Dial for that date and handling rejection

Women flakes. That’s normal. One minute they are fun, next minute they run. People change their minds, especially women. It can be for any reason.

In general, if women are polite but seem disinterested, a good response will be ‘Hey, its ok. Just recall the fun time we had, imagine we can be enjoying more but all the best to you. You have fun’.

Cool, no bitterness, no date, no deal.

Ah ha, unless she is rude, nasty or cold, then that is a different story. Listen here. We’ve all experience that one in a while and can be quite a shocker when it is such a major turn around from the first meet up.

An ideal response to her will be ‘Hi, you pretend to be rude and cold, anyway, you have fun’. Hang up.

Don’t cry its ok. If she's just being defensive or insecure you've given her a chance to apologize and come round. Notice the word "pretend" which implies you think she's not really this way, but capable of better. This way, there is a higher chance of her calling back for a make up date then just hanging on the phone ‘Hey baby, what’s wrong with you? Did I say anything wrong? Blab la…’.

Of course, some women are super-moody. Some have an initial interest, but their fears of intimacy or their frozen nature just takes over. Some just think they are entitled to treat the world like crap. If she calls you back with anything other than an apologetic tone, hang up on her and write her off. Trust me, you don't need the trouble or bother. Move on with the gift of your skills and find someone more fun, more pleasure, less bother.

Make sense? For you at home, reading this, understand that an important, but often neglected part of learning success with women is QUALIFYING. Social more, get more dates and learn to qualify the ones that you see potential and who you can imagine having a fun time with.

It is only ordinary for women with swings, bad days and feels moody too. Men are compassionate and understanding.

Exceptions to frozen, emotionally cold and stuck up women with too frequent wild mood swings. Good luck to them.

As we move up the learning curve, the gift to offer appreciates in value. Don't give it or continue to offer it to those who do not deserve the best.

Great men in Singapore are rare commodities. You are the prize. How much did you price yourself?



Dial the next one and have fun!

powersofattraction@gmail.com

More singles leaving it to chance to find their other half

Channel NewsAsia - Wednesday, June 24

SINGAPORE: More singles in Singapore are leaving it to fate to help find their other half, according to a recent survey conducted by local dating agency Lunch Actually.

While singles in Singapore cited more traditional methods of relying on peers or having family and relatives keep a lookout for that special someone, more have decided not to rush into things, and leaving it to chance.

In a survey conducted by the agency in 2005, only eight per cent said they left it to fate to decide who they will meet.

This group has grown since.

Now, 14 per cent of singles surveyed said they do not mind leaving it to fate to find that someone who shares the same values and interests.

Lunch Actually’s co—founder Violet Lim attributes this mindset change to media influence.

Said Lim: "(This is due to) the movies that we watch, the books that we read. So we feel that it is only right that we meet someone by chance, as opposed to taking a more proactive approach to meeting someone.

“And because so many people are hoping to meet someone by chance, the probability of that happening is very low. So as a result, why many are still single is because they have not met anyone that they want to be involved with.”

— 938 LIVE/yb


So gentlemen, are you the proactive or reactive type? What can we learn from this article? Leaving your life to fate?

Are you still waiting for your family or friends to introduce potential soul mates to you?
Think about it.

Did you realize just by being proactive you stand a higher chance of knowing more women out there?

Do you want to be the top 10% of the population who always gets the woman?
Imagine, because eventually you can.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Dating belief change and start connecting with women

Belief system

Today we know as we read on this article and recall the following ‘wonderful’ memories from our close friends/family

Love yourself the way you are and women will love you

One day, you will eventually find someone, just be patient. (Patient in my term means a sick man lying on the hospital bed)

‘Just be nice. Women love nice guys’. When I was much younger and ‘nice’, the women always added a ‘BUT’ behind every statement

Most men who are still single or only had been intimate with less than 5 women in their lives ignore the current reality and bury themselves in a shell of comfort. The sad fact is that, if for whatever reason their girlfriend left them, they immediately enter a state of what we call ‘Social Inept Emergency’.

