Simple girl getting formula

Dear friends,

Here is the world's simplest formula for getting a girlfriend

Attract + Connect

Suppose you have already attracted the gal, so let's get into building connection

First, comfort must be established.

How does comfort helps in getting a gal..

1.she will let her guards down
2.she's more willing to let u invade into more private parts of her life, in turn allowing you to find out more about her and work on it.
3.If a gal feels comfortable with you, she will be more than happy to come out with you for a second date.

How to build comfort and connection?

1.Establish common grabpoint eg talk bout women's common topic, fashion, accessories etc

2.Use a more relaxed and slower tone to talk to women, it will makes the women feels more relax and at the same time it will hide your nervousness and anxiety if there is any

3.Be genuinely interested in the women's topic, prompt her to continue on her conversation using conversation enhancer like carry on, tell me more etc. and let her know you find her interesting.

4.Display abit of vulnerability at times, for instance tell her bout some embarrassing things which happens to you in the past or when you are asking her about some topics like handbags. Play noob, this will enable her to speak more and lighten up the tense feeling which she might have while talking to you for the first time

Additionally, get her to feel closer to you by sharing some secrets of yours to her while she is telling you her hobby.

For instance when she says she likes movie. you can tell her, looks can be deceiving, although I look really aloof and cold hearted, but there's another sentimental side of me which you dunno.

My favorite movie of all time is Titanic and I remember crying so badly when I watch it for the first time. Until now, I still find it embarrassing. Imagine a big boy crying at home watching DVD.

Lucky I never watch it in the cinema. That will be so embarrassing lolz. Anyway, this is a secret between the two of us and no third person should know about this. Additionally you can throw in a lame joke by saying, I know who to kill if anybody else were to know about this.

Things to watch out for

1.Excessive comfort, and you will end up in the friend zone or become her "sister" as she starts pouring out her woe to you. You won't want to end up in the situation whereby she turns to you whenever she has emotional needs, but to other jerks for sexual needs.

2.It's good to be funny, but some topics although funny to man will be offending to woman. Avoid jokes on politics, race, religion


So gentlemen,

Let's keep life simple.

Meet the woman, attract and connect.

There you have a wonderful date.


Build comfort and connect, because it's
YOUR window to intimacy

SS and Paul Teo
Graduate

powers of passion