACTED to them. These waitress like them for sure, as a customer or as someone attractive?

How can you tell their interest for you is purely professional or emotional?

Getting their numbers? Easy. Hugging or touching them? Easy.

Getting a date with them and bringing them out for a SPECIAL night? Tell me about it.

Do you need to buy lots and lots of drinks to prove your value? Are you trying to impress them with your generosity? The next thing you know, you are already ordering another bottle from them. You don’t remember you did that, but you did.

Nothing wrong with spending on alcohol, it is just that you might want to be clear on your intention of spending on that next bottle. Do we need to spend so much just to impress the waitress and get a number, only to know that she will only return your call during her ‘working hours’?

Gentlemen, let’s have fun. Treating these hired guns like waitress is not going attract them. Some of these ladies are very fun-loving people, it is just that most customers are really mediocre and behaves in such predictable manner , and she has to smile and pretend to like them, because it is their job. Poor thing.

If you really want to go on that special date with the hired gun, it will be a totally different structure.

Here is the game plan: Be different from the rest of the paying customers and learn how to read her real subconscious indicator of interest in you. Hint: Her eyes wouldn’t lie.

There are many interesting ktv pubs in Boat Quay that you and a wing might want to start off the night. Try this new mindset, it will be more FUN.

Drop me a line or two on your field report. Let’s share experience. We have LOTS more to share.


Meanwhile, enjoy and be responsible.

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Structure of social openings and dating

Just be yourself!

How many times have we heard this when we lament about how hard it is to get a girl friend, or even a date with a woman?

Just be natural and the lady will accept the way you are!

I am pretty sure our friends meant well.

Question is: Have they TAUGHT anyone on how to attract women before? What is their creditability? Are they natural at women and are they in the company of many?

So you go through your life, following their advice, being yourself and when you wake up tomorrow, it is still the same box of tissue lying there.

What if someone out there really teaches attraction with results proven? What if we can have a proven and tested structure as reference?

That’s right. Structures for approaching and opening. What and how to say it. We approach women with a strategy. Seek, scan and go for the kill. It all takes place in just seconds. They like it and really it doesn’t matter what you say, it is how you say it!

Talk to anyone in the group, used structured context (content may vary), win the interest and attraction using tested and proven social demonstration. Getting an Alpha male exhibition and higher value installation, the girl looks at you with indication of interest, it’s on.

Sounds easy?

No. At least the structure helps men to practise themselves on the field to self experience that interaction with women can be so much fun! As you get better with the process, be creative and share your own success opening and conversational interactions!

Like minded people come together, they form a community and GROW.

You know you have already decided to grow with us as a community.

You have the potential, we help each other to unleash.

Be yourself, be true to yourself.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Dial for that date and handling rejection

Women flakes. That’s normal. One minute they are fun, next minute they run. People change their minds, especially women. It can be for any reason.

In general, if women are polite but seem disinterested, a good response will be ‘Hey, its ok. Just recall the fun time we had, imagine we can be enjoying more but all the best to you. You have fun’.

Cool, no bitterness, no date, no deal.

Ah ha, unless she is rude, nasty or cold, then that is a different story. Listen here. We’ve all experience that one in a while and can be quite a shocker when it is such a major turn around from the first meet up.

An ideal response to her will be ‘Hi, you pretend to be rude and cold, anyway, you have fun’. Hang up.

Don’t cry its ok. If she's just being defensive or insecure you've given her a chance to apologize and come round. Notice the word "pretend" which implies you think she's not really this way, but capable of better. This way, there is a higher chance of her calling back for a make up date then just hanging on the phone ‘Hey baby, what’s wrong with you? Did I say anything wrong? Blab la…’.

Of course, some women are super-moody. Some have an initial interest, but their fears of intimacy or their frozen nature just takes over. Some just think they are entitled to treat the world like crap. If she calls you back with anything other than an apologetic tone, hang up on her and write her off. Trust me, you don't need the trouble or bother. Move on with the gift of your skills and find someone more fun, more pleasure, less bother.

Make sense? For you at home, reading this, understand that an important, but often neglected part of learning success with women is QUALIFYING. Social more, get more dates and learn to qualify the ones that you see potential and who you can imagine having a fun time with.