At this state, the men will talk to themselves and pretend that they are happier being alone, hearing constant ‘head voices’ about how things will be ok, asking advice from supportive friends telling them ‘You will find someone better’.

Excuse me, how are these men who had been together with less than 5 women in their lives even going to build the instant attraction in the women they are going to meet in the future?

Please correct your mindset. Change is easy and fun. Change both your thoughts and behaviour. How shall we engage the women when we ourselves are not ready? Think about it.

There are many students our there with incredible theoretical knowledge on success with women. They collect books, DvDs, tapes, videos etc.. but they still can talk to women in the real world!

Connection on a deeper level

What are the emotional states you have to let women to experience for?

Get her to feel instead of act.

Safety, trust, comfort, connection, rapport.
You might be thinking, does comfort really let to a more intimate relationship?

Answer is: Yes and no. Too much comfort without attraction will let you to the ‘just be friends’ zone. Knowing how to balance attraction with comfort is the key. Give, lead and let go, push and pull at the right timing.

The magical thing is women are drawn to emotional situations that they cannot figure out. It challenges their powers and when it comes to emotions, they NEED to find out.

Men make many mistakes when challenging their emotions. They neg (tease in logically funny ways) too much and questioned with too much ‘Why’s. Men don’t have to land her in the state where she feels a fine line between loving and hating you.

Switch this behaviour and focus on a variety of ways to make her feel fantastic. The intensity of the feeling could be different; still the emotional trigger is pulled every time.

As you touch her more on a deeper emotional need, with variety, there will be no single moment where she will think you are in negative thoughts or loss of confident.

Why settle for a life of mediocrity? Blow away the dust and we know we are going out there tonight.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Same 5% Men get 95% of the Women

In the world of business and dating, if you noticed, there are similar commonalities in the distribution of resources and acclamation. In the fight of survival, it is a free-for-all, dog-eat-dog world.

These top business boys learn how to manage their risk, and are able to bounce back from failures fast. These are the people that take themselves to the top and enjoy the financial abundance, resulting in a tremendous imbalance in the distribution of this wealth.

The 5% controls 95% of the wealth in our society, exhibiting similar context in the women and dating world. The 5% of the men get 95% of the women. Similar theory as the law of epidemic quoted in Malcolm Gladwell’s The Tipping Point.

Few men are actually good with women. Some of these men were ‘lucky’ in the sense that they met a woman in their life, love them and end up holding on to them tightly, because they know they can’t meet anyone else. There is nothing wrong with that, just in the event that they broke up, the man becomes so socially inept and might take a very long time to ever get ‘lucky’ and meet another woman in his life again.

This is the truth in most Singaporean men! They simply do not know how to interact with women, and the few that do have a tremendous advantage, simply because no other guys understand the Powers of Attraction!

Think. Why will women be attracted to a needy man who has no social skills? Attractive women will get their dates all the time. Furthermore, they have the right to choose, and being a woman, they will prefer to compete for the 5% of competent men.

Don’t envy, these 5% worked hard to get where they are. There is one universal secret of getting good at the skill you want: Practise with the correct knowledge. Once you recognize your own inconscious incompetence, you will take the first step to be good at it.

But then, why are there still guys out there hoping to get ‘lucky’ and land a date with a woman that you don’t even like at all? The only luck I can share with you now is that you are lucky to have found this site: Powers of Attraction. We will share the secret and show the way.

Even if you fail miserably at first, you will still make more women friends than the guys who stand around and wait for something to happen. Women are more attracted to men of action. Take action and put all the learning pieces together. See the bigger picture.

Probably as you are reading this article (in the library, from your laptop, coffee clubs etc..), the 5% might have already met another new woman.

Not too late. Learn and start now. Imagine being the 5%.

