Moving on to other women

Attraction is a vapor and using accelerated attraction technique, we must know when to go in and shift the gear for the close. Timing and action is important. Attraction is built, comfort is established, however you feel that investment is only one sided.

What would you do?

Rule of thumb, if your target is still cold after several hours of interaction (total interacted hours), investment is only one sided and you are the only one that is making the effort to keep it advancing.

Move on and let her know she is not your only date.

If she is not investing and putting any energy in to you, get the hint and move on. Let’s go when you're not appreciated. If this situation does occur, try to figure out why. How did she perceive you? What turned her off? Learn from mistakes.

The only motivation and reason for not moving on is that there are no more women left on the island and your social circle is really limited.
(Adam had to put up with Eve because she is the only female around)

If the girl blocks the advancement of the relationship with negativity and tells you let’ just be friend, tell her that you already have lots of friends and BYE.

Seriously, how long do you want to hang around a girl who is not that interested in you?

The relationship will never get to where you want to go if you have been labeled into the LJBF zone.

And even if by some miracle the relationship did advance, she would be dictating the where, when and how much. If she wants to cut you off at any time, she can and you have to accept it because that is the implied agreement from the start. You gave her the baton; she is in complete control and will never be satisfied with you.

Picture a DOG leash on your neck.

How can we save ourselves from falling into the ‘Let’s Just Be Friends’ zone?

Cut off from her for a time period and start from scratch. Learn from your previous mistake and come back anew.

Easier said than done.

You are not the first as we have been there, done that.

Use our structure to win her back. We know it works.

Remember, a stranger is more intimately attractive than a close friend


Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

The Date with the woman, sealed with the kiss

It was a great evening so far with the woman that you have attracted.

Every word just came out right.

Every bounced location went just fine.

Laughter were exchanged, push and pull tension was followed closely. There were lots of laughing, humor was present, lots of touching and the attraction continued to follow through.

The night is still early… hmmm…

If at this point of time the proven structure has been executed perfectly, you would have won the woman’s emotional comfort.

The key state for the woman is for her to feel comfortable, build enough trust in you and still feel attracted.

3 basis phases of attraction and seduction in their respective flirting order:

Mental, Emotional, Physical

Did you portray enough values and matched what she was looking for?
Did we get enough interest indication?
Did she pass the sub conscious compliant test?
Did both of you felt fun together?

Watch her body language, gently glaze into her eyes.
Were her pupils dilated as she looked at you with amazement?

Observation of these interest indications have to be practiced and you will gain more experience through more interaction with the women. You will be able to spot the interest in her growing as you follow the proven structure.

Push and pull, continuous value demonstration, throwing subtle negs and bait her to be touchy with you, not you touching her too much. You can test with a light touch, and observe the feedback. Escalate more kino. Did she like it? Yes, go for more. If not, continue to portray more value and review the structure.

So now, at this point of time, when can we pop the question and go in for the closing?

Timing.

We are talking about experiencing deep intimate kissing with the attractive and attracted woman of your evening.

You must be able to spot once the window is open, throw in a disarming word or statement like, “If I have the chance, I will kiss you right now.”

As she lean in and says “what chance are you talking about?’ Yes, she is interested.

Go in NOW.

Lean in 90% for the kiss, wait…. ……………and let her close this 10%.
Let her feel she is part of this.

Be the first one to stop and reward her again if she wants to continue. Enjoy this intimate moment that you have been waiting for. Taste her sweetness and embrace the seductive attraction.

Respect her if she says ‘Not here.’
Tell her ’I know’.

So did you plan for a backup bounce location?

If not, you should.
If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.

All great men plan for their life goals, work, relationships and even play.
We are not naturals but we train hard towards competency.

Till then, we wish you a wonderful sexual date.


Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Dealing with the AFOG: Alpha Female of Group

When you open a set, it is necessary to identify the leader of the pack after the first few statements. Mainly the leader of the pack is the male, unless in a set of all females which you will have to identify.

Winning the AFOG is important, as she can decide and influence all her friends whether you and your wingman are of any value and fun to be with.

THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT.

To acknowledge and win her, else the set is lost. There is none like her, just like her counterpart the Alpha Male. Though they are many Alpha males and men who want to be like him, there are few genuine AFOG. Yes, there are, even in sets of mixed gender where the leader is the FEMALE.

