Thursday, May 5, 2011

How to strike a lasting impression and get her number in 10 minutes


Dear friend,

More often than not, we men in Singapore desire a healthy social life and quality relationships with women. However how many men actually do have the kind of social life that they deserve? Countless nights have we spent alone, hanging out at orchard road with the same... group of friends, stared at our dream girl from afar (occasionally she catches you looking and the situation turns awkward). I understand because I was one of you, constantly getting rejected by every girl I even mustered up enough courage to chase. The truth is, in the conservative Asian society, from childhood we are probably left to learn the social arts by ourselves, with vary degrees of success.

There is a way out of this, isn’t there? It is a simple way, as of any other aspects of our life, we have to take action. The attraction arts are a quick way to develop our social muscles, accelerating our mastery over relationships with both women and men. Start to notice the change in yourself once you undertake this journey of personal development with us. On behalf of POA academy, I present to you our own weekly In-Field Coaching(IFC) sessions. The road is meaningful and rewarding, as you will notice, once you change the way you see the world, the world will see you differently.

Concepts to be taught in chronological order for IFC sessions:

1. Limiting beliefs
2. Overcoming approach anxiety
3. Approach Mechanics(trajectory of approach + 3 second rule)
4. False Time Constraint(FTC)
5. Rooting
6. Openers
7. Small talk with random stranger or group
8. Approach with intention to attract
9. DHV techniques
10. Neg theory

At the end of the session, you will emerge more confident, and comfortable with your social environment. The immediate effect instills you with the basic skills of attraction, and now the whole world is before you just wait for you to get to know them. It is the first step to design and achieve you ideal social life, that you deserve. In the long run, become those ladies’ men that you have always admired and wished to be.

These guys are definitely not born to be good with women, they learnt, and the million-dollar question is, will you learn?

Take action, take control of your own social life, your reality.

Regards,


JH

82039299
admin@powersofattraction.com.sg

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Getting women's number to a date


You have her number now. Text messaging alone does not form deep lasting relationship. Most guys think that they should be constantly texting the girl because she is replying. This is SO Wrong. For every sms sent, it only leads to the ultimate purpose: To meet her.

Meeting in person has just so many advantage compared to texting alone. To feel her, to look into her eyes, to smell her, touch her, kiss, listen and see her smile. To seek validation from the reply of the girl’s sms is unhealthy in the long run.

To accomplish the powers of attraction through sms, points to be taken when exhibiting from your frame, create more attraction, establishing comfort and future pacing, creating a smile on her, leading to more possibilities and fun of meeting up with you. Coming from this frame as an attractive man, it only leads her to initiating a date with you.

Bingo.

If you are about to send a text and it isn’t going to serve this functions then do NOT send it! You do not want to become the friendly text buddy who she never hangs out with. It is better to try to move it forward and it fail than to constantly be hoping and wishing that because she still texts you back there is a chance.

This does not mean that every text you send should be an invite to hang out. That would kill attraction and show neediness. It simply means have a purpose in mind when you text and do not send unnecessary texts to a girl just for the sake of texting her.

Periodic texting supports you when you are not able to meet up with her over a long period of time, example work, other dates and so on. This text maintenance style is to prolong the attraction window and continues to keep the comfort strong. Once the timing for you is right, Pull the trigger and the date will be secured.

First sms

Objective: Put a smile on her face. It takes her out of the monotony of everyday life. You are her sweet escape even if it is just for a moment.

Eg: What’s cooking? I think you should paint me a picture today…I’ve always liked dinosaurs ;)

That should do the trick for the women to return a smile.

Guidelines for IOI

Text or phone guideline

She sounds excited and teases you
She initiates text/phone call interactions
She responds to text/phone calls quickly
She readily engages you in conversation, latches onto your hooks
She answers your questions

Once more than 3 IOI are present, pull the trigger by asking her to join you this Sat or Sun evening.

Shit tests

Girls sometimes will ask hard questions to see if a guy will stand up to them. Guys often disregard their own beliefs and preferences by agreeing with the girl they are pursuing in an attempt to create a fake commonality.

They believe this will make her like them more. This is not the case. She will find you weak and assume she can walk all over you. It is better to voice your opinion when you disagree.

There is no need to apologize for it. It is not a big deal. Agree to disagree or come to a compromise.

However, do not disagree with her just for the sake of arguing because then you become annoying. Know what you want, need, and desire and be ok with voicing them even if she disagrees with your tastes.

