As much as the saying goes, is your glass half full or half empty? Now, what does that really means to you when it comes to matters of the heart, where the glass is your heart and the water, the emotions or love.
Before any one can start the journey of self discovery, Powers of Attraction or Life Mastery, the number one thing that all Masters will advice is:
Let go.
To change or accept anything about yourself in our lives, the best place to start is to embrace the art of letting go. And this is a lifelong learning skill.
Learning to let go of knowledge and allow the wisdom to stay.
Letting go of what 'I know' allows us to Discover.
Knowing is useless, unless an action is taken, comes along the discovery.
It is like knowing you NEED to empty the glass versus actually emptying it is different.
The difference is the experience.
I have found this very inspiring article about the CB CRAB (Coast Blue) and I will like to share this story with everyone who wants to let go, move on and grow.
The Coast Blue Crab
I am often reminded of how a Gulf Coast Blue Crab grows. When it outgrows its present shell, it has to shed this old shell and grow a new one. IT HAS TO LET GO COMPLETELY, hold on to absolutely nothing all the way down to its fingers and claws. It has to let go of the struggle itself.
But can you imagine having a choice in this situation? I am afraid I would want to hang on to the old comfortable shell until the end...wouldn't you? Just think of yourself, knowing that to live, you have to let go of your comfort. familiarity and protection. But also knowing that to stay in the old shell would limit you so to the point that eventually you would suffocate and die.
Growth for the crab is very difficult. It has to risk shedding its old familiar shell, become a soft crab again and be vulnerable. To survive, it has to go to the bottom, go into the mud and be associated with other crabs also on the bottom. The surviving crab must learn to have faith that its shell will become firmer and larger each hour. It develops a faith in its pain while it is growing and maturing and learns to believe that it will be prepared for what is currently unknown to it.
Holding on is not only about holding on to the impression that past relationships, past experience and moments created. It is also about holding on to a belief that no longer serves us, just like reluctant to let go of the old shell of the crab.
This can go on for days, months, or unknowingly, years can pass.
Changes are always taking place and there might be pain going through these changes. It's the excitement of the growth that motivates the pain.
The possibilities that can happen:
Letting go of anger gives you happiness in new direction
Letting go of resentment gives you space to love
Letting go of former relationship, gives you options for many more
and letting go sets you free and open up your heart.
If you don't let go, you may one day find yourself holding on to an empty, dying old shell. When we cling on to someone else, we are also slowing him or her down and ourselves as well.
Just think of the crab whenever we are stuck, are we choosing to hold on to our OLD SHELL or do we want to let go and look forward to embrace this new change?
Remember, time and tide waits for no man.
Your woman do not deserve to wait for the man where he takes his own time to let go.
Your woman deserve a man who is FREE with an OPEN HEART and READY for new POSSIBILITIES.
Letting go does not means the women, the knowledge, the experience is gone forever.
It only means that you treasure it important enough to set it free and come back if it's meant to be.
With this arrives a new horizon of wisdom, strength and love in your frame.
We can always recreate a new relationship with existing someone or someone new upon letting go.
And this choice, you can let it happen right NOW.
Choose and decide, because it's never decided until an action is taken.
Be responsible for your life,
Be attractive.
Paul
www.powersofattraction.com.sg
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