Enjoy and be responsible,

Powersofattraction@gmail.com

Overcoming the fear of approach

Here is a preview chapter from the Ebook:

We have demons in our heads and trust me, if you don’t identify them, they will consume you and affect your life. Even till today, most men have this strong anxiety of approach, especially if the woman is of great beauty. Fear of rejection and ridicule. However, go reflect on your own experiences and think, did you regret over the procrastination or a ‘rejected’ approach? For me, how I wished I had done those approaches that I procrastinated instead of letting it slipped through.

Remember what we talked about identifying your limiting belief in chapter 1?

Identify what is your worst fear when it comes to women. What could be the consequences that I will face if I execute this approach? What if the lady is attached? What if the guy is his boyfriend or the bouncer is?

Your questions are not uncommon and we have already identified most of them. Yes, we have solutions.

Cultivating the ability to be comfortable and competent in approaching people is important in our current society. It will be applicable when it comes to networking, creating opportunities and expanding your social circle in life.

If at this point of time you are still feeding yourself with limiting and destructive thoughts how other people might think of you, I suggest you read chapter 1 again or sign up straight for the workshop. In the workshop, you will practice an important ‘Wingman’ concept, where we will pair up teammates and practice ‘anchoring’ each other for optimum learning. We will teach how you can anchor your success and eliminate your limiting beliefs. Anchor/anchoring is an NLP term where it helps the person overcome their fears, changing the anxiety energy into constructive behavior.

You will feel much more confident and eventually realize that actually talking to different people, men or women is fun! You will notice the friendliness that even the most hostile bouncer, club’s door bitch, the snobbish hot babe are actually very sociable and open, once you did the approach right.

Have you brought out the best in you yet?

Enjoy and be responsible.

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Social skills with girls, practice day and night

Practice makes perfect, will all the advice in the world they can only provide you with ideas of how the real world is. You will have to meet the girls and hone your new found skills in the field. Sometimes we really forget the basic and need a little reminder.

Interpersonal skills with women can be improved, through spending more time socializing with people. If you were like me in the past, being an introvert due to personality had caused a great deal of time lagging behind others. Go out as much as possible to catch up and be familiar with all the little things that everyone else been through, a late bloomer is better than never.

For a start, try all ways and different aspect of interaction, with both men and women. Make mistakes and get feedbacks, access the subtle cues, body language and learn. Slowly you will get the hang of it and soon these situations will not longer be awkward. Confidence will follow. Success with women as well.

Your Attitude

Your confidence and attitude are interred related. Positive mindset and staying optimistic is important to build up your inner self. Psychological abstract can be improved from internal and external visualization. Learn to be sincere; people can feel you when you communicate. Appreciate the woman’s beauty not from her chest, but from her heart. I know it is difficult especially if the dress is very low cut. Practise.

Find a Part time job that requires socializing

Following are some ideas to improve on your social skills, at the same time know some girls. I have done all these jobs before and I can assure you the level of interaction with people is high.

• Being a waiter or retail assistant- approaching and helping customers in person, learning to be pleasant and friendly, teasing but funny.
• Night club - Drinking with customers, having fun with them
• Cashier - having to make small talk with lots of people.
• Sales - learning to be personable, assertive, and persuasive, handling nerves and rejection.

Even for some girls, don’t be surprised that the attractive ones are eventually shy and reserved. It is for you to go talk to them and find out. What is the point of guessing and passing your own judgement and remarks when you didn’t even talk to the girl at all?

Going online

This is the first baby step in communication. Talk as much as possible, to your online gaming buddies, girls especially. Please make sure they are really girls. Get their email and add them in Facebook/Friendster to confirm their identity. Take note that you should try to make your online socializing as much like real world socializing as you can.

Do the following as online practice:

• Voice chat while playing a game, especially girls
• Chat with friends and acquaintances through Messenger.
• Chat with girls in a public chat room.
• Points to take note for calibrating your online persona as much to your real life as possible
• Type out complete sentences, not short, clipped ones.
• Make effort to converse, carry weight in your reply. Initiate open ended questions instead of ‘Yes and No’. Bring the conversation forward

Cut down the time to think what to reply. In real life, you don’t have 5 minutes to think. Be natural
Cut down on flashy smileys or funny images. You wouldn’t be using them later in real life.