Unless you are in the middle of emotionally connecting with a girl, you should be CONSTANTLY giving off a lighthearted persona about your self.

Coming from a light hearted approach, the sms rules works just as well as the date itself.

Focusing outwards on the women while maintaining your attractive frame in a light hearted manner.

Right now gentlemen, choose your dates. Have an awesome weekend!

Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul

POA academy

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Finding my success with woman

The day when I found out about attraction, the day when I saw POA(Powers of Attraction Academy) on the internet, the day I stepped into Novena Goldhill Centre into the POA office… those days seem so long ago but still yet so fresh and memorable in my mind.

Although it is such a sensitive topic to mention, I shall go straight to the point, because my purpose for this note is clear. A significant percentage of men out there are skeptical and critical of the attraction arts that Paul, Uncle S and Jacob are so faithfully imparting to the next generation. But why is this so? In my personal opinion, there are the following 2 main reasons.

There are too many self-proclaimed “Pickup Artists” out there with no actual skill and experience, it makes the image of the attraction arts go really sour. The people are confused, they cannot distinguish between the quality arts at POA and the hoaxes, scams.

The “Mask of Pride” that most guys wear. We do not wish to admit our incompetencies, which is a basic human nature. Especially when it comes the the sensitive areas of dating, interpersonal skills and soft skills. However, it is not our fault if we tend to put on that Mask, but shame on you if you are aware of the Mask but not actively make an effort to remove it.

It has always been my personality to to learn new things, try out new stuff, meet new people, and I am very glad that it allowed me to enter POA. Up till date, my journey has been amazing, nothing short of wonderful. I can still recount the countless nights of coaching, thinking of new openers and routines, approaching and getting cruel rejections, finally the sessions of coaching and AAR(after action review) by Jacob.

Quoting Paul,” The Road is long but purposeful.”

So, Let this Friday 11th March 2011

be the day for you where you step into a new world,

where FANTASY becomes A REALITY.

It was one of my best decisions in life, and I am CONFIDENT it will be YOURS too.

Drop POA academy an SMS right now and find out how they can EMPOWER your DREAM LIFESTYLE.

Lastly, to conclude, I shall emphasize my purpose of this note.

If I have not done this for myself, where will I be?

If you are not doing something for yourself, where are you going to be?

Enjoy, and be responsible

JH

POA academy

82039299

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Diary of an Attractive man



If you personally have approach anxiety sometimes you're when alone, or have not been actively opening sets you've seen and wanted to open, i want to let you know that you're not alone.

I have personally shared with a few of you guys my sticking points about AA, and over the past 2 weeks, have been going out once a week with Jacob, JH and AZ for day game sessions.

Sometimes, all we really need to get out of that zone - that zone where we keep coming up with one limiting belief after another, which leads to us staring haplessly at our target before she walks off, or even worse, someone else opening her.

THAT ZONE, is best broken with a buddy there, pushing you as hard as he can, and likewise you returning the favor. Winning alone is great. But winning together is simply amazing.

And also, sets you'd usually have to bend over backwards to open in a club/bar (night game), you'd find relatively easier to open in the day.

In a club, girls (hot ones especially) tend to take on airs, and assume that they have to play the role of a diva, and act accordingly. If you're good enough to open the set and get to C1, I salute you.

During the day, however, it is way easier to approach and open these 7-10 pointers and actually number close them. Sets are more open. And i can tell you that there are no lack of hot chicks at places like forever 21 and topshop (yes that was fantastically fun, being in the middle of an oasis of hot chicks with few dudes around).

And, it's extremely budget friendly at a personal cost of $0. Compared to the $30 cover charge + at least $10 you'd spend on a night out at a club.

Im also very happy to say some of us have number closed 10s within like, 10 MINUTES!? But not me lah, haha. Not yet.

So this is a shoutout, to all of the brotherhood out there, those who want to break barriers, or those who just wanna experience some good day game sarging - JOIN US! And we can achieve so much more, not just for ourselves, but for our fellow brothers.

Committed to excellence, the community is expanding and we need YOU to be part of the BREAKTHROUGH.

Conquer the DAY and NIGHT game.

Come be attractive now and get the women where FANTASY becomes a REALITY.

Graduate,
ED

www.powersofattraction.com.sg

Friday, February 18, 2011

Finding a hot gf & finding a hot job

At this juncture in my life, preparing to step into the corporate rat world by going for job interviews & finishing up my nonsensical academic obligations in university, it suddenly dawned upon me that finding a job is akin to finding love in many ways.