Not too many women want to be like her, because they want to be liked by other women. AFOG are way beyond that. She doesn’t get her identity from other women, but one she alone defines. Both Alphas can be found in nature among the animal kind. Check out the wolves. Study wolf-pack behaviour. The AFOG is unique in that she’s not a bitch, she’s not a saint, and she simply wins.

Here are the 7 traits of an AFOG in the club

1. She is unafraid to use, and sometimes, exploit her femininity to get her way with men. See how she makes the men buy the drinks and carries her handbag

2. A woman who is completely in control of both the males and females

3. Ruthless, more so than a man, because you never see it coming, she’ll smile, then cuts you off

4. You immediately know when an AF walks in the room; enters at the same status as the leaders in the room, she glides in; close mouthed smile, eyes canvassing everything for the big swoop down

5. She is full of contradictions often keeping the male in a suspended state, not sure exactly what to do with her

6. She crushes her female competition to get the most wanted man in the room, in fact she revels in her power over men, in fact, men love her for it

7. Has a “clique” or a pack when ready, but AFOG are cave dwellers and truly blossom when with their complementary half, an Alpha Male. She is dominant over all men and women, except her Alpha male (Btw, they eat Beta men for breakfast)

The AFOG route in life is quite different from that of other women. She has come a long way, and often feels misunderstood as cold, a bitch or a whore.

To win the AFOG as your target, you must be a little more direct, exhibit some resistance and challenge her, else she will easily take you as a pushover. She likes the challenge and love the man of resistance that can match hers.

Dominating and fear of being dominated, let her feel that she is in control.

Beneath that tough amour, lies the soft and sweet jelly in her.

Penetrate that armour, and this lady is all yours to embrace.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

dating waitress and hired guns

Hired guns: Women employed by the management of the location for their beauty, examples like hostess, shooter girls, waitress, race queens etc. Normally with very good social skills and high EQ.

Sex sells. But you don’t have to sell sex. Millions of dollars have been generated by this use of women tactics to close the men on buying in. We understand this is reality.

Typical example places like night clubs. These hostesses makes the men feel special and they know how to bait them into coming back for more. Some men even think that the hired guns like them. Question is, how do they know they are for real?

These hired guns know what it takes for them to bait the men coming back for more. Pubs with young sweet waitress. The waitress engage the buying customers to a drink, continues playing and chatting with them to make them feel special and appreciated.

Some men eventually get the idea that these women are interested or ATTRACTED to them. These waitress like them for sure, as a customer or as someone attractive?

How can you tell their interest for you is purely professional or emotional?

Getting their numbers? Easy. Hugging or touching them? Easy.

Getting a date with them and bringing them out for a SPECIAL night? Tell me about it.

Do you need to buy lots and lots of drinks to prove your value? Are you trying to impress them with your generosity? The next thing you know, you are already ordering another bottle from them. You don’t remember you did that, but you did.

Nothing wrong with spending on alcohol, it is just that you might want to be clear on your intention of spending on that next bottle. Do we need to spend so much just to impress the waitress and get a number, only to know that she will only return your call during her ‘working hours’?

Gentlemen, let’s have fun. Treating these hired guns like waitress is not going attract them. Some of these ladies are very fun-loving people, it is just that most customers are really mediocre and behaves in such predictable manner , and she has to smile and pretend to like them, because it is their job. Poor thing.

If you really want to go on that special date with the hired gun, it will be a totally different structure.

Here is the game plan: Be different from the rest of the paying customers and learn how to read her real subconscious indicator of interest in you. Hint: Her eyes wouldn’t lie.

There are many interesting ktv pubs in Boat Quay that you and a wing might want to start off the night. Try this new mindset, it will be more FUN.

Drop me a line or two on your field report. Let’s share experience. We have LOTS more to share.


Meanwhile, enjoy and be responsible.

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Structure of social openings and dating

Just be yourself!

How many times have we heard this when we lament about how hard it is to get a girl friend, or even a date with a woman?

Just be natural and the lady will accept the way you are!

I am pretty sure our friends meant well.

Question is: Have they TAUGHT anyone on how to attract women before? What is their creditability? Are they natural at women and are they in the company of many?

So you go through your life, following their advice, being yourself and when you wake up tomorrow, it is still the same box of tissue lying there.

What if someone out there really teaches attraction with results proven? What if we can have a proven and tested structure as reference?

