To Love is to Let go

As much as the saying goes, is your glass half full or half empty?

Now, what does that really means to you when it comes to matters of the heart, where the glass is your heart and the water, the emotions or love.

Before any one can start the journey of self discovery, Powers of Attraction or Life Mastery, the number one thing that all Masters will advice is:

Let go.

To change or accept anything about yourself in our lives, the best place to start is to embrace the art of letting go. And this is a lifelong learning skill.

Learning to let go of knowledge and allow the wisdom to stay.

Letting go of what 'I know' allows us to Discover.

Knowing is useless, unless an action is taken, comes along the discovery.

It is like knowing you NEED to empty the glass versus actually emptying it is different.

The difference is the experience.

I have found this very inspiring article about the CB CRAB (Coast Blue) and I will like to share this story with everyone who wants to let go, move on and grow.

The Coast Blue Crab

I am often reminded of how a Gulf Coast Blue Crab grows. When it outgrows its present shell, it has to shed this old shell and grow a new one. IT HAS TO LET GO COMPLETELY, hold on to absolutely nothing all the way down to its fingers and claws. It has to let go of the struggle itself.

But can you imagine having a choice in this situation? I am afraid I would want to hang on to the old comfortable shell until the end...wouldn't you? Just think of yourself, knowing that to live, you have to let go of your comfort. familiarity and protection. But also knowing that to stay in the old shell would limit you so to the point that eventually you would suffocate and die.

Growth for the crab is very difficult. It has to risk shedding its old familiar shell, become a soft crab again and be vulnerable. To survive, it has to go to the bottom, go into the mud and be associated with other crabs also on the bottom. The surviving crab must learn to have faith that its shell will become firmer and larger each hour. It develops a faith in its pain while it is growing and maturing and learns to believe that it will be prepared for what is currently unknown to it.

Holding on is not only about holding on to the impression that past relationships, past experience and moments created. It is also about holding on to a belief that no longer serves us, just like reluctant to let go of the old shell of the crab.

This can go on for days, months, or unknowingly, years can pass.

Changes are always taking place and there might be pain going through these changes. It's the excitement of the growth that motivates the pain.

The possibilities that can happen:

Letting go of anger gives you happiness in new direction

Letting go of resentment gives you space to love

Letting go of former relationship, gives you options for many more

and letting go sets you free and open up your heart.

If you don't let go, you may one day find yourself holding on to an empty, dying old shell. When we cling on to someone else, we are also slowing him or her down and ourselves as well.

Just think of the crab whenever we are stuck, are we choosing to hold on to our OLD SHELL or do we want to let go and look forward to embrace this new change?

Remember, time and tide waits for no man.

Your woman do not deserve to wait for the man where he takes his own time to let go.

Your woman deserve a man who is FREE with an OPEN HEART and READY for new POSSIBILITIES.

Letting go does not means the women, the knowledge, the experience is gone forever.

It only means that you treasure it important enough to set it free and come back if it's meant to be.

With this arrives a new horizon of wisdom, strength and love in your frame.

We can always recreate a new relationship with existing someone or someone new upon letting go.

And this choice, you can let it happen right NOW.

Choose and decide, because it's never decided until an action is taken.

Be responsible for your life,

Be attractive.

Paul

www.powersofattraction.com.sg

Emotional connection with women

Warning!

More then 80% of the local men out there have been repeating the same mistakes over and over again with women and they complained that the women are not in their mood, having a bad day or just not interested.

Do you know why the women are not interested?

See, hear and feel for yourself.

Men:

What's your name? My name is Dick and I work in a Ban/student of NUU/Serving Army etc..

So what do you do for a living?

Where do you stay?

Oic, so you must hang out here alot. Cool.

You look pretty cute/adorable/pretty/gorgeous/charming bla bla bla bla...

Can we be friends? Can I have your phone number so we can hang out sometimes?

We can go to Starbucks for coffee one day and we will have interesting conversations.

