Wednesday, March 31, 2010

How to confidently approach woman you are very attracted to

Article by PY

Can you recall any situation in the past where you walk up to a hot lady and all of a sudden, you mind goes blank?

In a matter of split seconds, you just felt that the world had stopped right in front of you.

“Eh, your eh, you know, um… ya…alright, sorry bye”

You start speaking in a foreign language only aliens can understand. The look in the woman makes you want to dig a hole and bury yourself.

Or have there been situation where you are completely having fun with this woman, laughing, exchanging of touches and vibing, but you just all of a sudden freeze out and could not convince yourself to take another step?

If these happen to you before, you are not alone.
Why does your mind go blank when everything is going on well?


It has to do with our inner game.

“Inner Game is about sorting ourselves from within. It concerns understanding, tackling our misconceptions, and developing the right mindset. Our mindset and understanding unconsciously affects our outer behaviour and reality. Fixing ourselves from within will accelerate our development to become attractive to women.”


Before we go out to face this dynamic world out there, we need to re program ourselves. Awareness and adjustments, sub conscious suggestions and embedded commands that results in our external behavior.


Remember this; every man’s brain is designed for survival and replication.

The left and right brain must work in sync.


Emotions and rationalization, creates the output behavior like your speech, body language, actions, attraction and seduction.


However, we will first need to internalize our inner deepest most emotions: the root of all inhibition: FEAR or perceived fear.


Whenever there is a perceived threat the brain switches to survival mode. So when you are reacting to survive, you literally cut off your access to think and speak properly.

So when in danger your mind goes blank, when in a relaxed state you have proper access to thought and speech, which you know you will perform the best.


Picture this. When you are with your friends or family do you ever run out of things to say? Usually not, the reason because you know there is not a perceived threat from them and usually you actually have things to talk about.


Most POA friends who practice this potent art wants to be able to walk up and attract any women, anytime, anywhere, but this takes a lot of skill and practice.


Now the thing is, if you already have problem striking conversation with anyone who is not a potential suitor, or simply a 3 or 4 pointers ladies, then we foresee more problems when it comes to women that you like.


Remember this fact.


Guys who are naturally good with women always tend to be good with most people!

POA devotes our time and effort to help men recognize their inner game challenges, reduce anxiety when talking with women and build self esteem, unfortunately we can not help you to break through in just a blog article.


Just remember this tip:


If you want to build good memories with people and make them feel attraction and comfort in the shortest matter of time, follow the law of association.


Elicit their emotions, not rationalize. Follow this basic guideline and your conversation will never be the same again.


Meanwhile,


Enjoy and be responsible




PY is a certificated hypnotherapist practitioner and life coach. He has been performing hypnotherapy session in his SWW workshop and being one of the top dating coach in Singapore, he identifies the main problem of most local men is their inner game. For more information on his SWW workshop and upcoming ‘A Date with your Inner Game’ workshop, write to us. Powersofattraction@gmail.com

Saturday, March 13, 2010

BEING an attractive HUMAN BEING


Fame, fortune and failures. Powers of temptation. Face the fact. Imagine you are a movie director, with the POWER to groom and get intimate any women you want, with the allure of sirens in your everyday life.

We as HUMAN BEING, man can easily crumble to the lure of the forbidden fruit. But then again, let’s all take a review at our local on going scandal right now.

Our dear movie director.

We sincerely wish he would tide through this tough time and hopefully move on.

Right now, let’s just take a step back and observe it from an attraction perceptive.

Do you really think women find him simply irresistible and seductive?

Maybe when he is in drag as a Grandma?

Hu hu hu, can I, hu hu hu, get your phone number? Hu hu hu….


Definitely not.


Money and fame. How can we sustain and keep women attracted through these means? Another question, what kind of women are we attracting here?

This is reality but this is not the ONLY WAY of attracting women.

A friend of mine, Mr S, Technician, makes $1875 a month, stays with his parents in hougang 3 room HDB flat.

His ‘track record’ with women is countless. I can proudly compare that his latest girlfriend, is 10 times more physically attractive then our 22 year old Wendi.