That’s right. Structures for approaching and opening. What and how to say it. We approach women with a strategy. Seek, scan and go for the kill. It all takes place in just seconds. They like it and really it doesn’t matter what you say, it is how you say it!

Talk to anyone in the group, used structured context (content may vary), win the interest and attraction using tested and proven social demonstration. Getting an Alpha male exhibition and higher value installation, the girl looks at you with indication of interest, it’s on.

Sounds easy?

No. At least the structure helps men to practise themselves on the field to self experience that interaction with women can be so much fun! As you get better with the process, be creative and share your own success opening and conversational interactions!

Like minded people come together, they form a community and GROW.

You know you have already decided to grow with us as a community.

You have the potential, we help each other to unleash.

Be yourself, be true to yourself.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Dial for that date and handling rejection

Women flakes. That’s normal. One minute they are fun, next minute they run. People change their minds, especially women. It can be for any reason.

In general, if women are polite but seem disinterested, a good response will be ‘Hey, its ok. Just recall the fun time we had, imagine we can be enjoying more but all the best to you. You have fun’.

Cool, no bitterness, no date, no deal.

Ah ha, unless she is rude, nasty or cold, then that is a different story. Listen here. We’ve all experience that one in a while and can be quite a shocker when it is such a major turn around from the first meet up.

An ideal response to her will be ‘Hi, you pretend to be rude and cold, anyway, you have fun’. Hang up.

Don’t cry its ok. If she's just being defensive or insecure you've given her a chance to apologize and come round. Notice the word "pretend" which implies you think she's not really this way, but capable of better. This way, there is a higher chance of her calling back for a make up date then just hanging on the phone ‘Hey baby, what’s wrong with you? Did I say anything wrong? Blab la…’.

Of course, some women are super-moody. Some have an initial interest, but their fears of intimacy or their frozen nature just takes over. Some just think they are entitled to treat the world like crap. If she calls you back with anything other than an apologetic tone, hang up on her and write her off. Trust me, you don't need the trouble or bother. Move on with the gift of your skills and find someone more fun, more pleasure, less bother.

Make sense? For you at home, reading this, understand that an important, but often neglected part of learning success with women is QUALIFYING. Social more, get more dates and learn to qualify the ones that you see potential and who you can imagine having a fun time with.

It is only ordinary for women with swings, bad days and feels moody too. Men are compassionate and understanding.

Exceptions to frozen, emotionally cold and stuck up women with too frequent wild mood swings. Good luck to them.

As we move up the learning curve, the gift to offer appreciates in value. Don't give it or continue to offer it to those who do not deserve the best.

Great men in Singapore are rare commodities. You are the prize. How much did you price yourself?



Dial the next one and have fun!

powersofattraction@gmail.com

More singles leaving it to chance to find their other half

Channel NewsAsia - Wednesday, June 24

SINGAPORE: More singles in Singapore are leaving it to fate to help find their other half, according to a recent survey conducted by local dating agency Lunch Actually.

While singles in Singapore cited more traditional methods of relying on peers or having family and relatives keep a lookout for that special someone, more have decided not to rush into things, and leaving it to chance.

In a survey conducted by the agency in 2005, only eight per cent said they left it to fate to decide who they will meet.

This group has grown since.

Now, 14 per cent of singles surveyed said they do not mind leaving it to fate to find that someone who shares the same values and interests.

Lunch Actually’s co—founder Violet Lim attributes this mindset change to media influence.

Said Lim: "(This is due to) the movies that we watch, the books that we read. So we feel that it is only right that we meet someone by chance, as opposed to taking a more proactive approach to meeting someone.

“And because so many people are hoping to meet someone by chance, the probability of that happening is very low. So as a result, why many are still single is because they have not met anyone that they want to be involved with.”

— 938 LIVE/yb


So gentlemen, are you the proactive or reactive type? What can we learn from this article? Leaving your life to fate?

Are you still waiting for your family or friends to introduce potential soul mates to you?
Think about it.

Did you realize just by being proactive you stand a higher chance of knowing more women out there?