Why not? We can have good times together you know.

Nothing wrong with these conversations, but the important impact here is that these questions or conversational threads DO NOT TRIGGER EMOTIONS or Attraction in women.

Period.

Let's now Transform the moment by using Emotional words in our conversation. Re create the EXPERIENCE for their every moment.

Men:

Hey, you must have an Awesome name, let me guess, is it Natalie?

A wild guess can be Fun sometimes, don't you agree?

So you are here to EXPLORE the place and Have Fun here tonight, I realized the people around have an AMAZING vibe about them, just like you do.

Do what do you do for fun? What makes you FEEL REWARDING about what you do?

Me? I RESTORE men's broken heart, and EMPOWER their lives to new success, unfortunately I don't get paid well, I guess life's PASSION is more than just money.

I FEEL we both can CONNECT and CLICK pretty well, we MUST get together for coffee next week, I know a place where they serve the BEST coffee, and we can have so many STIMULATING CONVERSATIONS together.

Let's INDULGE ourselves next week, let me REWARD you for being such a WONDERFUL lady today, you definitely BRIGHTEN my day.

I will give you a miss call right now, save my number too. I love your FEMININE smile, just REALISED that about you. Sure there is more of what we can DISCOVER about each other. Catch up next week.

Dear POA friends,

There are choices in the words we use in our everyday lives. In life, the ones with the most knowledge, choices of words and skills, rightfully applied, gets success with the RIGHT attitude.

One of biggest challenge that most men face right now is their own LIMITING BELIEFS. They allow themselves to be who they are based on the existing skills they have, conversational styles, choices of words they use to shape their IDENTITY.

FACT: we are not how we speak, what skills we have, what work we do or what names we are called.

We are FREE Man. Freedom to GROW and BE BETTER everyday.

We have choices in life, to continuously learn, pick up new styles of presentation to be a better self. Everything in life we have choices. Pick up a new skill today, get new results tomorrow.

The women we want to love deserves better, the attractive men works hard and strives towards perfection everyday, knowing there is no such thing as perfect and still EMBRACES the ATITUDE.

A simple fact: If You are not interested or emotionally evoked in YOUR conversations, trust me, no women nor men will.

There is one simple step YOU can Do right now to take this Journey of Attraction.

Show up for our Secrets of Getting Girls Seminar and DISCOVER the LIMITLESS POSSIBILITIES you can Pick Up and LEARN to EMPOWER a new SUCCESSFUL dating life.

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To the best of MANKIND, because the women does not like a nice guy.

They love an ATTRACTIVE MAN.

Success with women, together

Paul Teo

www.powersofattraction.com.sg

Your Ultimate Summary to getting Hired Guns

Many festive seasons are just around the corner. Places will be packed during the weekends and for those guys out there who wants to find a target rich place during the weekdays, you can try those Hired Gun places.

(Thai, China, Taiwan discos, Tiao Huey Clubs)

Let's all have taste of the Hired Gun ladies and here is your long awaited guide to getting these lovely ladies.

Ultimate Guidelines

Talk to them first before they engage you. Chances are pro active customers who initiate the opening have a much higher chance of the HG dissociating them as customers.

lead the context of the conversation for the first 10 mins at least. Most HG have a preselected script for them to build attraction with customers. Ignore the HG's conversational thread and start your own. Be very un related to her work, nationality, where she stays, what's her name etc. Start thread like do you like fruits or ask the super hero question, which power does she prefers, flight or invisibility? Design your own.

Break state of the HG frame. most HG are conditioned and anchored not to date customers, hence if you buy or pay anything for her like the rest of the customers, you will be anchored as just another customer. the HG will like you, however, the powers of provider will be your only source of attraction. Be careful with that frame.

Timing of your visit is important. Month ends, weekends are days where the HG gets very pressured to 'clock' their sales. Most of the time they will be in their HG mode, persuading customers to buy drinks. You don't want to be a customer that helps her to meet her sales target, you want to be her lover.

