Here is an article for online dating by Kenji, who has successfully dated many beautiful women met online. =)
Finding love online has been a very effective method in Singapore. Many of my friends met beautiful girls from the MySpace, MIRC and ICQ days. There is a main difference between the 21st century and the previous decade. Nowadays, profiles are more transparent in 2 ways. From facebook, we can actually see a lot more details like a persons interests, her friends and also the newtwork he has. The second point is that many profiles has multiple photos from her own camera or Tag from friends. Gone are the days of almost blind dates from the MIRC days. I used to remember my friend asking for height and weight from MIRC every girl she met during the 90s.
For online game, we need first of all to understand whats the purpose of Facebook, Tagged, friendster, Hi5 or MSN. The goal is to bounce, nothing more. It is almost impossible to build the seduction phase online, and building comfort is too time consuming. Attracting online is good, and only for the purpose of establising a bounce location.
Profiling
To do that, first of all the profile. Social proof through facebook. Convey 2 things on facebook: Friends, Fun
1) Friends
Add as many trusted friends as possible on facebook. People whom you can rely on to give you that extra comment on your wall to demonstrate your value. This is social proof. Go out partying and use indirect openers, social proof and cold reading.Bring along a camera. Making friends in clubs are easy (use the camera to open sets, ask them to take pictures), so often snap away partying shots with women and add them to facebook. This can be also with existing friends. Photos convey subtle hints of your standing and value with women, and this will demonstrate value to all other facebook friends.
2) Fun
Facebook has the groups function in the info section. Join groups that are fun or demonstrate your ambition, protective nature. Have photos of parties or travels.
One of my favourite is to use the "whats on your mind" section in facebook. Short and catchy phrases are sticky and invites curiosity for your friends to comment. Write an interesting short comment on your current event, or use sticky qoutes. Your friends will start to comment. Use this function to build a DHV (demonstration of higher value).
The Attraction phase in online dating
Various applications in facebook like Are you interested, and Meet Me in Tagged are good for casting the net wide. This is the opening of the attract phase. Of course a good photo is important but this is only the beginning. Getting a "YES" or "WINK" is only 10% of the game.
After the girl clicked "YES" on you what should be done? Most guys would comment about how hot the girl is...but the #rule is to never comment on looks. Commenting on fashion sense and style is good but never ever compliment a girl on her looks online, because hundered of guys will do the same.
Most online profile nowadays comes with complete details on theil likes and dislikes, groups they join, their friends etc. This means we already have most of the info to open with curiosity. Ask the women questions about the character if the girls from the info the try to portray from the profile. See the common grab points in the profile pictures and grab the common topics (eg. where they travelled to. This can easily leas to a DHV thread on travel stories).
After 2 IOIs from target (continuing the thread with you is also an IOI) you can add her to MSN already. The idea here is to convey non-neediness. Trying to bounce the target or number clos before IOIs conveys too much neediness and is to be avoided. Experiment with baiting the target and realeasing, freeze them out for a while, this conveys that you have options.Continue to thread and get 3 IOIs and then you can continue to bait with a bounce.
This then is the target of the online game and nothing else, the rest would be a topic for another day.
- Article by Kenji
Meanwhile,
Finding love online has been a very effective method in Singapore. Many of my friends met beautiful girls from the MySpace, MIRC and ICQ days. There is a main difference between the 21st century and the previous decade. Nowadays, profiles are more transparent in 2 ways. From facebook, we can actually see a lot more details like a persons interests, her friends and also the newtwork he has. The second point is that many profiles has multiple photos from her own camera or Tag from friends. Gone are the days of almost blind dates from the MIRC days. I used to remember my friend asking for height and weight from MIRC every girl she met during the 90s.
For online game, we need first of all to understand whats the purpose of Facebook, Tagged, friendster, Hi5 or MSN. The goal is to bounce, nothing more. It is almost impossible to build the seduction phase online, and building comfort is too time consuming. Attracting online is good, and only for the purpose of establising a bounce location.
Profiling
To do that, first of all the profile. Social proof through facebook. Convey 2 things on facebook: Friends, Fun
1) Friends
Add as many trusted friends as possible on facebook. People whom you can rely on to give you that extra comment on your wall to demonstrate your value. This is social proof. Go out partying and use indirect openers, social proof and cold reading.Bring along a camera. Making friends in clubs are easy (use the camera to open sets, ask them to take pictures), so often snap away partying shots with women and add them to facebook. This can be also with existing friends. Photos convey subtle hints of your standing and value with women, and this will demonstrate value to all other facebook friends.
2) Fun
Facebook has the groups function in the info section. Join groups that are fun or demonstrate your ambition, protective nature. Have photos of parties or travels.
One of my favourite is to use the "whats on your mind" section in facebook. Short and catchy phrases are sticky and invites curiosity for your friends to comment. Write an interesting short comment on your current event, or use sticky qoutes. Your friends will start to comment. Use this function to build a DHV (demonstration of higher value).
The Attraction phase in online dating
Various applications in facebook like Are you interested, and Meet Me in Tagged are good for casting the net wide. This is the opening of the attract phase. Of course a good photo is important but this is only the beginning. Getting a "YES" or "WINK" is only 10% of the game.
After the girl clicked "YES" on you what should be done? Most guys would comment about how hot the girl is...but the #rule is to never comment on looks. Commenting on fashion sense and style is good but never ever compliment a girl on her looks online, because hundered of guys will do the same.
Most online profile nowadays comes with complete details on theil likes and dislikes, groups they join, their friends etc. This means we already have most of the info to open with curiosity. Ask the women questions about the character if the girls from the info the try to portray from the profile. See the common grab points in the profile pictures and grab the common topics (eg. where they travelled to. This can easily leas to a DHV thread on travel stories).
After 2 IOIs from target (continuing the thread with you is also an IOI) you can add her to MSN already. The idea here is to convey non-neediness. Trying to bounce the target or number clos before IOIs conveys too much neediness and is to be avoided. Experiment with baiting the target and realeasing, freeze them out for a while, this conveys that you have options.Continue to thread and get 3 IOIs and then you can continue to bait with a bounce.
This then is the target of the online game and nothing else, the rest would be a topic for another day.
- Article by Kenji
Meanwhile,
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