Sometimes, a prestigious company may lead u on, by inviting you for a few interviews, as part... of their multiple step selection process. Finally, just before you get selected amongst hundreds of other applicants for the lucrative job, they suddenly tell u that u have been cut.

Similarly, some attractive women lead u on and they finally cut u off. No mercy. No compassion. No explanation.

Rejection. It may hurt, and definitely it takes a toll on yourself. Sounds like being rejected by a gal as well, dosent it? Its part and parcel of life, and it happens in every aspect of our lives, and notably in the pursuit for romance and women.

The important thing is, how are we going to respond to a small rejection? Are we going to give up and retreat to our shells of comfort to prevent rejection again? Or are we going to learn from the experience to prepare for the next interview, or the next woman that we want in our lives? Its your choice.

Do people give up finding good jobs just because one company rejects them? No. They suck it up and attempt for other companies, simply because the drive for success in career is so important in our money-faced society.

So, is our drive for success in attaining love as strong as our drive for career success? If it is, then rejection is nothing. Nothing.

It only means that when u reach your objective, the taste of success is sweeter by a million times.


Yay baby!


See you guys at the Attractive Man Approach Immunity Workshop tomorrow!


Enjoy and be responsible,

G Nicky

POA graduate 2010

Monday, December 20, 2010

Group success versus individual success with women

Self success is a disillusioned concept. There can be no true individual success as this success only display unwillingness to share and help. A person who is inward is a failure.

Individual success, no matter how great, can never be greater than group success. Individual success compared to group success, is very easy, because you only need to c...are for yourself. Having individual success is not difficult, almost like a joke. One can have all the successes he strived for up to a point… what’s the difference for another one. Eventually, the feeling of emptiness will creep in again, like what happened to me, at a more terrifying quantity as the success he strived so hard and spent so much time for is not what he wanted.

Anthony Robbins (World renowned life coach): But how do we make sure that we enjoy a life of happiness and satisfaction when a man does not really need much for himself? To answer this question, we have to understand a quality of a human, makes me proud and should make you proud too. ‘Man we will do more for others, than they will ever do for themselves.’ Enjoy helping. Easier said than done.

Also, having people around who acknowledge you contributions, especially when there are female companions around, shows that you are a social proof person. This is a very big turn-on for women as they know that there is a man whom other men respect, something the individual high-flyer will not have.

I am really grateful for what Mr S did for me towards the end of the Dec field trip. He is more to me. If he did not help me open up the gorgeous Korean women, if he is not sensitive enough to move back when the women was more interested in me, I wouldn’t have a great time with them and close her email. Although I don’t if I am able to get her in the end, what really matter most is the self-esteem you gave me. Thank you Mr S, you really made a difference.

Man to man talk about friendship loyalty (意气). Women to man talk about feel and seldom talk about love (which cannot come before feel). Feel can change (obvious) and I didn’t say loyalty cannot. But at least, loyalty and friendship cannot change overnight as it has been build so dearly by our blood and sweat (perhaps tears lolx), something that is worth spending a lifetime cherishing.

Having said that, to be honest, I really don’t deserve any credit for this article as a person who don’t practice what he preach is a liar. Up till now, I am still not a very good team player. At many times, I will just slip back inwards to the selfish me. Please be patient to guide me back to the spirit of brotherhood. I promise to listen.


Let this spirit always be the one that helps the Brotherhood stay together. I look forward to day where all of us sit together at a restaurant beside the evening Hawaiian beach, enjoying the sea breeze with our women and wine.

Thank you POA Brotherhood.


Your sensitive, attractive man,


Stewey

POA Graduate


www.powersofattraction.com.sg

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Unleash your attraction with women

* Featured in Her World Magazine for Singapore’s TOP DATING COACH
* Featured in Sunday Strait Times, Dating and Lifestyle executive coaching
* Featured in Wan Bao (WB News), Dating and Lifestyle executive coaching
* Featured in NUYOU magazine, for Dating and Lifestyle coaching (Female)
* Featured in Hong Kong Magazine, dating guide and lifestyle
* Interviewed by clicknetwork TV, a guide to dating
* Certified NLP practitioner, American Board NLP
* Certified Life Coach, Excellerated Excellence
* Certified Hypnotherapy, Excellerated Excellence
* Certified Train the Trainer, Coaching skills
* Toastmaster Competent Communicator Public speaker
* Coaching Basic/Advance/Leadership Training, Asiaworks
* Selected for Singapore Successful Entrepreneur of the Year 2010


Hey YOU,

Take a look at the SINGAPORE women around us

The SEXY Girl that walked passed you
Girl NEXT DOOR
SUPER Hot MODEL
Long Lost SWEET PRIMARY SCHOOLMATE
PRETTY WAITRESS
ATTRACTIVE Colleague
The Female STUDENT
That CUTE DANCER
Prettier EX GF

Ever WONDER why

THESE GIRLS we like are always
NOT INTERESTED in us at all?