Do you want to be the top 10% of the population who always gets the woman?
Imagine, because eventually you can.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Dating belief change and start connecting with women

Belief system

Today we know as we read on this article and recall the following ‘wonderful’ memories from our close friends/family

Love yourself the way you are and women will love you

One day, you will eventually find someone, just be patient. (Patient in my term means a sick man lying on the hospital bed)

‘Just be nice. Women love nice guys’. When I was much younger and ‘nice’, the women always added a ‘BUT’ behind every statement

Most men who are still single or only had been intimate with less than 5 women in their lives ignore the current reality and bury themselves in a shell of comfort. The sad fact is that, if for whatever reason their girlfriend left them, they immediately enter a state of what we call ‘Social Inept Emergency’.

At this state, the men will talk to themselves and pretend that they are happier being alone, hearing constant ‘head voices’ about how things will be ok, asking advice from supportive friends telling them ‘You will find someone better’.

Excuse me, how are these men who had been together with less than 5 women in their lives even going to build the instant attraction in the women they are going to meet in the future?

Please correct your mindset. Change is easy and fun. Change both your thoughts and behaviour. How shall we engage the women when we ourselves are not ready? Think about it.

There are many students our there with incredible theoretical knowledge on success with women. They collect books, DvDs, tapes, videos etc.. but they still can talk to women in the real world!

Connection on a deeper level

What are the emotional states you have to let women to experience for?

Get her to feel instead of act.

Safety, trust, comfort, connection, rapport.
You might be thinking, does comfort really let to a more intimate relationship?

Answer is: Yes and no. Too much comfort without attraction will let you to the ‘just be friends’ zone. Knowing how to balance attraction with comfort is the key. Give, lead and let go, push and pull at the right timing.

The magical thing is women are drawn to emotional situations that they cannot figure out. It challenges their powers and when it comes to emotions, they NEED to find out.

Men make many mistakes when challenging their emotions. They neg (tease in logically funny ways) too much and questioned with too much ‘Why’s. Men don’t have to land her in the state where she feels a fine line between loving and hating you.

Switch this behaviour and focus on a variety of ways to make her feel fantastic. The intensity of the feeling could be different; still the emotional trigger is pulled every time.

As you touch her more on a deeper emotional need, with variety, there will be no single moment where she will think you are in negative thoughts or loss of confident.

Why settle for a life of mediocrity? Blow away the dust and we know we are going out there tonight.

Enjoy and be responsible,

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Same 5% Men get 95% of the Women

In the world of business and dating, if you noticed, there are similar commonalities in the distribution of resources and acclamation. In the fight of survival, it is a free-for-all, dog-eat-dog world.

These top business boys learn how to manage their risk, and are able to bounce back from failures fast. These are the people that take themselves to the top and enjoy the financial abundance, resulting in a tremendous imbalance in the distribution of this wealth.

The 5% controls 95% of the wealth in our society, exhibiting similar context in the women and dating world. The 5% of the men get 95% of the women. Similar theory as the law of epidemic quoted in Malcolm Gladwell’s The Tipping Point.

Few men are actually good with women. Some of these men were ‘lucky’ in the sense that they met a woman in their life, love them and end up holding on to them tightly, because they know they can’t meet anyone else. There is nothing wrong with that, just in the event that they broke up, the man becomes so socially inept and might take a very long time to ever get ‘lucky’ and meet another woman in his life again.

This is the truth in most Singaporean men! They simply do not know how to interact with women, and the few that do have a tremendous advantage, simply because no other guys understand the Powers of Attraction!

Think. Why will women be attracted to a needy man who has no social skills? Attractive women will get their dates all the time. Furthermore, they have the right to choose, and being a woman, they will prefer to compete for the 5% of competent men.

Don’t envy, these 5% worked hard to get where they are. There is one universal secret of getting good at the skill you want: Practise with the correct knowledge. Once you recognize your own inconscious incompetence, you will take the first step to be good at it.

But then, why are there still guys out there hoping to get ‘lucky’ and land a date with a woman that you don’t even like at all? The only luck I can share with you now is that you are lucky to have found this site: Powers of Attraction. We will share the secret and show the way.

Even if you fail miserably at first, you will still make more women friends than the guys who stand around and wait for something to happen. Women are more attracted to men of action. Take action and put all the learning pieces together. See the bigger picture.

Probably as you are reading this article (in the library, from your laptop, coffee clubs etc..), the 5% might have already met another new woman.

Not too late. Learn and start now. Imagine being the 5%.

