Getting women's number to a date

You have her number now. Text messaging alone does not form deep lasting relationship. Most guys think that they should be constantly texting the girl because she is replying. This is SO Wrong. For every sms sent, it only leads to the ultimate purpose: To meet her.

Meeting in person has just so many advantage compared to texting alone. To feel her, to look into her eyes, to smell her, touch her, kiss, listen and see her smile. To seek validation from the reply of the girl’s sms is unhealthy in the long run.

To accomplish the powers of attraction through sms, points to be taken when exhibiting from your frame, create more attraction, establishing comfort and future pacing, creating a smile on her, leading to more possibilities and fun of meeting up with you. Coming from this frame as an attractive man, it only leads her to initiating a date with you.

Bingo.

If you are about to send a text and it isn’t going to serve this functions then do NOT send it! You do not want to become the friendly text buddy who she never hangs out with. It is better to try to move it forward and it fail than to constantly be hoping and wishing that because she still texts you back there is a chance.

This does not mean that every text you send should be an invite to hang out. That would kill attraction and show neediness. It simply means have a purpose in mind when you text and do not send unnecessary texts to a girl just for the sake of texting her.

Periodic texting supports you when you are not able to meet up with her over a long period of time, example work, other dates and so on. This text maintenance style is to prolong the attraction window and continues to keep the comfort strong. Once the timing for you is right, Pull the trigger and the date will be secured.

First sms

Objective: Put a smile on her face. It takes her out of the monotony of everyday life. You are her sweet escape even if it is just for a moment.

Eg: What’s cooking? I think you should paint me a picture today…I’ve always liked dinosaurs ;)

That should do the trick for the women to return a smile.

Guidelines for IOI

Text or phone guideline

She sounds excited and teases you
She initiates text/phone call interactions
She responds to text/phone calls quickly
She readily engages you in conversation, latches onto your hooks
She answers your questions

Once more than 3 IOI are present, pull the trigger by asking her to join you this Sat or Sun evening.

Shit tests

Girls sometimes will ask hard questions to see if a guy will stand up to them. Guys often disregard their own beliefs and preferences by agreeing with the girl they are pursuing in an attempt to create a fake commonality.

They believe this will make her like them more. This is not the case. She will find you weak and assume she can walk all over you. It is better to voice your opinion when you disagree.

There is no need to apologize for it. It is not a big deal. Agree to disagree or come to a compromise.

However, do not disagree with her just for the sake of arguing because then you become annoying. Know what you want, need, and desire and be ok with voicing them even if she disagrees with your tastes.

Unless you are in the middle of emotionally connecting with a girl, you should be CONSTANTLY giving off a lighthearted persona about your self.

Coming from a light hearted approach, the sms rules works just as well as the date itself.

Focusing outwards on the women while maintaining your attractive frame in a light hearted manner.

Right now gentlemen, choose your dates. Have an awesome weekend!

Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul

POA academy