For messenger, post an actual photo of you let the other person feel who you are. Look at the person’s photo when replying. You will get more comfortable when you meet up with her.

Weekend is only three days away. Have you been talking to women recently?

Online or offline, day or night?

There are always people awake out there 24-7, so it is not an excuse whether it is too early or too late to start socializing.

Have fun and be responsible,
powersofattraction@gmail.com

Online dating: expressing your interest

In this modern IT advance society, even dating can be done at home, online. Facebook, myspace, Friendster etc, are some of the more commonly used social networking sites for meeting new friends, women.

Occasionally, when we do find some interesting ladies online, the tendency to act interesting and get her attention is common. Have you ever though of the number of messages, inbox and notifications received by the ladies are countless? What really makes you think she will read your message or worst, even know you exist? (Of course we are talking about some solid 10/10 babe)

Fret not, infact there are certain pointers we can take note to improve our online dating success. Following are some key features you will need to understand, applicable to both online and offline women, girls.

Number ONE
Never ever do what the other guys are doing

A simple example: Take a look at all the common posts on anyone of the more popular lady’s facebook. How many those kind of ‘Wow, you’re hot’ or ‘You are simply beautiful and you blew my mind’ posts? Results: Not even a thank you for the lady. Why is that so?

Ask yourself this question if you are a girl. Which man will you find more genuine interest or attraction?

Robert tells you he likes you because you are beautiful and hot.

Louis tells you he finds you interesting because you are bubbly, having great energy and share common hobbies

It also applies for guys too.

Susan tells you he likes you because you are handsome and rich.

Joanna tells you he finds you interesting because you are bubbly, having great energy and share common hobbies

In the art of seduction, the powers of attraction are the primary factor to consider and understand first. Women love seduction too, don’t deprive and take away her fun of seducing you too early. Women in general if they win you over too easily, her sub conscious belief will transit her into thinking that you are easily attainable and undesirable.

Once she is in this state too fast in the initial stage, you will no longer be ‘the deal’. Of course you can still get some women without being ‘the deal’ but not the most desirable ones of course.

Number TWO
Test and understand

In the real world, predictable patterns/messages are always found in the inbox of beautiful women. This is life.

If you do not believe, you can always get any of your pretty girlfriends and ask them to set up a ‘false’ account on facebook or Friendster. Watch the overwhelming terrible responses she gets from the first few days. You can start collecting a series of LAME introductions from the men!

You will be very surprise by what you find and please, don’t ever do what those guys are doing!

Remember, success does not happen overnight.

If your life had always been the same and one fine day you expect instant success with women, I will say dream on. My firm belief is once if you do understand what really works, practice and enjoy the results. It is a journey. Most people do not understand this transformation, and this is where you know what you really want out of your social lifestyle.

Three words for the day: Practice, Improve, results

Invest in yourself. Why not?

Have fun, and be responsible

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Dating the girls: Using dark humor

What is the difference between the guys who are great at attracting and approaching girls and the average Joes’ that get the ‘I’m attached’ every time reply?

Three words: Power of attraction

Conveying the image to the girls as attractive, confident and desirable from the very beginning can be modelled from the very best of the best.

Let me share one very important secret on attraction.

Dark humour. A humorous comment or joke without an expression of comedy, as a disqualifier to the girl of interest, ideally for the social group to laugh except the target. You communicate with her as you deliberately tease her, with a sense of confidence and humour.

Humour? You tell yourself you are not funny, well if that’s the case, it really seems funny! Have you ever told a joke to your friends, and to later laugh about it yourself? That’s funny, because the joke is on you. Don't worry, great news because using humour can be taught.

Dark humour is something which you might want to learn more, as part of your story telling capabilities. The ability to throw dark comments and eventually getting the social group to laugh, except you, is a true dating and social art.