Or always
ENDING up only as FRIENDS?

And the ONES that we are NOT INTERESTED
LIKES us?

What is GOING ON?

Now, take a look at the MORE ATTRACTIVE men around us.

Are they really

BETTER LOOKING?
RICHER?
MORE INTERESTING?
More ATTRACTIVE?

The answer is

NOT ALL!

Now the QUESTION,

Can we BETTER UNDERSTAND our OWN ATTRACTIVE TRAITS and be
The ULTIMATE FEMALE MAGNET?

Do you wish you could magically
ATTRACT anyone whenever you want it?

In our UNLEASH YOUR ATTRACTION workshop,

The answer is YES!

Understand YOUR OWN HIDDEN ATTRACTIVE TRAITS and UNLEASH THEM!

I do believe serendipity has brought us together, and I’d like to explore how I can support you in magically and authentically attracting the

MOST BEAUTIFUL and QUALITY WOMEN into your life.

THIS IS MADNESS!?!?!?!

YES, this is YOUR WORKSHOP

We are exposing the SECRETS!

--------------------------------------------------------

‘POA Academy’

UNLEASH YOUR ATTRACTION Workshop ~ NOV 2010 version

By Powers of Attraction academy

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We will be sharing the 3 most POWERFUL secrets of the attractive man that
TURNS ALL women ON!

In YOUR FREE 3 hour long workshop, you will:

* Understanding the various TRAITS of ALL ATTRACTIVE MALE

* Be enlightened on the Powers of Attraction that makes
MOST WOMEN DRAWN to these men!

* No longer need to ‘BEG’ the woman for a date,
WOMEN START DATING YOU!

* Effectively demonstrate to women that you have the qualities
THEY DESIRE most.

* Get credibility and GAIN CHARISMA with all the women and people around you

* Date QUALITY WOMEN and attract the DREAM PARTNER into your life

* Learn how to build
LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIPS and BOOST your FEMALE social circle dramatically by 200%!

* To INSTANTLY turn yourself into a
NATURALLY ATTRACTIVE person who gives off a charismatic vibe,



So how does this sound to you? We're going to make achieving this success as
EASY AS POSSIBLE FOR YOU.

YOUR SUCCESS MEANS EVERYTHING TO US

The workshop will guarantee THE EXPERIENCE of a lifetime.

How much you take away at the end of the course will depend on how much effort you contribute during the workshop.

Yes, it will BENEFIT YOU and with proven results, accelerated learning is just a step away.

So,

That is how certain we are that this system will positively and permanently change your life!

Our goal is to BRING OUT THE BEST IN YOU, more confident, and naturally attractive person...FOREVER!

However, you will need to comply with the following criteria to qualify for the workshop.

To QUALIFY:

We encourage PROACTIVE PARTICIPATION, active learning and
BE INTERACTIVE

And the
Criteria for the workshop:

- Male residing in Singapore
- Age 18 and above (Birthday age on 24th Nov 2010)
- Adhere to our Code of Ethnics (www.powersofattraction.com.sg)
- Have a decent career
- Have interest in the world beyond dating science


LIMITED to ONLY 16 MEN!


Once you agree to the conditions, you will proceed to change your life and adhere a smooth transition with our guidance

Location:
Goldhill Centre, Level 3
MRT: Novena
________________________________________________________

To register for the Workshop, you must either:

Email titled: UYA, name + contact number' to
powersofattraction@gmail.com

or

sms UYA + name' to
82039299

________________________________________________________


For the early birds, we are also throwing in a Free CD with Ebook on
‘SUCCESS WITH WOMEN’! *While stocks last

So many have done this and benefited before you.

Only YOU and no one else know what is IMPORTANT to you.


YOU DESERVE QUALITY women. Nothing less.

LET THIS HAPPEN NOW

Take the JOURNEY to YOUR SUCCESS

There is NO NEXT TIME


See you at the workshop Wednesday 24th Nov 2010, 7.30pm



Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul

www.powersofattraction.com.sg

Empower Attraction and SUCCESS with women

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Are You an Attractive man?


