Congruence on being attractive to women

You will know when you meet an attractive man, who is both equally attractive to men and women, and is consistent in all areas of his life.  

Their energy, passion and confidence radiant from within themselves.  

Attractive men are congruent. Superheros are congruent. 

So what does congruent mean?

In agreement or harmony. In other words, living a life in alignment to values, beliefs, vision, mission, desire, goals and dreams. Knowing where you are and where to go.

Focusing on the goal, example: to be an attractive man is just the end result, just like the intension of becoming successful with women.

One cannot just have intension to be successful and attractive just by wishing for it to happen.

Be clear of WHY do you have this GOAL.

Recognize the surface ego needs versus our deep values and mission.

To establish congruent in every area of our lives, our being: Emotional, physical, relationship beliefs, career and spiritual.  

You may desire for women at the ego level but at the spiritual level you may seek to experience growth in certain areas.

You need and MUST have consistent beliefs, the way you treat and respect women must be the same way you treat the women in your family. (not sexually related)

If that is not the case, solid beliefs that align with our values needs to be established.

Once you start doubting or worrying about whether you can become and attract success, it will never happen.

Ensure consistency with this belief until what you intend is manifested.

Align your powers of intention and desire.

Following the spiritual law that ‘Like attracts like’ - this energy will go out and attract back to you what you sent out.

How do you know when you have a congruent life?

All areas of your life are no longer separated, they become a wholesome integrated one where every area mutually supports, nourishes and reinforces strength on each other.

An attractive man is consistent in the being that he shows up to people in his life, family, friends, lover, ex lover, colleague, clients and strangers.

Any lack of self attraction and interest for the people and in him at any point of time, in any area will reflect incongruently, spreading the lack of conviction and hammer away the confidence.

Being aware of your own weakness in which ever area is a good start.

Passion cannot be faked, and how much you enjoy BEING YOURSELF can be felt.

The way that all the different parts of your life are connected together can work very powerfully for you if you let it.

A good piece of advice is to get a copy of “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”, read it and start applying some of the wisdom that’s inside.

The summary is that you need to get to know both your IMAGE and your TRUE SELF.

With the sacrifice of leaving behind the PAST SELF that was conditioned for years, and they no longer serve your new purpose.

Upon understanding yourself on a deeper level of your values, beliefs and purpose, mission and vision, decisions becomes easier, clear and quick.

Confidence arises and congruent brings attractiveness

Attractiveness brings fulfilment in your life and improves the quality of the relationships with women you are going to create.

Do this for yourself, not for others and ironically,

others will get to enjoy what you can create with them.

Be clear and congruent

Become Attractive and keep attracting.

Enjoy and be responsible

Paul

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Modern dating lifestyle in Singapore

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What is the quality of the relationships that you have with the women in your life right now?

It's never later to be Attractive, and it's always grooming yourself to be the best everyday.

Times are changing, are you up to date?

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Mr Stew, our leading graduate / associate dating coach has put together POWERFUL TIPS to better enhance your lifestyle.

Tough Education to Delayed Adulthood

“Work on your life skills first, don’t waste time on boy-girl relationship.” So when do we

stop? Many kids were forced to stay away from love since young, only to start learning

too late and lagging behind. I see many of my male friends very successful with life,

but lagging in their skills for women. Same goes to female counterparts. Love comes

in waves of desire and urges, when they don’t work out, men and women just go back

focusing on their careers. As long as we don’t breakout out of this vicious cycle, there

will be still a part of us left miserably empty. So practice love asap.

Distractions from Foreigners

Foreigners are perfectly fine. But if men and women are not going out with opposite

sexes in their own backyards, don’t you think the foreigners are just a distraction.

Singaporeans are a conservative bunch. Foreigners are carefree in terms of their social

vibe. Singaporeans are career-driven, and very attractive to foreigners. They are not just a

distraction, they are a strong one. But trust me, the grass is not greener on the other side.

Never Good Enough

The very basic of getting the opposite sex you admire is to first improve yourself. We

subsequently become more attractive and have more choices. But unfortunately, we tend

to tighten our standards and expectations on the opposite sex, and become harder and

harder to satisfy. And so we improve ourselves again and the whole cycle goes on. Please

know when to draw the line, ladies and gentlemen.

Love Wounds

Writing this article in Starbucks at Raffles City, I saw a girl on earphones with teary

eyes. She was the same girl that queued in-front of me, would have brightened her day

by chatting up with her. And so I did, in-front of me chatting with me now on the same

table. Love wounds slow down our love lives, but the more you get wounded, the faster

you pick yourself up. Everyone is wounded, not only you.

Seduction

I define sex something like a contract of the bonding between a men and women.

Unless the contract is sign, both of them are going nowhere. But unfortunately, I suck at

seduction. Would be expecting another article on it from another POA guy.

Etc…

And so the list goes on and on. I have a strong belief that for a relationship between men

and women to work, men must earn the trust of the women, and women must know how

to trust men. That is.

And to best invest your time this coming WEDNESDAY, 7PM, come for our

Modern Attractive Man workshop.

MODERN ATTRACTIVE MAN

Unless you have a super hot date, come meet and greet the like minded people.

Till then,

Enjoy and be successful with women

Stew/Paul

Art of Winning Alpha Men

For many years, the success being at the Top 5% of the Best can now be shared among the rest of the community.

Men has been known to fight for 2 main reasons:

Survival
Replication

Now, what if an opportunity with a woman you like has been threaten, with possibility that the woman who likes you might not be going home with you tonight because of stupid logistical reason, a male friend.

Our POA chief instructor shares his international experience on disarming the male friend, and attitude to managing the situation.

Or you might, after closing the woman, make another great guy friend, who knows.

1) Make your enemies friends through diplomacy
Make friends with the competitor. Make him your friend by using disarming obstacle tactics while at the same time standing at a position of favor (in btw the target and competitor).

2) Marking your territory

In comfort switch to
Kino mode.use the body language and intensive kino (better with c3) to show that the set belongs to you while at the same time being friendly to competitor

3) Create alliance with the neighbor and attack the enemy far away-Make sure the targets friends are on your side

This can be done by building rapport with the targets friend. Or with a wing who will dhv u to the group and also build ioi to the targets friend

4) Create a distraction in the east but attack the west

The wing can distract the competitor by befriending him and chatting with him about interesting geeky stuffs like soccer or computer games. Better if the wing bounces him for a smoke

5) stratagem of beauty

A wing can open a neighboring set and introduce to the competitor. Distract him while u concentrate on your set. If you're alone u can introduce other girls in the same set to him to draw attention away from
Your set

6) hunt in packs

If competitor is in smaller
Number it's easy for the brothers to disarm him. Better if in situation where you have social proof so to build social proof helps

7) when overwhelmed make a retreat

Make a swift bounce to a favorable location if you're surrounded with
A bigger group with more social proof.if not execute strategy (2) swiftly or use distract to divide and conquer

8) adversity is opportunity -be cool

To be calm, composed and confident at these situations despite multiple attacks shows an exceptional frame.only a true alpha male can handle such situations with ease and women can smell this easily

Face the fact, obstacles are everywhere in life.

Remember if you can't beat them, join them.

And I warmly welcome you to our community of healthy Attractive men.


Enjoy and be responsible

POA academy