Female, girls in generate are more complex and socially more intelligent gender. In order to disarm them, you must use a disqualifier first, dark humour.

Example, you open a group of three ladies, and as you are chatting with the other two members (except the target), throw in a dark humour and let the group ease the tension. Idea is to let the rest of the group think you are funny, but the target thinks you are mean. Then follow by building back her attraction on how special she is, how different she is from the rest of the group and so on.

This social methodology enables the target to crave for your attention and at the same time remain submissive, as she is now focusing on you, complying with you, so that you wouldn’t make fun of her again.

From there, build a social connection and better comfort level with her, at the same time maintain your APLHA MALE status.

Don’t you just love it when these girls become more predictable?

Be responsible, and enjoy your week.

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Getting a date, first fix your presentation

Never judge a book by its cover, however the cover is used to create its first impression. Appearance and image are very important when you are meeting women, as there can only be one first impression whether you like it or not.

How you dress, the way you talk, body language, your worn accessories all plays a part of you and your defined lifestyle.

There no ugly looking people, only lazy ones. Staying conscious of your personal grooming can help yourself create a better impression, ideally to the women. She thinks, ‘Hmm… what does this man do? He looks very impressive, with a great dress sense and well groomed. I hope he ask for my number tonight.”

Don’t think too far ahead before even taking the first step on your presentation. Here are some common sense guidelines that could help you change your outlook, and perhaps when you do meet the ladies, set them thinking.

The Skin
The skin is the largest organ in the body, and is subject to the same laws as all our organs, if it is stressed for long enough, it will fail. Modern life places incredible stress on our bodies, and the skin is the first contacts with air pollution, chemicals in the water and air conditioning.

Cleanse the face and neck. Use an oil-free facial moisturizer with an SPF15 or higher every day to hydrate the skin and protect from sun damage.

Once or twice a week, use a facial scrub to remove dead skin cells and revitalize the skin. This is called exfoliation and it leaves the skin feeling fresh and improves the look of dull skin.

Shave well
Unless you look like Brad Pitt, please put in effort to shave and keep a tidy and clean image.

The Hair
I am sure your current hairstyle is not bringing you anywhere. Choose your hair style that defines your lifestyle and tell your hair dresser about it. Dump your barber with the old razor blade for some a professional stylist. (Female preferred). Invest in an appointment and ask for advice on what styles would suit your face shape. Once you have a really good styled cut, it is much easier to keep your hair looking good.

The clothes
Focus on one color
Matching colors can bring the necessary attention and makes the person look taller, silmmer or leaner. Black and blue are safe colors, however you might want to pepper it with accessories, and depending on the day or night event.

Monochromatic dressing (dressing in one color only) makes anyone look taller, slimmer and leaner. Match the toning closely and avoid contrast. If you are wearing multiple colours keep them close in intensity. For example, dark blue and black or stone and soft white.Use darker colorsDarker colors make you look slimmer than lighter colours. Black and blue for example, are great colours to use for most people.

Wear darker colours at the bottomUse the darker colour at the bottom of your outfit to make you look taller and slimmer.Wear clothes that fit.

Buy clothing that fit; throw away those sloppy T-shirts, cargo pants, faded oversized jeans. Go for tailored and bottoms that fit nicely, projecting a clean and slick look.

Follow these tips closely and I can assure you that your friends will notice and like this new image that you project.

Of course, that look from the ladies will never be the same again.
The attention will be on you and It’s all about you, so what are YOU waiting for?

Dating game: A wingman for getting woman

Once in awhile, we enjoy being in the lime light, getting all the attention and praises. There are also times where you need to switch role and act as the trustworthy Wingman.