Stay away from the 'Dirty Old Man' seats, where the tables you can see the dancers very clearly on stage. Having said that, if you have a strong frame to dissociate her from you being another Dirty Old Man, else not jeopardize your chances. Get another seat where you can get social proof, eg near the bar counter or where the manager's friends are.

Give her a green light by associating that you have HG girl friends or sisters. Allow her to know that you are ok with HG and of course, treat her just like any girl you met in the library. Your DHv stories should be subtle and pre selection in this case relate more to HG girlfriends.

You get the idea. Remember, HG are just like any other women, it is just that you have to dissociate her from her HG mode.

Who knows, the hot dancer your friends have been talking about might just be your next lover.

Enjoy and be responsible,

PY
POA academy

7 Effective Habits of Kissing

#1 Privacy:

You should be already at C3 stage of before pulling this trigger. Kissing her in the car park..., in your car, or in the back alley of a club/bar when just two of you are alone, before hopping onto cab without a huge crowd looking at you two make out allows you to transition the romantic first kiss into S1, S2 stages more easily later on.

#2 Know When She's Ready:
In C1-C3 game, you need to be doing a lot of kino escalation to make her ready. My personal rule is, if she is not happily sticking to you super close in your personal space in the kissing distance, don't bother kissing. Kino escalate (use stupid reasons if necessary) more until there is nothing left to do except kissing.

#3 Handling Token Rejections - Power of Playfulness:
If you get rejected in any of the kino escalation steps, it's mostly a token resistance. She is going out on a bloody date with you because she likes you at the first place. Just laugh it off so you can try something else later. Say -- "Did you wash your hand?" "There is a spider on your shoulder." "You just remind me of my dog la." Etc. Personally, I do one step back, two steps forward. Eventually, your hand will be many steps into her skirt.

#4 Tempo
Some women like long lingering romantic kisses. Some women prefer to be ravished silly cavemen style. You can do both. Give her a gentlemanly sensual kiss first. Try nibbling her lips gently. Try licking her lips. If she responds well to you speeding up, and sticks her tongue out for you, reward her by doing the same. Eat her up if she is signalling you to.

#5 Head Job
Whether inside or outside bedroom, women finds men who are in control sexy. Tilt her head down and kiss her from on top-ish position if you want to dominate her (safe choice for a first kiss). If you get a very playful girl who can't wait to kiss you, (especially if she's player type) make her sit on top of your legs (assuming you are sitting down) and let HER kiss you.


#6 Tongue Control
In medieval times, maidens were trained to hold a coin in their lips for as long as possible without staining it with any saliva. It trains their lip muscles for biting strength, and no saliva. It's also to prevent coming across as horny sluts with all tongue out when they first time kiss that gentlemanly knight who will marry her later. I'm pretty sure most girls in Asia did not go through that training, most girls from Shanghai Dolly definitely did not. Personally, I play safe because you can never "undo" the image of a horny uncle who is trying to shove his tongue in. I would try licking her lips. If she sticks out a bit to lick mine back too, that means she's game and I'd french her all the way.

Playing safe never failed me. Once had a girl who told me I'm a lousy kisser because I didn't give her any tongue on our 1st kiss. She gets it a bit too much for subsequent ones in bed, and no longer complains.

#7 Ending the Kiss, and Shifting Gear into S Game:
As PoA guys, our frame should be that we're the prize. She is being rewarded by letting her have a kiss from you. So you are always in control and dictate when it ends, and drive/drag her home for next goal, S3. If she's that high and horny frenching you all out with all that saliva exchange, bloody bring her home/hotel already and give her what she wants. Be the first to stop the kiss. Be the first to hang up her calls. Always watch your investment % and cut it off early to err on the safe side. Only one exception, you can let her be the first to come in S3.

To know more about the secrets of going for the kiss, drop us an sms 8500 9881

Let's meet up for a causal chat to improve your dating life.