One thing in common though, he is just as ‘good looking’ as our movie director.

Of course we are not advocating that either one of them is to be our role model, but surely there is something we can learn and understand from these two case studies.

Notice that the news did report that there are more REJECTIONS from our MD advances then success with women.

Hey, an attractive ALPHA male will never send 30 smses to CONVINCE attraction.

Where is he coming from? Did he attending the wrong dating school?


Persuasion and persistent leading to irritation academy?


For our friends who read our Ebook, attended our workshops, you will have understood this is NOT ATTRACTION.


Attraction through Money, Fame and empty promises is temporary and it is not SOLID.

It has been proven so many times. Do not let ourselves be stuck via this limiting belief that all women are materialistic.

My rich friend, CEO of a shipping company, who has been single since June 2002, is constantly getting women’s company via paying for it.

Tell me about it. The real reason is that in their mind, they have already carved and stone that that girls
will not like them if they do not have MONEY.

No money, no fame, no empty promises means single.


We really want you to meet our TOP dating coach who doesn’t even pays for women’s dinner.

Your inner frame supersedes your bank account when it comes to attraction. The Attractive traits that exhibit from within can never be taken away.

And remember this, attraction is irrational and it is never a choice. When attraction occurs between two people, the vibe occurs naturally.

In the real world, it doesn’t really make sense to a woman, and she just falls for him, despite the fact that he could be married with kids.

Come on, this is reality. Right or wrong, it’s up to you to decide.

The bottom line is we should not be living in self denial.

If we have an area where we do have a problem, let it be a conscious incompetence.

Seek help and break though. We must be equipped with the POWERS OF ATTRACTION to protect ourselves and even our loved ones.


The ultimate solution: SWW Success With Women workshop


Meanwhile,

Enjoy and be responsible,
POA

Thursday, March 11, 2010

I need friends or events to meet women

Thursday, Friday. It’s the weekends again! Called Simon, but he will be out with his girlfriend. Called Bobby, even he has a date.

You know you don’t want to spend the weekend sitting at home alone, playing mafia war on facebook.

Where are your trusted buddy or ‘wingmen’? You know there are parties going on but there’s no one to accompany you!

Who’s there to disarm the friends when you approach a set of 5 women?

Hm, let’s try calling Pauline, Jennifer or even Sharon, most of the time they will be willing to go out with anyone.

Sms, no reply.

Called, no answer.

You feel awkward going out alone. Maybe it’s just this weekend and it feels weird going out alone.


NO EXCUSE.


Man when he was born he did not start off in a group.

We meet people along the way.

We were forced to go to school, meet people and attract them natutally. This is part of life. But as we grow older, we seems to forgot that all man initially started off alone, and slowly growing in social circle over the years.

Any excuse that our creative minds can come up with, if we are not going out, the chances of meeting women is ZERO.


If you do really hate going out alone, here’s a few surefire places that will gurantee you find fine women, to approach, attract and flirt with. Hey, Im sure you can go to these place alone!

Ok, let’s go!


Sign up for social events

Dance classes, cocktail parties, food tasting. If you have been following our blog so far, you would have gotten the ideas how to perform approaches, smoothly, subtly and effectively.

Shopping malls

Get into the mood of socializing by talking to everybody. Retail guns, vendors, assistances, food servers.. hahah..this is so exciting!! And before you know it, approaching a hot woman, anytime, anywhere, will be just a day in your life, not a FINAL LIFE GOAL that you have been planning for.

Road shows

Banking, mobile promotions, insurance, property open house. Women are everywhere. Be interested, not only in their product, but in them. One of the best women to talk to are women in the service line. Yes, don’t be surprise you might just make their day.


In conclusion: New places, new women, new experience


Practice talking to anyone, men or women, even when your friends aren’t around. So when that a 9 pointer hot babe suddenly pops out, you are well prepared.

Why not practice this together in our SWW workshop where like minded men come together and grow in this area of success?

Success with women is just an SMS away. Key in "SWW" and text it to 82039299


Dont we simply love meeting and attracting quality women?


Enjoy and be responsible,

POA