In the attraction context, a wingman is defined as the man whom the main ‘pilot’ brings along when he goes to a club or bar as accompany. A wingman is expected to support his buddy in approaching women, entering sets or even open the set. The man often picks a desired woman, who is referred to as the ‘target’. The man intending to seduce the target is often called the ‘pilot’. The wingman is expected to back up the pilot, who typically entails talking to the target's less attractive friend(s) and making comments that will make the pilot seem more attractive. A wingman can also be a female company.

Motivation is important as the wingman constantly reminds the pilot’s social skill and emphasizing on taking action. He can start the openings on groups and pairs. He will automatically take on the less attractive woman so that the pilot can dive for the target, without interruption. He also removes the awkwardness of the pilot if he is alone.

In certain situations, the pilot will go with best wing with the most experience in playing the role of wingman, or so called his TOPGUN. Job scope includes taking notes, analysis of terrain, and most importantly reviewing the pilot’s intoxicated judgment. Trust me, this is IMPORTANT. (You don’t want to regret going into a terrible target)

A good wingman's generosity should hold no bounds, and he will do whatever is necessary to make sure his pilot avoids enemy interference and hits the target. A wingman should be prepared for self-sacrifice.


It's important that your wingman levelled the pilot. He shouldn't be much better looking, fashionable or charming than you, else the role will be accidentally switched. Likewise, you can't be far better looking, fashionable or charming either. The goal is to field a team of two equals, with a high level of tacit understanding.


Go out and recruit the right guy for the field. Maybe you already have, just that you might need to align the level of skill set equally, and it takes time to build this relationship. Remember this as the pilot, in every relationship, there must be a healthy level of give and take, return the favour. It enhances the partnership.

Your net worth is determined by your network of people (I prefer more females). Where have you and your buddy wingman been networking this weekend?

If not, do it tonight, the ladies are waiting.

The Dating game: How to Get a Girl’s Number

We are constantly faced with various situations and scenarios, either at work or play. It will be nice to be able to effortlessly work every circumstance around. Conversational skills are very important, and it’s only through practice that you can make it smoother.

Let’s channel our attention on conversation with women.

Telling her that you are in a hurry, or you really need to go is an excellent approach where you subconsciously disarm them. A time constrain is very important for people where they know they need to make a decision by that time, else they will rise losing ‘the deal’. In this case, YOU ARE THE DEAL.

Here it goes: After casually chatting with her for awhile, let her know that you have to go and catch up with your friends. Say goodbye and as you walk away, turn back and say ‘Oh yes, I guessed I will need your number to contact you!’

By applying this gentle and subtle execution here, you will greatly reduce her defence and you become totally fun and unpredictable. For women, Predictability in men KILLS, remember this.

For my case, I always prefer email over her contact number first. This way, email will seems more subtle and difficult to reject. And of course, while she is writing the email for you, simply ask her to include her number as well. Chances are that she will just write them down.

Of course if your level of escalation has already surpassed a certain level, you might want to ask for her address instead! (First make sure her MAD husband or bf is not staying at home with her!).

Here is another famous number closing strategy called ‘The one business card for two’.

You can pull out your own business card, where you just tear your card into half in front of the woman. This creates a sense of mystery and fun once she knows what you are eventually getting at! You hand her the half with your contact number on it, and look at her with an expecting look that she will write down her number on the other half of the card. One word to describe: ‘Brilliant!’

Another move that I personally invented is called ‘A pen and your hand’. This move requires you to build a certain level of attraction and fun already with your new friend. Get a pen, hold her wrist and write down your number on the top side of her palm. This way, she will definitely call you and wants to record down your number before the ink fades away. Also, this number on her hand reminds her of being appreciated; along with the fun image that you created. Once she calls you the next day, you will know she’s interested.

You can also use the same method to ask her to write her number on your hand, which by leaving it on, it also helps to appreciate your value if other women notice it. We all work hard and party hard, and visit the restroom often. So please, record her number before it fades away, this is the last thing we want to hear about.

So are you looking forward to your next session? Sure you are.

Remember, enjoy and be responsible.

I just want to say I like you very much

STOP! Don’t ever think about telling this to some woman that you have only recently met.

