Monday, August 30, 2010

Simple Dating Formula

Dear friends,

Here is the world's simplest formula for getting the woman.

attraction + comfort

Suppose you have already attracted the gal, so let's get into comfort building.

How does comfort helps in getting a gal..

1.she will let her guards down
2.she's more willing to let u invade into more private parts of her life, in turn allowing you to find out more about her and work on it.
3.If a gal feels comfortable with you, she will be more than happy to come out with you for a second date.

How to build comfort?

1.Establish common grabpoint eg talk bout women's common topic, fashion, accessories etc

2.Use a more relaxed and slower tone to talk to women, it will makes the women feels more relax and at the same time it will hide your nervousness and anxiety if there is any

3.Be genuinely interested in the women's topic, prompt her to continue on her conversation using conversation enhancer like carry on, tell me more etc. and let her know you find her interesting.

4.Display abit of vulnerability at times, for instance tell her bout some embarrassing things which happens to you in the past or when you are asking her about some topics like handbags. Play noob, this will enable her to speak more and lighten up the tense feeling which she might have while talkin to you for the first time

Additionally, get her to feel closer to you by sharing some secrets of yours to her while she is telling you her hobby.

For instance when she says she likes movie. you can tell her, looks can be deceiving, although i look really aloof and cold hearted, but theres another sentimental side of me which you dunno.

My favorite movie of all time is Titanic and i remember crying so badly when i watch it for the first time. Untill now, i still find it embarrassing. Imagine a big boy crying at home watching DVD.

Lucky i nvr watch it in the cinema.That will be so embarrassing haha. Anyway, this is a secret between the two of us and no third person shd know about this. Additionally you can throw in a lame joke by saying, i know who to kill if anybody else were to know about this.

Things to watch out for

1.Excessive comfort, and you will end up in the friend zone or become her "sister" as she starts pouring out her woe to you. You won't want to end up in the situation whereby she turns to you whenever she has emotional needs, but to other jerks for sexual needs.

2.It's good to be funny, but some topics although funny to man will be offending to woman. Avoid jokes on sex, race , religion etc

So gentlemen,

Let's keep life simple.

Meet the woman, attract, build comfort and close.


See you in Sept's Workshop.


Build comfort,

YOUR window to intimacy

SS
Your Professional Date



Sunday, August 8, 2010

Win back your ex girl friend


From Jackson:

Totally cold. When I sms her, she no longer response. The phone calls were no longer as stimulating as the past.

She didn't want me here pleading in her life anymore. She loved me, but she wants me to go. The more I stayed the more I hurt. Yet the pain was all that I had left of our relationship.

Reality check, my status has changed and I hated the thought of now becoming
single.

Maybe I am not good enough for her? How could that happen? 8 years of relationship, just gone like this?

Maybe she has changed, or maybe she has met someone new? Perhaps met guys from Powers of Attraction academy?

Keep my ego or lose the girl? Heck, let’s just give this POA academy a call.

I met up with the Lead Coach for coffee.

Here goes the imparted structure.

“My friend, all basic of dating begins from yourself. Go on a date with yourself and you will see the ATTRACTIVE MAN’

That was the opening line after we chatted for 20 mins. It doesn’t make sense, but after going through the 2 hour coaching session, I begin to feel inner confidence.

“The attractive traits of men, you already have it. Otherwise she would not have been attracted to you in the first place. “

Powers of Pre–selection

Powers of Presentation

Powers of Playfulness

These three secrets were that is all on my mind when I bounce my ex to dinner for a last attempt to revive the relationship.

Everything went well. There was no unnecessary tension present during the dinner. No pressure tactics.

How beautiful can an evening get? The feeling of the very first time we dated.

Instant attraction. This is my story. ~ Jackson


Now, many of you are like Jackson, came here for her, that one girl that you are broken for. Often I am asked "How do I get her back?" And yes I know the prescription for your affliction, it's my own design.

It is the sin of vanity to seek to resuscitate a dead relationship, to recreate your passion of the past.

The truth is that if you manage to get her back it will self-destruct again.

There's too much hurt surrounding you both to make it right, not saying that it is wrong, but we are often blinded by the consequences and emotional reality.

At POA academy, we share all the secrets you wish you knew about attracting and approaching woman to wining back your ex.

If you put in the time and effort to truly learn, you WILL become better.

You will become successful with women.

You can become the life of the party, the guy with the girlfriend
of his dreams or the guy not afraid to approach any woman you are attracted to.

Or all of the above, Why not?


Pain is part of the learning curve.

All these successful men at POA Academy wouldn't have learned to be
the man they are today without going through the pain.

You know you want the woman. We want the woman to have the best of us.

Take the first step. Do the nation proud and improve the standard of men.

Happy National Day.



Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul