Congruence on being attractive to women

You will know when you meet an attractive man, who is both equally attractive to men and women, and is consistent in all areas of his life.  

Their energy, passion and confidence radiant from within themselves.  

Attractive men are congruent. Superheros are congruent. 

So what does congruent mean?

In agreement or harmony. In other words, living a life in alignment to values, beliefs, vision, mission, desire, goals and dreams. Knowing where you are and where to go.

Focusing on the goal, example: to be an attractive man is just the end result, just like the intension of becoming successful with women.

One cannot just have intension to be successful and attractive just by wishing for it to happen.

Be clear of WHY do you have this GOAL.

Recognize the surface ego needs versus our deep values and mission.

To establish congruent in every area of our lives, our being: Emotional, physical, relationship beliefs, career and spiritual.  

You may desire for women at the ego level but at the spiritual level you may seek to experience growth in certain areas.

You need and MUST have consistent beliefs, the way you treat and respect women must be the same way you treat the women in your family. (not sexually related)

If that is not the case, solid beliefs that align with our values needs to be established.

Once you start doubting or worrying about whether you can become and attract success, it will never happen.

Ensure consistency with this belief until what you intend is manifested.

Align your powers of intention and desire.

Following the spiritual law that ‘Like attracts like’ - this energy will go out and attract back to you what you sent out.

How do you know when you have a congruent life?

All areas of your life are no longer separated, they become a wholesome integrated one where every area mutually supports, nourishes and reinforces strength on each other.

An attractive man is consistent in the being that he shows up to people in his life, family, friends, lover, ex lover, colleague, clients and strangers.

Any lack of self attraction and interest for the people and in him at any point of time, in any area will reflect incongruently, spreading the lack of conviction and hammer away the confidence.

Being aware of your own weakness in which ever area is a good start.

Passion cannot be faked, and how much you enjoy BEING YOURSELF can be felt.

The way that all the different parts of your life are connected together can work very powerfully for you if you let it.

A good piece of advice is to get a copy of “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”, read it and start applying some of the wisdom that’s inside.

The summary is that you need to get to know both your IMAGE and your TRUE SELF.

With the sacrifice of leaving behind the PAST SELF that was conditioned for years, and they no longer serve your new purpose.

Upon understanding yourself on a deeper level of your values, beliefs and purpose, mission and vision, decisions becomes easier, clear and quick.

Confidence arises and congruent brings attractiveness

Attractiveness brings fulfilment in your life and improves the quality of the relationships with women you are going to create.

Do this for yourself, not for others and ironically,

others will get to enjoy what you can create with them.

Be clear and congruent

Become Attractive and keep attracting.

Enjoy and be responsible

Paul

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