How many times have we heard this? She just wants to BE FRIENDS.

Getting the woman to like us seems more like decision by destiny.

Seeing our friends get hitched, going on dates and sharing with us the joy and woes they have with their girlfriends. When is it ever going to be my turn?

We as men are never better liars than women. Yes, this is a FACT. However there is one person that we are most effective at lying to.

Ourselves.

‘Oh, Alvin’s attached, but look, most of the time he is busy accompanying his girlfriend, so pre occupied. Poor guy, luckily I’m single and free. Yeah, I can go home and watch my porn’

‘Look at Paul, so what if he has so many women around him, but do the women REALLY Love him? I’ll just stick to CHASING ONE woman for the rest of my life, hopefully one day she will be TOUCHED.’

‘Wow, Gary’s wedding story impressed me. But I don’t think I can be as attractive as him. He is much richer and better looking than me, I will never be like him.’

SELF-INTOXICATING BULLSHIT.

If the man is never confident and attracted to himself, guess what?

HE WILL NEVER BE.

When was the last time we wanted to be confident and ended up being anxious instead?

When were the last time we told ourselves we would CHANGE and GO FOR IT right now and FROOZE immediately when a lovely, sexy, beautiful 9 pointer woman appeared in front of us?

Remember having the conversation in our head ‘Look at that beautiful lady! Go for it!’

But......

Thoughts do not get us the woman. It is ACTION.

Attraction may not be a choice. Success with women is a choice.

Let’s try this my dear gentlemen, take the first action.

Get yourself a free starbucks coffee.

Call us for a meet up.

Meet us next week for a free 1 on 1 coaching. Let us bring out the attractive traits in you.

By giving us a phone call, you ARE already an ATTRACTIVE man.

Why? Because you have chosen and taken an action.

Throw away your porn materials and get real RIGHT NOW.



Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul

POA academy

82039299
powersofattraction@gmail.com

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Approaching your future girlfriend

How many times have we seen a most lustrous girl walking on the streets and we say to ourselves, “Damn. I wished I knew her!”


How many times have we seen other guys holding hands with a model-standard kind of girl and we say to ourselves, “How the hell did he get to know her?”

How many of us have felt restrained and limited by the girls in our social circles? Especially in work or school where girls are as rare as diamonds in the field? Engineering, IT, technician fields all have one thing in common.

The lack of female presence. Who has cursed the fate of his selected field of work because of the lack of opposite sex? I, for one, am guilty of that.

When our social circles cannot provide us with an adequate amount of the opposite sex to interact with, what can we do? We can blame our fate, of course, that’s one option. We can also pack more activities in our lives and get out more and hope there’ll be girls inside.

That’s a better option. However, the fastest and surest way to getting to know more girls would be at…? Everywhere! Shopping malls, food outlets, train stations, bus stops, on the streets, stall vendors, the girl standing next to the pillar, the MILF outside the school (if that’s what you like)! Everywhere and anywhere!

Sure, it could take a lot of guts to go up and just talk to someone you’ve never met before. But once you go through that initial stage, it is FUN. Meeting new people is always challenging and fun. You never know who you’ll meet the next moment!

For people who have found their Plus One in their school/work/social environment, how can we know that they are truly The One? How do we know that our real One is not out there shopping for her new pair of heels or reading a book in Kinokuniya?

Perhaps the lady you’ve been stealing glimpses at every morning on your way to work could just be your One.

Take action NOW.

Before you know it, you might never get to see her again.


Join the POA community today. I did four months ago and how I wished I’ve join much earlier.

Let us show you how EASY you can bring out YOUR BEST style of approach.

See you at the December's workshop.


Talk and walk with her


Yours truly,

Walker

Monday, August 30, 2010

Simple Dating Formula

Dear friends,

Here is the world's simplest formula for getting the woman.

attraction + comfort

Suppose you have already attracted the gal, so let's get into comfort building.

How does comfort helps in getting a gal..

1.she will let her guards down
2.she's more willing to let u invade into more private parts of her life, in turn allowing you to find out more about her and work on it.
3.If a gal feels comfortable with you, she will be more than happy to come out with you for a second date.

How to build comfort?