Game on,

Maxxa

powersofattraction.com.sg

Ultimate Breakthrough Attraction

It is a beautiful day.

As you carry on your daily routine life, this woman happens to cross your path for the very first time.

She walks passes you and you thought to yourself:
...
Wow, she is

Gorgeous
Beautiful
Amazing
Stunning
Pretty
Sexy
Hot
Sweet
Cute


But wait,

Now make a CHOICE.

Will she:

Just walked out of your life forever?

OR

Have you even wonder that she COULD POSSIBLE
Be your NEXT GIRLFRIEND?

Listen:


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To ATTRACT anyone that you always wanted?


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We provide up to over 24 hours/6 months of mentoring, coaching and follow up, along with plenty of hours of hands-on practice and field trip (social experimenting with real women) (Valued $120/hour, up to $2880).

Mentoring is the best way where you learn and accelerate attraction most efficiently!
The workshop will also covers the following:

* Personal grooming and presentation advice (Valued $299)
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Criteria for the workshop:

- Male residing in Singapore
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How to strike a lasting impression and get her number in 10 minutes

Dear friend,

More often than not, we men in Singapore desire a healthy social life and quality relationships with women. However how many men actually do have the kind of social life that they deserve? Countless nights have we spent alone, hanging out at orchard road with the same... group of friends, stared at our dream girl from afar (occasionally she catches you looking and the situation turns awkward). I understand because I was one of you, constantly getting rejected by every girl I even mustered up enough courage to chase. The truth is, in the conservative Asian society, from childhood we are probably left to learn the social arts by ourselves, with vary degrees of success.

There is a way out of this, isn’t there? It is a simple way, as of any other aspects of our life, we have to take action. The attraction arts are a quick way to develop our social muscles, accelerating our mastery over relationships with both women and men. Start to notice the change in yourself once you undertake this journey of personal development with us. On behalf of POA academy, I present to you our own weekly In-Field Coaching(IFC) sessions. The road is meaningful and rewarding, as you will notice, once you change the way you see the world, the world will see you differently.

Concepts to be taught in chronological order for IFC sessions:

1. Limiting beliefs
2. Overcoming approach anxiety
3. Approach Mechanics(trajectory of approach + 3 second rule)
4. False Time Constraint(FTC)
5. Rooting
6. Openers
7. Small talk with random stranger or group
8. Approach with intention to attract
9. DHV techniques
10. Neg theory

At the end of the session, you will emerge more confident, and comfortable with your social environment. The immediate effect instills you with the basic skills of attraction, and now the whole world is before you just wait for you to get to know them. It is the first step to design and achieve you ideal social life, that you deserve. In the long run, become those ladies’ men that you have always admired and wished to be.

These guys are definitely not born to be good with women, they learnt, and the million-dollar question is, will you learn?

Take action, take control of your own social life, your reality.

Regards,


JH

82039299
admin@powersofattraction.com.sg

Getting women's number to a date

You have her number now. Text messaging alone does not form deep lasting relationship. Most guys think that they should be constantly texting the girl because she is replying. This is SO Wrong. For every sms sent, it only leads to the ultimate purpose: To meet her.

Meeting in person has just so many advantage compared to texting alone. To feel her, to look into her eyes, to smell her, touch her, kiss, listen and see her smile. To seek validation from the reply of the girl’s sms is unhealthy in the long run.

To accomplish the powers of attraction through sms, points to be taken when exhibiting from your frame, create more attraction, establishing comfort and future pacing, creating a smile on her, leading to more possibilities and fun of meeting up with you. Coming from this frame as an attractive man, it only leads her to initiating a date with you.

Bingo.

If you are about to send a text and it isn’t going to serve this functions then do NOT send it! You do not want to become the friendly text buddy who she never hangs out with. It is better to try to move it forward and it fail than to constantly be hoping and wishing that because she still texts you back there is a chance.