Why? Let’s begin with some confusing stuff before we get to the actual juice of today’s article.

Let’s just get the woman to say or admit that she likes you first before you even proceed further with lovey dovey mushy stuff.

Now pay very close attention.

Well, that simply implies that you do like her as well, by asking her to admit it, it only confirms on her side that you like her.

HUH?

Why is this so important? Simple, really. I personally believe that TELLING a woman that you ‘like her’ is one of the WORST things you can do.If you want a woman to know that you like her, the best way is to have her FIGURE IT OUT by the fact that you guys are getting intimate on a physical escalation.

Further confusion?

‘Telling her’ that you like her and ‘feeling like you really want to tell her’ are two completely different issues, and they're BOTH bad... but for different reasons.TELLING her is bad because it takes the MAGIC, the SUSPENSE, the MYSTERY, and the ATTRACTION TENSION out of the situation.

Bubble is burst too soon, along with the chemistry (even before there is any)

Feeling like you want to tell her and then thinking about how to tell it to her is bad because it shows that you are SELFISH.

So let's talk a bit about ATTRACTION.

It happens for reasons that are difficult to explain to a person who has a ‘bad model’ of how it works. But let's just say that if it DOES happen, you want to AMPLIFY it. You don't want to WEAKEN it. One of the problems with ‘telling her how you feel’ is that it instantly changes the dynamics of the situation.

When you say ‘I like you’, in her head the woman hears: ‘Oh now I can finally hear it from him that he likes me, so it’s a confirmation. Now I have the control and I can rest assured that he’s mine, to keep or to ditch. Well, maybe he’s not really that attractive after all.’

I realize that this sounds crazy, and doesn't make a whole lot of ‘logical sense’, but it's what usually happens. If ATTRACTION makes sense, why are there so many heart broken people in the world for over many of century?

If you want to ‘tell’ a woman that you ‘like her’, the best way to do it is to take a little risk here, touch her. In other words, bring it up to the next level. DO something, don't SAY something.Words are to be used when ACTIONS don't work better.

And Kiss her NOW. But DO NOT ‘tell her how you feel’. Enjoy the attraction building up.

Magic!

Remember, when you're already at the stage where it's time to take things to the next level, you must take action. There are times to take action, and times where you can just be friends forever.

But I’m pretty sure we all had enough of these kinds of ‘forever friends’…….not again….

Till then, enjoy and be responsible

Touching a woman to build connection

If you do love that woman of your dream, you will want to do everything to please her, that includes respecting her by not touching her at all. (Except when she says she’s afraid to cross the road along, you held her by the wrist, WOW!)

Just imagine, you are a simple beautiful, smart and witty woman. And further, imagine that you were approached by men all the time, and you had the opportunity to go out quite a few men before. Will you ever have the experience that men, almost instantaneously fall in love with you within minutes?

Yes you do.

And what do you when this happens all the time?You will think to yourself "What's the deal with all these guys who fall in love with me after only knowing me for 5 minutes? Are these guys really losers? Or do they simply have no life? How can one ever fall for someone so fast?

Attractive women are very used to men falling all over themselves that they see it as insincere and predictable. I have a thinking on this topic is that one falls in love so fast and becomes clingy, naturally the attraction backfires. Even if there is attraction in the first place, this is overkilling it.

Why do men make this mistake so early in a relationship? (Or even before a relationship starts)

Please my dear friends.

I have seen so many true life accounts failing and going down the drain. PLEASE WAKE UP.

When we talk about sexual attraction or giving them the touch, the subject takes on completely new meanings.Instead of a woman being "upset" with you because you were being "manipulative" when you do something like this, you'll find instead that women will smile and say "Oh, I feel that’s wonderful". Or they'll get mad at you and hit you because they know that you got it, and they're attracted to you.

This stuff is powerful and attraction is inevitable. This is another level of communication.