1.Establish common grabpoint eg talk bout women's common topic, fashion, accessories etc

2.Use a more relaxed and slower tone to talk to women, it will makes the women feels more relax and at the same time it will hide your nervousness and anxiety if there is any

3.Be genuinely interested in the women's topic, prompt her to continue on her conversation using conversation enhancer like carry on, tell me more etc. and let her know you find her interesting.

4.Display abit of vulnerability at times, for instance tell her bout some embarrassing things which happens to you in the past or when you are asking her about some topics like handbags. Play noob, this will enable her to speak more and lighten up the tense feeling which she might have while talkin to you for the first time

Additionally, get her to feel closer to you by sharing some secrets of yours to her while she is telling you her hobby.

For instance when she says she likes movie. you can tell her, looks can be deceiving, although i look really aloof and cold hearted, but theres another sentimental side of me which you dunno.

My favorite movie of all time is Titanic and i remember crying so badly when i watch it for the first time. Untill now, i still find it embarrassing. Imagine a big boy crying at home watching DVD.

Lucky i nvr watch it in the cinema.That will be so embarrassing haha. Anyway, this is a secret between the two of us and no third person shd know about this. Additionally you can throw in a lame joke by saying, i know who to kill if anybody else were to know about this.

Things to watch out for

1.Excessive comfort, and you will end up in the friend zone or become her "sister" as she starts pouring out her woe to you. You won't want to end up in the situation whereby she turns to you whenever she has emotional needs, but to other jerks for sexual needs.

2.It's good to be funny, but some topics although funny to man will be offending to woman. Avoid jokes on sex, race , religion etc

So gentlemen,

Let's keep life simple.

Meet the woman, attract, build comfort and close.


See you in Sept's Workshop.


Build comfort,

YOUR window to intimacy

SS
Your Professional Date



Sunday, August 8, 2010

Win back your ex girl friend


From Jackson:

Totally cold. When I sms her, she no longer response. The phone calls were no longer as stimulating as the past.

She didn't want me here pleading in her life anymore. She loved me, but she wants me to go. The more I stayed the more I hurt. Yet the pain was all that I had left of our relationship.

Reality check, my status has changed and I hated the thought of now becoming
single.

Maybe I am not good enough for her? How could that happen? 8 years of relationship, just gone like this?

Maybe she has changed, or maybe she has met someone new? Perhaps met guys from Powers of Attraction academy?

Keep my ego or lose the girl? Heck, let’s just give this POA academy a call.

I met up with the Lead Coach for coffee.

Here goes the imparted structure.

“My friend, all basic of dating begins from yourself. Go on a date with yourself and you will see the ATTRACTIVE MAN’

That was the opening line after we chatted for 20 mins. It doesn’t make sense, but after going through the 2 hour coaching session, I begin to feel inner confidence.

“The attractive traits of men, you already have it. Otherwise she would not have been attracted to you in the first place. “

Powers of Pre–selection

Powers of Presentation

Powers of Playfulness

These three secrets were that is all on my mind when I bounce my ex to dinner for a last attempt to revive the relationship.

Everything went well. There was no unnecessary tension present during the dinner. No pressure tactics.

How beautiful can an evening get? The feeling of the very first time we dated.

Instant attraction. This is my story. ~ Jackson


Now, many of you are like Jackson, came here for her, that one girl that you are broken for. Often I am asked "How do I get her back?" And yes I know the prescription for your affliction, it's my own design.

It is the sin of vanity to seek to resuscitate a dead relationship, to recreate your passion of the past.

The truth is that if you manage to get her back it will self-destruct again.

There's too much hurt surrounding you both to make it right, not saying that it is wrong, but we are often blinded by the consequences and emotional reality.

At POA academy, we share all the secrets you wish you knew about attracting and approaching woman to wining back your ex.

If you put in the time and effort to truly learn, you WILL become better.

You will become successful with women.

You can become the life of the party, the guy with the girlfriend
of his dreams or the guy not afraid to approach any woman you are attracted to.

Or all of the above, Why not?


Pain is part of the learning curve.

All these successful men at POA Academy wouldn't have learned to be
the man they are today without going through the pain.

You know you want the woman. We want the woman to have the best of us.

Take the first step. Do the nation proud and improve the standard of men.

Happy National Day.



Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

The ART OF DATING - FREE WORKSHOP!

The ART OF DATING - FREE WORKSHOP!

Powers of Attraction Academy is offering a 1 night special workshop:

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"The ART OF DATING”
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In this workshop, you will get an overview of the Attractive Traits to women!
We will also be sharing the top attractive traits that instantly trigger attraction in women!
You will also learn the following traits to let the woman be enthralled on the 1st date!