Enjoy and be responsible,

Powersofattraction@gmail.com

Overcoming the fear of approach

Here is a preview chapter from the Ebook:

We have demons in our heads and trust me, if you don’t identify them, they will consume you and affect your life. Even till today, most men have this strong anxiety of approach, especially if the woman is of great beauty. Fear of rejection and ridicule. However, go reflect on your own experiences and think, did you regret over the procrastination or a ‘rejected’ approach? For me, how I wished I had done those approaches that I procrastinated instead of letting it slipped through.

Remember what we talked about identifying your limiting belief in chapter 1?

Identify what is your worst fear when it comes to women. What could be the consequences that I will face if I execute this approach? What if the lady is attached? What if the guy is his boyfriend or the bouncer is?

Your questions are not uncommon and we have already identified most of them. Yes, we have solutions.

Cultivating the ability to be comfortable and competent in approaching people is important in our current society. It will be applicable when it comes to networking, creating opportunities and expanding your social circle in life.

If at this point of time you are still feeding yourself with limiting and destructive thoughts how other people might think of you, I suggest you read chapter 1 again or sign up straight for the workshop. In the workshop, you will practice an important ‘Wingman’ concept, where we will pair up teammates and practice ‘anchoring’ each other for optimum learning. We will teach how you can anchor your success and eliminate your limiting beliefs. Anchor/anchoring is an NLP term where it helps the person overcome their fears, changing the anxiety energy into constructive behavior.

You will feel much more confident and eventually realize that actually talking to different people, men or women is fun! You will notice the friendliness that even the most hostile bouncer, club’s door bitch, the snobbish hot babe are actually very sociable and open, once you did the approach right.

Have you brought out the best in you yet?

Enjoy and be responsible.

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Social skills with girls, practice day and night

Practice makes perfect, will all the advice in the world they can only provide you with ideas of how the real world is. You will have to meet the girls and hone your new found skills in the field. Sometimes we really forget the basic and need a little reminder.

Interpersonal skills with women can be improved, through spending more time socializing with people. If you were like me in the past, being an introvert due to personality had caused a great deal of time lagging behind others. Go out as much as possible to catch up and be familiar with all the little things that everyone else been through, a late bloomer is better than never.

For a start, try all ways and different aspect of interaction, with both men and women. Make mistakes and get feedbacks, access the subtle cues, body language and learn. Slowly you will get the hang of it and soon these situations will not longer be awkward. Confidence will follow. Success with women as well.

Your Attitude

Your confidence and attitude are interred related. Positive mindset and staying optimistic is important to build up your inner self. Psychological abstract can be improved from internal and external visualization. Learn to be sincere; people can feel you when you communicate. Appreciate the woman’s beauty not from her chest, but from her heart. I know it is difficult especially if the dress is very low cut. Practise.

Find a Part time job that requires socializing

Following are some ideas to improve on your social skills, at the same time know some girls. I have done all these jobs before and I can assure you the level of interaction with people is high.

• Being a waiter or retail assistant- approaching and helping customers in person, learning to be pleasant and friendly, teasing but funny.
• Night club - Drinking with customers, having fun with them
• Cashier - having to make small talk with lots of people.
• Sales - learning to be personable, assertive, and persuasive, handling nerves and rejection.

Even for some girls, don’t be surprised that the attractive ones are eventually shy and reserved. It is for you to go talk to them and find out. What is the point of guessing and passing your own judgement and remarks when you didn’t even talk to the girl at all?

Going online

This is the first baby step in communication. Talk as much as possible, to your online gaming buddies, girls especially. Please make sure they are really girls. Get their email and add them in Facebook/Friendster to confirm their identity. Take note that you should try to make your online socializing as much like real world socializing as you can.

Do the following as online practice:

• Voice chat while playing a game, especially girls
• Chat with friends and acquaintances through Messenger.
• Chat with girls in a public chat room.
• Points to take note for calibrating your online persona as much to your real life as possible
• Type out complete sentences, not short, clipped ones.
• Make effort to converse, carry weight in your reply. Initiate open ended questions instead of ‘Yes and No’. Bring the conversation forward

Cut down the time to think what to reply. In real life, you don’t have 5 minutes to think. Be natural
Cut down on flashy smileys or funny images. You wouldn’t be using them later in real life.

For messenger, post an actual photo of you let the other person feel who you are. Look at the person’s photo when replying. You will get more comfortable when you meet up with her.

Weekend is only three days away. Have you been talking to women recently?

