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Health, wealth, Relationships with women
Better health, more money, quality woman in our life.
What is the quality of the relationships that you have with the women in your life right now?
It's never later to be Attractive, and it's always grooming yourself to be the best everyday.
Times are changing, are you up to date?
If the only constant is change, are you in the RIGHT community of liked minded people, to grow and excel together?
Mr Stew, our leading graduate / associate dating coach has put together POWERFUL TIPS to better enhance your lifestyle.
Tough Education to Delayed Adulthood
“Work on your life skills first, don’t waste time on boy-girl relationship.” So when do we
stop? Many kids were forced to stay away from love since young, only to start learning
too late and lagging behind. I see many of my male friends very successful with life,
but lagging in their skills for women. Same goes to female counterparts. Love comes
in waves of desire and urges, when they don’t work out, men and women just go back
focusing on their careers. As long as we don’t breakout out of this vicious cycle, there
will be still a part of us left miserably empty. So practice love asap.
Distractions from Foreigners
Foreigners are perfectly fine. But if men and women are not going out with opposite
sexes in their own backyards, don’t you think the foreigners are just a distraction.
Singaporeans are a conservative bunch. Foreigners are carefree in terms of their social
vibe. Singaporeans are career-driven, and very attractive to foreigners. They are not just a
distraction, they are a strong one. But trust me, the grass is not greener on the other side.
Never Good Enough
The very basic of getting the opposite sex you admire is to first improve yourself. We
subsequently become more attractive and have more choices. But unfortunately, we tend
to tighten our standards and expectations on the opposite sex, and become harder and
harder to satisfy. And so we improve ourselves again and the whole cycle goes on. Please
know when to draw the line, ladies and gentlemen.
Love Wounds
Writing this article in Starbucks at Raffles City, I saw a girl on earphones with teary
eyes. She was the same girl that queued in-front of me, would have brightened her day
by chatting up with her. And so I did, in-front of me chatting with me now on the same
table. Love wounds slow down our love lives, but the more you get wounded, the faster
you pick yourself up. Everyone is wounded, not only you.
Seduction
I define sex something like a contract of the bonding between a men and women.
Unless the contract is sign, both of them are going nowhere. But unfortunately, I suck at
seduction. Would be expecting another article on it from another POA guy.
Etc…
And so the list goes on and on. I have a strong belief that for a relationship between men
and women to work, men must earn the trust of the women, and women must know how
to trust men. That is.
And to best invest your time this coming WEDNESDAY, 7PM, come for our
Modern Attractive Man workshop.
Unless you have a super hot date, come meet and greet the like minded people.
Till then,
Enjoy and be successful with women
Stew/Paul

As much as the saying goes, is your glass half full or half empty? Now, what does that really means to you when it comes to matters of the heart, where the glass is your heart and the water, the emotions or love.
Before any one can start the journey of self discovery, Powers of Attraction or Life Mastery, the number one thing that all Masters will advice is:
Let go.
To change or accept anything about yourself in our lives, the best place to start is to embrace the art of letting go. And this is a lifelong learning skill.
Learning to let go of knowledge and allow the wisdom to stay.
Letting go of what 'I know' allows us to Discover.
Knowing is useless, unless an action is taken, comes along the discovery.
It is like knowing you NEED to empty the glass versus actually emptying it is different.
The difference is the experience.
I have found this very inspiring article about the CB CRAB (Coast Blue) and I will like to share this story with everyone who wants to let go, move on and grow.
The Coast Blue Crab
I am often reminded of how a Gulf Coast Blue Crab grows. When it outgrows its present shell, it has to shed this old shell and grow a new one. IT HAS TO LET GO COMPLETELY, hold on to absolutely nothing all the way down to its fingers and claws. It has to let go of the struggle itself.
But can you imagine having a choice in this situation? I am afraid I would want to hang on to the old comfortable shell until the end...wouldn't you? Just think of yourself, knowing that to live, you have to let go of your comfort. familiarity and protection. But also knowing that to stay in the old shell would limit you so to the point that eventually you would suffocate and die.
Growth for the crab is very difficult. It has to risk shedding its old familiar shell, become a soft crab again and be vulnerable. To survive, it has to go to the bottom, go into the mud and be associated with other crabs also on the bottom. The surviving crab must learn to have faith that its shell will become firmer and larger each hour. It develops a faith in its pain while it is growing and maturing and learns to believe that it will be prepared for what is currently unknown to it.
Holding on is not only about holding on to the impression that past relationships, past experience and moments created. It is also about holding on to a belief that no longer serves us, just like reluctant to let go of the old shell of the crab.
This can go on for days, months, or unknowingly, years can pass.
Changes are always taking place and there might be pain going through these changes. It's the excitement of the growth that motivates the pain.
The possibilities that can happen:
Letting go of anger gives you happiness in new direction
Letting go of resentment gives you space to love
Letting go of former relationship, gives you options for many more
and letting go sets you free and open up your heart.
If you don't let go, you may one day find yourself holding on to an empty, dying old shell. When we cling on to someone else, we are also slowing him or her down and ourselves as well.
Just think of the crab whenever we are stuck, are we choosing to hold on to our OLD SHELL or do we want to let go and look forward to embrace this new change?
Remember, time and tide waits for no man.
Your woman do not deserve to wait for the man where he takes his own time to let go.
Your woman deserve a man who is FREE with an OPEN HEART and READY for new POSSIBILITIES.
Letting go does not means the women, the knowledge, the experience is gone forever.
It only means that you treasure it important enough to set it free and come back if it's meant to be.