Example, personally, I don’t think that giving a massage to a woman is actually a bad thing to do. When used at the right time, it only helps you to escalate the relationship to a next level!
Lay back about it, taking two steps forward and a step back. It’s just like dancing. This is an art form.

However, please be careful about it as if the execution is done at a wrong timing and style, you could come across as perverse and even desperate. It’s always situational, but once you get it, cheers!

We as men should REALLY start learning how women work, what ticks them and most importantly, sincerely trigger attraction in them. Nature will NEVER take its course if you don’t learn!

Any men can significantly increase his success with women, once they put in the effort to understand them, instead of simply following their instructions.

Enjoy your life!

How much should you compliment a woman?

“Hey, you have the most beautiful face I’ve seen tonight.”

Sounds familiar?

Women tell us they want us to compliment them.Mummy always say be nice to the ladies right?
So we continue to pay our compliments and making sure she will response with a smile and thank you.

But here's the question:

How do compliments create attraction? Is it working?

Most of the time, NEGATIVE.Women love to be complimented. Why? More or less, to get men's attention and be complimented, else why would they spend hours getting ready, and buy all that clothing and stuff? Sure, their faces light up when you make them laugh or they really have fun.

But, how many times have you seen that special girl smile at you and kiss you like there's no tomorrow when you tell her she's the most incredible thing in the world and that she's so beautiful you just can't stop loving her? Probably never, because you think that's not the thing to do to trigger attraction.

Who really bothers to tell you that you are wrong??

Most women don't always really know they want until they experience it.Women don't like to admit what's really going on inside them, because it can be irrational and illogical.

It's very important to realize that there is a CRITICAL difference between a girl you've just met or have dated a few times and a SPECIAL girl in your life.

Do women love to be complimented? Yes.

In fact, I think that many attractive women feed off of attention and compliments. Themore attention and compliments they get, the better and more powerful they feel. It's an ego booster.But this doesn't mean that a woman will feel attracted to you if you give her compliments.

Attractive women are always receiving compliments every time, everywhere, in any form, it becomes an expectation.

As a matter of fact, if you start talking to an attractive woman and say, "You're really beautiful. I mean, are you a model or an actress?" The most LIKELY response you're going to get is her giving you the cold shoulder.

You mean she doesn’t know she is attractive?Why? It is because it is already an expectation and she knew you are instantly attracted to her. (For her physical beauty)

Don’t be like anyone else who will be instantly labelled as all “the other guys.”

We can of course, pay her interesting compliments but I NEVER let it become part of the actual conversation. “Hey, I like your hair. Is it real?”

Well, I guess we can integrate compliments, teasing and fun as part of an interesting conversation.

The conversation will be definitely be different.

And building Attraction?

Well, never the same.

Have a GOOD Friday.

Top 3 mistakes guys make

Number I
Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are very different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful young woman, he feels a sexual attraction immediately.But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?Well, after studying this topic for many years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Go figure.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

Think about this. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see this pretty young woman.

But it's not an accident. You can learn how to enhance on this area.

Number II

I just wana be ‘NICE’

Have you ever noticed that the really hot, interesting women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys? Or perhaps just let them be a close ‘guy friend’? Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in you.

What’s seems wrong? It's actually very simple...Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful Gut feeling/attraction for them.

And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman feel that attraction, cause you are just 'one of them'.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman feel attracted to you. (or label you as just a friend)I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to accept, but please wake up.
Unless you accept the fact that this is reality and wants to act on it, otherwise you will be having the same success with women. (or the lack of it)


Number III
Convincing her she should like you

This one is my favourite.

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested? Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I guess attraction is something that you can’t convince or psycho a woman to feel so.
Unless you know mind powers or you have special skills in this aspect, else NEVER. You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you by using "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her? Most guys do that.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
If it really works, I guess it wouldn’t be for long either, until the sympathy votes runs out.

Please share with me if you do know anyone whom made any of the mentioned mistakes and are NOW very SUCCESSFUL with women. You just can’t defy nature. Hope your weekend was good!