Online or offline, day or night?

There are always people awake out there 24-7, so it is not an excuse whether it is too early or too late to start socializing.

Have fun and be responsible,
powersofattraction@gmail.com

Online dating: expressing your interest

In this modern IT advance society, even dating can be done at home, online. Facebook, myspace, Friendster etc, are some of the more commonly used social networking sites for meeting new friends, women.

Occasionally, when we do find some interesting ladies online, the tendency to act interesting and get her attention is common. Have you ever though of the number of messages, inbox and notifications received by the ladies are countless? What really makes you think she will read your message or worst, even know you exist? (Of course we are talking about some solid 10/10 babe)

Fret not, infact there are certain pointers we can take note to improve our online dating success. Following are some key features you will need to understand, applicable to both online and offline women, girls.

Number ONE
Never ever do what the other guys are doing

A simple example: Take a look at all the common posts on anyone of the more popular lady’s facebook. How many those kind of ‘Wow, you’re hot’ or ‘You are simply beautiful and you blew my mind’ posts? Results: Not even a thank you for the lady. Why is that so?

Ask yourself this question if you are a girl. Which man will you find more genuine interest or attraction?

Robert tells you he likes you because you are beautiful and hot.

Louis tells you he finds you interesting because you are bubbly, having great energy and share common hobbies

It also applies for guys too.

Susan tells you he likes you because you are handsome and rich.

Joanna tells you he finds you interesting because you are bubbly, having great energy and share common hobbies

In the art of seduction, the powers of attraction are the primary factor to consider and understand first. Women love seduction too, don’t deprive and take away her fun of seducing you too early. Women in general if they win you over too easily, her sub conscious belief will transit her into thinking that you are easily attainable and undesirable.

Once she is in this state too fast in the initial stage, you will no longer be ‘the deal’. Of course you can still get some women without being ‘the deal’ but not the most desirable ones of course.

Number TWO
Test and understand

In the real world, predictable patterns/messages are always found in the inbox of beautiful women. This is life.

If you do not believe, you can always get any of your pretty girlfriends and ask them to set up a ‘false’ account on facebook or Friendster. Watch the overwhelming terrible responses she gets from the first few days. You can start collecting a series of LAME introductions from the men!

You will be very surprise by what you find and please, don’t ever do what those guys are doing!

Remember, success does not happen overnight.

If your life had always been the same and one fine day you expect instant success with women, I will say dream on. My firm belief is once if you do understand what really works, practice and enjoy the results. It is a journey. Most people do not understand this transformation, and this is where you know what you really want out of your social lifestyle.

Three words for the day: Practice, Improve, results

Invest in yourself. Why not?

Have fun, and be responsible

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Dating the girls: Using dark humor

What is the difference between the guys who are great at attracting and approaching girls and the average Joes’ that get the ‘I’m attached’ every time reply?

Three words: Power of attraction

Conveying the image to the girls as attractive, confident and desirable from the very beginning can be modelled from the very best of the best.

Let me share one very important secret on attraction.

Dark humour. A humorous comment or joke without an expression of comedy, as a disqualifier to the girl of interest, ideally for the social group to laugh except the target. You communicate with her as you deliberately tease her, with a sense of confidence and humour.

Humour? You tell yourself you are not funny, well if that’s the case, it really seems funny! Have you ever told a joke to your friends, and to later laugh about it yourself? That’s funny, because the joke is on you. Don't worry, great news because using humour can be taught.

Dark humour is something which you might want to learn more, as part of your story telling capabilities. The ability to throw dark comments and eventually getting the social group to laugh, except you, is a true dating and social art.

Female, girls in generate are more complex and socially more intelligent gender. In order to disarm them, you must use a disqualifier first, dark humour.

Example, you open a group of three ladies, and as you are chatting with the other two members (except the target), throw in a dark humour and let the group ease the tension. Idea is to let the rest of the group think you are funny, but the target thinks you are mean. Then follow by building back her attraction on how special she is, how different she is from the rest of the group and so on.

This social methodology enables the target to crave for your attention and at the same time remain submissive, as she is now focusing on you, complying with you, so that you wouldn’t make fun of her again.

From there, build a social connection and better comfort level with her, at the same time maintain your APLHA MALE status.

Don’t you just love it when these girls become more predictable?