With this arrives a new horizon of wisdom, strength and love in your frame.
We can always recreate a new relationship with existing someone or someone new upon letting go.
And this choice, you can let it happen right NOW.
Choose and decide, because it's never decided until an action is taken.
Be responsible for your life,
Be attractive.
Paul
www.powersofattraction.com.sg
Warning!
More then 80% of the local men out there have been repeating the same mistakes over and over again with women and they complained that the women are not in their mood, having a bad day or just not interested.
Do you know why the women are not interested?
See, hear and feel for yourself.
Men:
What's your name? My name is Dick and I work in a Ban/student of NUU/Serving Army etc..
So what do you do for a living?
Where do you stay?
Oic, so you must hang out here alot. Cool.
You look pretty cute/adorable/pretty/gorgeous/charming bla bla bla bla...
Can we be friends? Can I have your phone number so we can hang out sometimes?
We can go to Starbucks for coffee one day and we will have interesting conversations.
Why not? We can have good times together you know.
Nothing wrong with these conversations, but the important impact here is that these questions or conversational threads DO NOT TRIGGER EMOTIONS or Attraction in women.
Period.
Let's now Transform the moment by using Emotional words in our conversation. Re create the EXPERIENCE for their every moment.
Men:
Hey, you must have an Awesome name, let me guess, is it Natalie?
A wild guess can be Fun sometimes, don't you agree?
So you are here to EXPLORE the place and Have Fun here tonight, I realized the people around have an AMAZING vibe about them, just like you do.
Do what do you do for fun? What makes you FEEL REWARDING about what you do?
Me? I RESTORE men's broken heart, and EMPOWER their lives to new success, unfortunately I don't get paid well, I guess life's PASSION is more than just money.
I FEEL we both can CONNECT and CLICK pretty well, we MUST get together for coffee next week, I know a place where they serve the BEST coffee, and we can have so many STIMULATING CONVERSATIONS together.
Let's INDULGE ourselves next week, let me REWARD you for being such a WONDERFUL lady today, you definitely BRIGHTEN my day.
I will give you a miss call right now, save my number too. I love your FEMININE smile, just REALISED that about you. Sure there is more of what we can DISCOVER about each other. Catch up next week.
Dear POA friends,
There are choices in the words we use in our everyday lives. In life, the ones with the most knowledge, choices of words and skills, rightfully applied, gets success with the RIGHT attitude.
One of biggest challenge that most men face right now is their own LIMITING BELIEFS. They allow themselves to be who they are based on the existing skills they have, conversational styles, choices of words they use to shape their IDENTITY.
FACT: we are not how we speak, what skills we have, what work we do or what names we are called.
We are FREE Man. Freedom to GROW and BE BETTER everyday.
We have choices in life, to continuously learn, pick up new styles of presentation to be a better self. Everything in life we have choices. Pick up a new skill today, get new results tomorrow.
The women we want to love deserves better, the attractive men works hard and strives towards perfection everyday, knowing there is no such thing as perfect and still EMBRACES the ATITUDE.
A simple fact: If You are not interested or emotionally evoked in YOUR conversations, trust me, no women nor men will.
There is one simple step YOU can Do right now to take this Journey of Attraction.
Show up for our Secrets of Getting Girls Seminar and DISCOVER the LIMITLESS POSSIBILITIES you can Pick Up and LEARN to EMPOWER a new SUCCESSFUL dating life.
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To the best of MANKIND, because the women does not like a nice guy.
They love an ATTRACTIVE MAN.
Success with women, together
Paul Teo
Many festive seasons are just around the corner. Places will be packed during the weekends and for those guys out there who wants to find a target rich place during the weekdays, you can try those Hired Gun places.
(Thai, China, Taiwan discos, Tiao Huey Clubs)
Let's all have taste of the Hired Gun ladies and here is your long awaited guide to getting these lovely ladies.
Ultimate Guidelines
Talk to them first before they engage you. Chances are pro active customers who initiate the opening have a much higher chance of the HG dissociating them as customers.
lead the context of the conversation for the first 10 mins at least. Most HG have a preselected script for them to build attraction with customers. Ignore the HG's conversational thread and start your own. Be very un related to her work, nationality, where she stays, what's her name etc. Start thread like do you like fruits or ask the super hero question, which power does she prefers, flight or invisibility? Design your own.
Break state of the HG frame. most HG are conditioned and anchored not to date customers, hence if you buy or pay anything for her like the rest of the customers, you will be anchored as just another customer. the HG will like you, however, the powers of provider will be your only source of attraction. Be careful with that frame.
Timing of your visit is important. Month ends, weekends are days where the HG gets very pressured to 'clock' their sales. Most of the time they will be in their HG mode, persuading customers to buy drinks. You don't want to be a customer that helps her to meet her sales target, you want to be her lover.
Stay away from the 'Dirty Old Man' seats, where the tables you can see the dancers very clearly on stage. Having said that, if you have a strong frame to dissociate her from you being another Dirty Old Man, else not jeopardize your chances. Get another seat where you can get social proof, eg near the bar counter or where the manager's friends are.
Give her a green light by associating that you have HG girl friends or sisters. Allow her to know that you are ok with HG and of course, treat her just like any girl you met in the library. Your DHv stories should be subtle and pre selection in this case relate more to HG girlfriends.
You get the idea. Remember, HG are just like any other women, it is just that you have to dissociate her from her HG mode.
Who knows, the hot dancer your friends have been talking about might just be your next lover.
Enjoy and be responsible,