This does not mean that every text you send should be an invite to hang out. That would kill attraction and show neediness. It simply means have a purpose in mind when you text and do not send unnecessary texts to a girl just for the sake of texting her.

Periodic texting supports you when you are not able to meet up with her over a long period of time, example work, other dates and so on. This text maintenance style is to prolong the attraction window and continues to keep the comfort strong. Once the timing for you is right, Pull the trigger and the date will be secured.

First sms

Objective: Put a smile on her face. It takes her out of the monotony of everyday life. You are her sweet escape even if it is just for a moment.

Eg: What’s cooking? I think you should paint me a picture today…I’ve always liked dinosaurs ;)

That should do the trick for the women to return a smile.

Guidelines for IOI

Text or phone guideline

She sounds excited and teases you
She initiates text/phone call interactions
She responds to text/phone calls quickly
She readily engages you in conversation, latches onto your hooks
She answers your questions

Once more than 3 IOI are present, pull the trigger by asking her to join you this Sat or Sun evening.

Shit tests

Girls sometimes will ask hard questions to see if a guy will stand up to them. Guys often disregard their own beliefs and preferences by agreeing with the girl they are pursuing in an attempt to create a fake commonality.

They believe this will make her like them more. This is not the case. She will find you weak and assume she can walk all over you. It is better to voice your opinion when you disagree.

There is no need to apologize for it. It is not a big deal. Agree to disagree or come to a compromise.

However, do not disagree with her just for the sake of arguing because then you become annoying. Know what you want, need, and desire and be ok with voicing them even if she disagrees with your tastes.

Unless you are in the middle of emotionally connecting with a girl, you should be CONSTANTLY giving off a lighthearted persona about your self.

Coming from a light hearted approach, the sms rules works just as well as the date itself.

Focusing outwards on the women while maintaining your attractive frame in a light hearted manner.

Right now gentlemen, choose your dates. Have an awesome weekend!

Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul

POA academy

Finding my success with woman

The day when I found out about attraction, the day when I saw POA(Powers of Attraction Academy) on the internet, the day I stepped into Novena Goldhill Centre into the POA office… those days seem so long ago but still yet so fresh and memorable in my mind.

Although it is such a sensitive topic to mention, I shall go straight to the point, because my purpose for this note is clear. A significant percentage of men out there are skeptical and critical of the attraction arts that Paul, Uncle S and Jacob are so faithfully imparting to the next generation. But why is this so? In my personal opinion, there are the following 2 main reasons.

There are too many self-proclaimed “Pickup Artists” out there with no actual skill and experience, it makes the image of the attraction arts go really sour. The people are confused, they cannot distinguish between the quality arts at POA and the hoaxes, scams.

The “Mask of Pride” that most guys wear. We do not wish to admit our incompetencies, which is a basic human nature. Especially when it comes the the sensitive areas of dating, interpersonal skills and soft skills. However, it is not our fault if we tend to put on that Mask, but shame on you if you are aware of the Mask but not actively make an effort to remove it.

It has always been my personality to to learn new things, try out new stuff, meet new people, and I am very glad that it allowed me to enter POA. Up till date, my journey has been amazing, nothing short of wonderful. I can still recount the countless nights of coaching, thinking of new openers and routines, approaching and getting cruel rejections, finally the sessions of coaching and AAR(after action review) by Jacob.

Quoting Paul,” The Road is long but purposeful.”

So, Let this Friday 11^th March 2011

be the day for you where you step into a new world,

where FANTASY becomes A REALITY.

It was one of my best decisions in life, and I am CONFIDENT it will be YOURS too.

Drop POA academy an SMS right now and find out how they can EMPOWER your DREAM LIFESTYLE.

Lastly, to conclude, I shall emphasize my purpose of this note.

If I have not done this for myself, where will I be?

If you are not doing something for yourself, where are you going to be?

Enjoy, and be responsible

JH

POA academy

82039299