How to confidently approach woman you are very attracted to
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Article by PY
Can you recall any situation in the past where you walk up to a hot lady and all of a sudden, you mind goes blank?
In a matter of split seconds, you just felt that the world had stopped right in front of you.
“Eh, your eh, you know, um… ya…alright, sorry bye”
You start speaking in a foreign language only aliens can understand. The look in the woman makes you want to dig a hole and bury yourself.
Or have there been situation where you are completely having fun with this woman, laughing, exchanging of touches and vibing, but you just all of a sudden freeze out and could not convince yourself to take another step?
If these happen to you before, you are not alone.
Why does your mind go blank when everything is going on well?
Can you recall any situation in the past where you walk up to a hot lady and all of a sudden, you mind goes blank?
In a matter of split seconds, you just felt that the world had stopped right in front of you.
“Eh, your eh, you know, um… ya…alright, sorry bye”
You start speaking in a foreign language only aliens can understand. The look in the woman makes you want to dig a hole and bury yourself.
Or have there been situation where you are completely having fun with this woman, laughing, exchanging of touches and vibing, but you just all of a sudden freeze out and could not convince yourself to take another step?
If these happen to you before, you are not alone.
Why does your mind go blank when everything is going on well?
It has to do with our inner game.
“Inner Game is about sorting ourselves from within. It concerns understanding, tackling our misconceptions, and developing the right mindset. Our mindset and understanding unconsciously affects our outer behaviour and reality. Fixing ourselves from within will accelerate our development to become attractive to women.”
Before we go out to face this dynamic world out there, we need to re program ourselves. Awareness and adjustments, sub conscious suggestions and embedded commands that results in our external behavior.
Remember this; every man’s brain is designed for survival and replication.
The left and right brain must work in sync.
Emotions and rationalization, creates the output behavior like your speech, body language, actions, attraction and seduction.
However, we will first need to internalize our inner deepest most emotions: the root of all inhibition: FEAR or perceived fear.
Whenever there is a perceived threat the brain switches to survival mode. So when you are reacting to survive, you literally cut off your access to think and speak properly.
So when in danger your mind goes blank, when in a relaxed state you have proper access to thought and speech, which you know you will perform the best.
Picture this. When you are with your friends or family do you ever run out of things to say? Usually not, the reason because you know there is not a perceived threat from them and usually you actually have things to talk about.
Most POA friends who practice this potent art wants to be able to walk up and attract any women, anytime, anywhere, but this takes a lot of skill and practice.
Now the thing is, if you already have problem striking conversation with anyone who is not a potential suitor, or simply a 3 or 4 pointers ladies, then we foresee more problems when it comes to women that you like.
Remember this fact.
Guys who are naturally good with women always tend to be good with most people!
POA devotes our time and effort to help men recognize their inner game challenges, reduce anxiety when talking with women and build self esteem, unfortunately we can not help you to break through in just a blog article.
Just remember this tip:
If you want to build good memories with people and make them feel attraction and comfort in the shortest matter of time, follow the law of association.
Elicit their emotions, not rationalize. Follow this basic guideline and your conversation will never be the same again.
Meanwhile,
Enjoy and be responsible
PY is a certificated hypnotherapist practitioner and life coach. He has been performing hypnotherapy session in his SWW workshop and being one of the top dating coach in Singapore, he identifies the main problem of most local men is their inner game. For more information on his SWW workshop and upcoming ‘A Date with your Inner Game’ workshop, write to us. Powersofattraction@gmail.com