*********************** Learn these SECRETS!! ***************************

• How to meet new people with confidence and leave a lasting impression
• Effectively demonstrate to women that you have the qualities they desire most.
• Get credibility and gain charisma with all the women and people around you
• Learn the style and art of approaching women
• How to number close the woman you have just met
• Effective follow up with the woman and maintain the attraction window
• How to successfully date the woman out after getting her number
• ‘Do’ and ‘Don’t’ of the first date
• Transition of location on the date itself
• Read interest indication not only through words, but through non verbal cue assessment and
eyes glazing
• When to touch a woman
• When is the RIGHT TIME to hold her hand
• When is the RIGHT TIME to KISS her
• Learn how to build long lasting relationships and boost your social circle dramatically
& MORE!!!!

We will be sharing the top mistakes men make that turn women off, and how to AVOID these
MISTAKES

Come for the Workshop, bring along like minded friends who wants to GROW and Attract Quality women into their life’s!

We will answer all your Questions on Women and help you effective build the PERFECT DATING LIFESTYLE and be the MAN of DESIRE!

Don’t lose out to the other!

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Date: Tuesday 29th June 2010, 7.30pm – 9.30pm (Limited seats)
Location: Goldhill Centre, Next to Novena MRT
Age limit: 18 above
Cost: FREE
Only for the first 16 men!
(Free CD with Ebook on SUCCESS WITH WOMEN will be given, while stocks last)

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RSVP with an email to powersofattraction@gmail.com

or sms 'Art of Date + Your name' to 82039299

(Subjected to availability)

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Remember, women of beauty are seldom found alone.

Many men are constantly pursuing them.

What separates you from the others?

You need to be QUICK.

Many have benefited from POA academy and are now enjoying success with women, and it is now YOUR TURN!

Date her before your competitor does.

See you on Tuesday.

Enjoy and be responsible,
Paul
POA academy

www.powersofattraction.com.sg
Accelerate attraction and success with women

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Are you from Powers of Attraction Academy?

You probably hide the fact you are reading this blog in front of your family and friends, and you are wondering what will be their impression of you when they find out you are reading this materials of attraction.

You must have hidden our Ebook ‘ Success with women’ very well in a hidden folder as the title says it all.

For POA graduates who have taken our SWW workshop, most of them emerged proud and confident that they have taken this huge step going through this life changing experience.

Those with the strong frame tell people about it.

We came across many potential men who tell me this. “Hey, I don’t need some many women, I don’t want to learn any pick up. I just want to be myself, and be natural about it. I don’t want to be labeled as a pick up artist.”

Honesty and Respect.

But please read on.

Pick-up women, PUA, seduction, multiple women, the community. "Are you a pick-up artist?" “Are you from Powers of Attraction academy?”

Terms that are not so popular with our non-forgiving society, especially Singapore. Is that really a fact?

I have discussed with many, including women what exactly is this term pick up art?
Let’s take job interview for example.

Some guys are just "natural" interviewers. Smooth, polished, ready, they just get it. They're just good.

Some guys are "average" interviewers. And they may wonder why the "natural" interviewers are so good. They may state that they are just "naturally" like that.

Well, the "natural" interviewers are like that because of the way they were brought up, parents and peers' influences, previous work experiences, etc. Interviewing is "natural" to them.

And have you noticed? The "natural" interviewers have multiple offers lined up already, and the recruiters are wining and dining them to get them to sign.

While the "average" interviewer are usually struggling to get one or two to get the recruiter to like them and hire them.

An interview is not a conversation. Ultimately, you want to show off your values and skills and communicate them to the recruiter.

Self marketing, why you want to work at the company, and why they should hire you.

Overall, you're more inclined to get better, to put your best self forward, to prepare for different questions and situations, so you could present and sell your best self to the recruiter in the interview.

Bottom line: You are prepared. You have a game plan.

I hope you're following this analogy. The interviewer is the guy. The recruiter is the girl. The job is whatever you want out of your relationships with girls.

It took me many years to realize that POA and natural does the same thing at a bar/club. Except this:

A POA practitioner has a heightened awareness and sense of his "social plan" when he approaches and talks to women. He is more aware of what he's saying and doing, the girl's responses, and the social dynamics between a man and a woman.

But this "heightened awareness" is all the difference there is. You are equipped with knowledge, skills, and a game plan when you go out.

Everyone has different goals and agendas, of how they want to utilize what they will learn in the community, with consideration of moral and ethic.