It is only ordinary for women with swings, bad days and feels moody too. Men are compassionate and understanding.

Exceptions to frozen, emotionally cold and stuck up women with too frequent wild mood swings. Good luck to them.

As we move up the learning curve, the gift to offer appreciates in value. Don't give it or continue to offer it to those who do not deserve the best.

Great men in Singapore are rare commodities. You are the prize. How much did you price yourself?



Dial the next one and have fun!

powersofattraction@gmail.com

More singles leaving it to chance to find their other half

Channel NewsAsia - Wednesday, June 24

SINGAPORE: More singles in Singapore are leaving it to fate to help find their other half, according to a recent survey conducted by local dating agency Lunch Actually.

While singles in Singapore cited more traditional methods of relying on peers or having family and relatives keep a lookout for that special someone, more have decided not to rush into things, and leaving it to chance.

In a survey conducted by the agency in 2005, only eight per cent said they left it to fate to decide who they will meet.

This group has grown since.

Now, 14 per cent of singles surveyed said they do not mind leaving it to fate to find that someone who shares the same values and interests.

Lunch Actually’s co—founder Violet Lim attributes this mindset change to media influence.

Said Lim: "(This is due to) the movies that we watch, the books that we read. So we feel that it is only right that we meet someone by chance, as opposed to taking a more proactive approach to meeting someone.

“And because so many people are hoping to meet someone by chance, the probability of that happening is very low. So as a result, why many are still single is because they have not met anyone that they want to be involved with.”

— 938 LIVE/yb


So gentlemen, are you the proactive or reactive type? What can we learn from this article? Leaving your life to fate?

Are you still waiting for your family or friends to introduce potential soul mates to you?
Think about it.

Did you realize just by being proactive you stand a higher chance of knowing more women out there?

Do you want to be the top 10% of the population who always gets the woman?
Imagine, because eventually you can.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Dating belief change and start connecting with women

Belief system

Today we know as we read on this article and recall the following ‘wonderful’ memories from our close friends/family

Love yourself the way you are and women will love you

One day, you will eventually find someone, just be patient. (Patient in my term means a sick man lying on the hospital bed)

‘Just be nice. Women love nice guys’. When I was much younger and ‘nice’, the women always added a ‘BUT’ behind every statement

Most men who are still single or only had been intimate with less than 5 women in their lives ignore the current reality and bury themselves in a shell of comfort. The sad fact is that, if for whatever reason their girlfriend left them, they immediately enter a state of what we call ‘Social Inept Emergency’.

At this state, the men will talk to themselves and pretend that they are happier being alone, hearing constant ‘head voices’ about how things will be ok, asking advice from supportive friends telling them ‘You will find someone better’.

Excuse me, how are these men who had been together with less than 5 women in their lives even going to build the instant attraction in the women they are going to meet in the future?

Please correct your mindset. Change is easy and fun. Change both your thoughts and behaviour. How shall we engage the women when we ourselves are not ready? Think about it.

There are many students our there with incredible theoretical knowledge on success with women. They collect books, DvDs, tapes, videos etc.. but they still can talk to women in the real world!

Connection on a deeper level

What are the emotional states you have to let women to experience for?

Get her to feel instead of act.

Safety, trust, comfort, connection, rapport.
You might be thinking, does comfort really let to a more intimate relationship?

Answer is: Yes and no. Too much comfort without attraction will let you to the ‘just be friends’ zone. Knowing how to balance attraction with comfort is the key. Give, lead and let go, push and pull at the right timing.

The magical thing is women are drawn to emotional situations that they cannot figure out. It challenges their powers and when it comes to emotions, they NEED to find out.

Men make many mistakes when challenging their emotions. They neg (tease in logically funny ways) too much and questioned with too much ‘Why’s. Men don’t have to land her in the state where she feels a fine line between loving and hating you.

Switch this behaviour and focus on a variety of ways to make her feel fantastic. The intensity of the feeling could be different; still the emotional trigger is pulled every time.

As you touch her more on a deeper emotional need, with variety, there will be no single moment where she will think you are in negative thoughts or loss of confident.

Why settle for a life of mediocrity? Blow away the dust and we know we are going out there tonight.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com