How to approach and attract women

Such an easy question, you might wonder. Imagine seeing this lovely woman across the bar, in the bookshop, the girl that always takes the same HDB lift with you every morning. Hmm… 20 wasted seconds of silence.

Easy, just walk up to her and say “Hello, my name is Dick Desperate. What is your name? I think you are very pretty. Can we be friends”?

What a winning statement. Keep your fingers crossed so that she will be attracted to you and invites you over to her house.

We are sure that you have tried the mentioned approach with 0.01% chances of success. (0.01% that she might be a she-man)

Let’s change an approach. Let’s do this instead.

Try a ‘Statement’ opening. Make an indirect comment. Say you are in a club. Walk up to the woman, even when she is on a group, talking over your shoulder as you are about to walk pass over and throw a casual statement at her. Watch us demonstrate LIVE.

*With a SUAVE body language, this casual statement can lead to another opinion, and end up as a stimulating conversation. Sweet.

Now compare your chances between these two styles of approach. We always stress and advocate on the structure. Now you can learn attraction through the proven structure. By following the structure, you will experience attraction like never before, and once you do, it doesn’t really matter what you ask the woman or how your approach her anyway.

Indirect approach works the best. How do we know? Reverse engineering of human behavioral that triggers attraction from women to men.

We have talked to many men who have done hundreds of approach, we have modeled whatever that works, fined tuned it and improved the art of approach and attraction into a structure.

Approach with style, indirect opening and curiosity. Attract with confidence, structure and substance. Then again, these approaches will never work, until you try it.

By the way, we will show you exactly live how we do this. And if ‘Mr K’ who is bald and not the most pleasant looking guy around can do it, so can you.

*results might vary

Till then, enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Moving on to other women

Attraction is a vapor and using accelerated attraction technique, we must know when to go in and shift the gear for the close. Timing and action is important. Attraction is built, comfort is established, however you feel that investment is only one sided.

What would you do?

Rule of thumb, if your target is still cold after several hours of interaction (total interacted hours), investment is only one sided and you are the only one that is making the effort to keep it advancing.

Move on and let her know she is not your only date.

If she is not investing and putting any energy in to you, get the hint and move on. Let’s go when you're not appreciated. If this situation does occur, try to figure out why. How did she perceive you? What turned her off? Learn from mistakes.

The only motivation and reason for not moving on is that there are no more women left on the island and your social circle is really limited.
(Adam had to put up with Eve because she is the only female around)

If the girl blocks the advancement of the relationship with negativity and tells you let’ just be friend, tell her that you already have lots of friends and BYE.

Seriously, how long do you want to hang around a girl who is not that interested in you?

The relationship will never get to where you want to go if you have been labeled into the LJBF zone.

And even if by some miracle the relationship did advance, she would be dictating the where, when and how much. If she wants to cut you off at any time, she can and you have to accept it because that is the implied agreement from the start. You gave her the baton; she is in complete control and will never be satisfied with you.

Picture a DOG leash on your neck.

How can we save ourselves from falling into the ‘Let’s Just Be Friends’ zone?

Cut off from her for a time period and start from scratch. Learn from your previous mistake and come back anew.

Easier said than done.

You are not the first as we have been there, done that.

Use our structure to win her back. We know it works.

Remember, a stranger is more intimately attractive than a close friend


Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

The Date with the woman, sealed with the kiss

It was a great evening so far with the woman that you have attracted.

Every word just came out right.

Every bounced location went just fine.

Laughter were exchanged, push and pull tension was followed closely. There were lots of laughing, humor was present, lots of touching and the attraction continued to follow through.

The night is still early… hmmm…

If at this point of time the proven structure has been executed perfectly, you would have won the woman’s emotional comfort.

The key state for the woman is for her to feel comfortable, build enough trust in you and still feel attracted.

3 basis phases of attraction and seduction in their respective flirting order:

Mental, Emotional, Physical

Did you portray enough values and matched what she was looking for?
Did we get enough interest indication?
Did she pass the sub conscious compliant test?
Did both of you felt fun together?

Watch her body language, gently glaze into her eyes.
Were her pupils dilated as she looked at you with amazement?

Observation of these interest indications have to be practiced and you will gain more experience through more interaction with the women. You will be able to spot the interest in her growing as you follow the proven structure.

Push and pull, continuous value demonstration, throwing subtle negs and bait her to be touchy with you, not you touching her too much. You can test with a light touch, and observe the feedback. Escalate more kino. Did she like it? Yes, go for more. If not, continue to portray more value and review the structure.

So now, at this point of time, when can we pop the question and go in for the closing?

Timing.

We are talking about experiencing deep intimate kissing with the attractive and attracted woman of your evening.

You must be able to spot once the window is open, throw in a disarming word or statement like, “If I have the chance, I will kiss you right now.”

As she lean in and says “what chance are you talking about?’ Yes, she is interested.

Go in NOW.

Lean in 90% for the kiss, wait…. ……………and let her close this 10%.
Let her feel she is part of this.

Be the first one to stop and reward her again if she wants to continue. Enjoy this intimate moment that you have been waiting for. Taste her sweetness and embrace the seductive attraction.

Respect her if she says ‘Not here.’
Tell her ’I know’.

So did you plan for a backup bounce location?

If not, you should.
If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.

All great men plan for their life goals, work, relationships and even play.
We are not naturals but we train hard towards competency.

Till then, we wish you a wonderful sexual date.


Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com