Dealing with the AFOG: Alpha Female of Group

When you open a set, it is necessary to identify the leader of the pack after the first few statements. Mainly the leader of the pack is the male, unless in a set of all females which you will have to identify.

Winning the AFOG is important, as she can decide and influence all her friends whether you and your wingman are of any value and fun to be with.

THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT.

To acknowledge and win her, else the set is lost. There is none like her, just like her counterpart the Alpha Male. Though they are many Alpha males and men who want to be like him, there are few genuine AFOG. Yes, there are, even in sets of mixed gender where the leader is the FEMALE.

Not too many women want to be like her, because they want to be liked by other women. AFOG are way beyond that. She doesn’t get her identity from other women, but one she alone defines. Both Alphas can be found in nature among the animal kind. Check out the wolves. Study wolf-pack behaviour. The AFOG is unique in that she’s not a bitch, she’s not a saint, and she simply wins.

Here are the 7 traits of an AFOG in the club

1. She is unafraid to use, and sometimes, exploit her femininity to get her way with men. See how she makes the men buy the drinks and carries her handbag

2. A woman who is completely in control of both the males and females

3. Ruthless, more so than a man, because you never see it coming, she’ll smile, then cuts you off

4. You immediately know when an AF walks in the room; enters at the same status as the leaders in the room, she glides in; close mouthed smile, eyes canvassing everything for the big swoop down

5. She is full of contradictions often keeping the male in a suspended state, not sure exactly what to do with her

6. She crushes her female competition to get the most wanted man in the room, in fact she revels in her power over men, in fact, men love her for it

7. Has a “clique” or a pack when ready, but AFOG are cave dwellers and truly blossom when with their complementary half, an Alpha Male. She is dominant over all men and women, except her Alpha male (Btw, they eat Beta men for breakfast)

The AFOG route in life is quite different from that of other women. She has come a long way, and often feels misunderstood as cold, a bitch or a whore.

To win the AFOG as your target, you must be a little more direct, exhibit some resistance and challenge her, else she will easily take you as a pushover. She likes the challenge and love the man of resistance that can match hers.

Dominating and fear of being dominated, let her feel that she is in control.

Beneath that tough amour, lies the soft and sweet jelly in her.

Penetrate that armour, and this lady is all yours to embrace.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

dating waitress and hired guns

Hired guns: Women employed by the management of the location for their beauty, examples like hostess, shooter girls, waitress, race queens etc. Normally with very good social skills and high EQ.

Sex sells. But you don’t have to sell sex. Millions of dollars have been generated by this use of women tactics to close the men on buying in. We understand this is reality.

Typical example places like night clubs. These hostesses makes the men feel special and they know how to bait them into coming back for more. Some men even think that the hired guns like them. Question is, how do they know they are for real?

These hired guns know what it takes for them to bait the men coming back for more. Pubs with young sweet waitress. The waitress engage the buying customers to a drink, continues playing and chatting with them to make them feel special and appreciated.

Some men eventually get the idea that these women are interested or ATTRACTED to them. These waitress like them for sure, as a customer or as someone attractive?

How can you tell their interest for you is purely professional or emotional?

Getting their numbers? Easy. Hugging or touching them? Easy.

Getting a date with them and bringing them out for a SPECIAL night? Tell me about it.

Do you need to buy lots and lots of drinks to prove your value? Are you trying to impress them with your generosity? The next thing you know, you are already ordering another bottle from them. You don’t remember you did that, but you did.

Nothing wrong with spending on alcohol, it is just that you might want to be clear on your intention of spending on that next bottle. Do we need to spend so much just to impress the waitress and get a number, only to know that she will only return your call during her ‘working hours’?

Gentlemen, let’s have fun. Treating these hired guns like waitress is not going attract them. Some of these ladies are very fun-loving people, it is just that most customers are really mediocre and behaves in such predictable manner , and she has to smile and pretend to like them, because it is their job. Poor thing.

If you really want to go on that special date with the hired gun, it will be a totally different structure.

Here is the game plan: Be different from the rest of the paying customers and learn how to read her real subconscious indicator of interest in you. Hint: Her eyes wouldn’t lie.

There are many interesting ktv pubs in Boat Quay that you and a wing might want to start off the night. Try this new mindset, it will be more FUN.

Drop me a line or two on your field report. Let’s share experience. We have LOTS more to share.


Meanwhile, enjoy and be responsible.

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Structure of social openings and dating

Just be yourself!

How many times have we heard this when we lament about how hard it is to get a girl friend, or even a date with a woman?

Just be natural and the lady will accept the way you are!

I am pretty sure our friends meant well.

Question is: Have they TAUGHT anyone on how to attract women before? What is their creditability? Are they natural at women and are they in the company of many?

So you go through your life, following their advice, being yourself and when you wake up tomorrow, it is still the same box of tissue lying there.

What if someone out there really teaches attraction with results proven? What if we can have a proven and tested structure as reference?

That’s right. Structures for approaching and opening. What and how to say it. We approach women with a strategy. Seek, scan and go for the kill. It all takes place in just seconds. They like it and really it doesn’t matter what you say, it is how you say it!

Talk to anyone in the group, used structured context (content may vary), win the interest and attraction using tested and proven social demonstration. Getting an Alpha male exhibition and higher value installation, the girl looks at you with indication of interest, it’s on.

Sounds easy?

No. At least the structure helps men to practise themselves on the field to self experience that interaction with women can be so much fun! As you get better with the process, be creative and share your own success opening and conversational interactions!

Like minded people come together, they form a community and GROW.

You know you have already decided to grow with us as a community.

You have the potential, we help each other to unleash.

Be yourself, be true to yourself.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com