Becoming part of POA and joining this community is one great way to get
there.

To realize and reach your goals and become happy in your relationships and yourself.
Many can’t be wrong. To be or not to be part of POA, is not the question.

When should I start?

It has to be NOW.

The only regret that we have is not having this academy earlier. Well, it’s better late than never.
Allow yourself to change your life.

Let the rest of the men out there live in their own self-denial.

Let’s heighten our awareness today. Explore the possibilities.


Enjoy and be responsible,

PY
POA academy

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Differences between Men and Women

I stumbled upon on a news website talking about the genetic differences between men and women and it actually collected feedback from people on their opinions about gender differences. This certainly shows how average citizens have their very own sense of gender humour. I have extracted some of them, so read on for a good tickle.

Men & women - opposite ends of the bed

Men’s perspective

Women have the If you need to be told I am not going to tell you gene

Men like to have all their stuff (DVDs, CDs, etc) on show to impress their mates. Women like to hide things in cupboards.

Ask a woman in the street how to get somewhere and she will direct via shops. Ask a man and it will be via pubs.

Men appreciate the importance of a 42 inch plasma screen. Women do not.

Women can use sex to get what they want. Men cannot, as sex is what they want.

For men, 1am is time for sleep. For women, 1am is time for a discussion about where our relationship is going.

If you told a woman that you had just returned from a trip to the surface of the Moon, she would show her interest by asking who you had gone with.

When men want something they ask for it. When women want something they make a point distantly related to the subject and wait for a response.

Men refuse to pay more than $15.00 for a hair cut as it is not that important.

Women enjoy planning a wedding.

Women eat curry if they like it. Men eat curry to prove they can.

Women could never invent weapons that kill, only ones that make you feel really bad and guilty until you surrender

Men can drive without having to look at themselves in the mirror.

Men look at going down the gym as a physical activity, to women it is a social event.

Women have the ability to brain dump their entire day when they get home – men can only remember that it went OK

Gentlemen, then again, what makes the difference between POA men and the rest of the guys out there?

Yes, we from POA can see it from the women’s perceptive.

Have a great week ahead with beautiful women.


Enjoy and be responsible,

POA Academy

Monday, May 10, 2010

The ART OF DATING - FREE WORKSHOP!


Powers of Attraction Academy is offering a 1 night special workshop:

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"The ART OF DATING”
Singapore Style


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In this workshop, you will get an overview of the Attractive Traits to women!

We will also be sharing the top 3 attractive traits that instantly trigger attraction in women!

You will also learn the following traits to let the woman be enthralled on the 1st date!


*********************** Learn these SECRETS!! ***************************

• How to meet new people with confidence and leave a lasting impression

• Effectively demonstrate to women that you have the qualities they desire most.

• Get credibility and gain charisma with all the women and people around you

• Learn the style and art of approaching women

• How to number close the woman you have just met

• Effective follow up with the woman and maintain the attraction window

• How to successfully date the woman out after getting her number

• ‘Do’ and ‘Don’t’ of the first date

• Transition of location on the date itself

• Read interest indication not only through words, but through non verbal cue assessment and eyes glazing

• When to touch a woman

• When is the RIGHT TIME to hold her hand

• When is the RIGHT TIME to KISS her

• Learn how to build long lasting relationships and boost your social circle dramatically



& MORE!!!!

We will be sharing the top 3 mistakes men make that turn women off, and how to AVOID these MISTAKES


Come for the Workshop, bring along like minded friends who wants to GROW and Attract Quality women into their life’s!

We will answer all your Questions on Women and help you effective build the PERFECT DATING LIFESTYLE and be the MAN of DESIRE!

Don’t lose out to the other!

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Date: Friday 14th May 2010, 7.30pm – 9.30pm (Limited seats)

Location: Goldhill Centre, Next to Novena MRT

Age limit: 18 above

Cost: FREE

Only for the first 16 men!

(Free CD with Ebook on SUCCESS WITH WOMEN will be given, while stocks last)

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RSVP with an email to powersofattraction@gmail.com
or sms 'Art of Date + Your name' to 82039299

(Subjected to availability)



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Remember, women of beauty are seldom found alone.

Many men are constantly pursuing them.
What separates you from the others?

You need to be QUICK.

Date her before your competitor does.


See you this Friday.


Enjoy and be responsible,

Paul
POA academy
www.powersofattraction.com.sg

Accelerate attraction and success with women