Seasons of attraction
Having
being able to attract anyone anytime is a skill that comes with responsibility.
our level of responsibility comes along with season, as we constantly grow and
learn about it, from ourselves, from role models, from God.
Our role in
life is to inspire, influence and impart. To others, to our children, juniors,
subordinates, community you name it. We may not be conscious every moment but
we are influencing.
The
energy that we carry from our believes, values live with us and within us.
Strangely, little animals (pet dogs especially) can feel it, children feel it.
Women can pick it up. Easily. it's just like confidence. You cannot fake it.
Eventually people who know you long enough will realize that you are either a
sincere friend or a very good actor.
We are talking
about long lasting congruence and confidence. And how do we begin to develop
from nothing? We don't. We all have it from the start but choose to believe we
lost it along in life.
People changes through relationships.
Friendship, families, romantic relationships. When you love and treasure a
relationship, a part of you is invested into him/her and you both become one.
Even in friendships. Every time a relationship fails, she takes away a part of
you and you take away a part of him.
You go through
cycles of emotions, you evolve and grow. An inter-personal experience that is
purely exclusive and personal. Experiential leaning.
Nobody
can even teach that, and our creator made us this way to feel the way we
should.
A man in his
teens may feel as much as a man in his late four ties should that be a loss in
a relationship, break up, death or failed marriage/relationship. The recovery
is very much dependent on his responsibility to his community, career and
family who needs and want him to pick up fast.
Having said, we
all need time to go through the richness of emotions.
There can't
be joy without sorrow
Happiness
without being sad
Feeling
abundance with falling desperate
Accomplishment
without failing
Courage
developed fully from fear
Having clarity of purpose in life,
needing to first go through seasons where everything seems lost and
doubtful.
And if you are
feeling and experiencing either, please give yourself the gift of going through
100% and take all the time you need to recover. There is a reason for what
we need to go through to develop roots for the better
There
will always be the sunshine after every rain.
How
do you enjoy the rain while you hide indoor or carefully stride with an
umbrella?
Drench
yourself in the bad weather, for soon you will have to keep your umbrellas,
because the sun will soon rise again
Faithfully
yours,
Signing of as
your Attraction Coach