Be responsible, and enjoy your week.

powersofattraction@gmail.com

Getting a date, first fix your presentation

Never judge a book by its cover, however the cover is used to create its first impression. Appearance and image are very important when you are meeting women, as there can only be one first impression whether you like it or not.

How you dress, the way you talk, body language, your worn accessories all plays a part of you and your defined lifestyle.

There no ugly looking people, only lazy ones. Staying conscious of your personal grooming can help yourself create a better impression, ideally to the women. She thinks, ‘Hmm… what does this man do? He looks very impressive, with a great dress sense and well groomed. I hope he ask for my number tonight.”

Don’t think too far ahead before even taking the first step on your presentation. Here are some common sense guidelines that could help you change your outlook, and perhaps when you do meet the ladies, set them thinking.

The Skin
The skin is the largest organ in the body, and is subject to the same laws as all our organs, if it is stressed for long enough, it will fail. Modern life places incredible stress on our bodies, and the skin is the first contacts with air pollution, chemicals in the water and air conditioning.

Cleanse the face and neck. Use an oil-free facial moisturizer with an SPF15 or higher every day to hydrate the skin and protect from sun damage.

Once or twice a week, use a facial scrub to remove dead skin cells and revitalize the skin. This is called exfoliation and it leaves the skin feeling fresh and improves the look of dull skin.

Shave well
Unless you look like Brad Pitt, please put in effort to shave and keep a tidy and clean image.

The Hair
I am sure your current hairstyle is not bringing you anywhere. Choose your hair style that defines your lifestyle and tell your hair dresser about it. Dump your barber with the old razor blade for some a professional stylist. (Female preferred). Invest in an appointment and ask for advice on what styles would suit your face shape. Once you have a really good styled cut, it is much easier to keep your hair looking good.

The clothes
Focus on one color
Matching colors can bring the necessary attention and makes the person look taller, silmmer or leaner. Black and blue are safe colors, however you might want to pepper it with accessories, and depending on the day or night event.

Monochromatic dressing (dressing in one color only) makes anyone look taller, slimmer and leaner. Match the toning closely and avoid contrast. If you are wearing multiple colours keep them close in intensity. For example, dark blue and black or stone and soft white.Use darker colorsDarker colors make you look slimmer than lighter colours. Black and blue for example, are great colours to use for most people.

Wear darker colours at the bottomUse the darker colour at the bottom of your outfit to make you look taller and slimmer.Wear clothes that fit.

Buy clothing that fit; throw away those sloppy T-shirts, cargo pants, faded oversized jeans. Go for tailored and bottoms that fit nicely, projecting a clean and slick look.

Follow these tips closely and I can assure you that your friends will notice and like this new image that you project.

Of course, that look from the ladies will never be the same again.
The attention will be on you and It’s all about you, so what are YOU waiting for?

Dating game: A wingman for getting woman

Once in awhile, we enjoy being in the lime light, getting all the attention and praises. There are also times where you need to switch role and act as the trustworthy Wingman.

In the attraction context, a wingman is defined as the man whom the main ‘pilot’ brings along when he goes to a club or bar as accompany. A wingman is expected to support his buddy in approaching women, entering sets or even open the set. The man often picks a desired woman, who is referred to as the ‘target’. The man intending to seduce the target is often called the ‘pilot’. The wingman is expected to back up the pilot, who typically entails talking to the target's less attractive friend(s) and making comments that will make the pilot seem more attractive. A wingman can also be a female company.

Motivation is important as the wingman constantly reminds the pilot’s social skill and emphasizing on taking action. He can start the openings on groups and pairs. He will automatically take on the less attractive woman so that the pilot can dive for the target, without interruption. He also removes the awkwardness of the pilot if he is alone.

In certain situations, the pilot will go with best wing with the most experience in playing the role of wingman, or so called his TOPGUN. Job scope includes taking notes, analysis of terrain, and most importantly reviewing the pilot’s intoxicated judgment. Trust me, this is IMPORTANT. (You don’t want to regret going into a terrible target)

A good wingman's generosity should hold no bounds, and he will do whatever is necessary to make sure his pilot avoids enemy interference and hits the target. A wingman should be prepared for self-sacrifice.


It's important that your wingman levelled the pilot. He shouldn't be much better looking, fashionable or charming than you, else the role will be accidentally switched. Likewise, you can't be far better looking, fashionable or charming either. The goal is to field a team of two equals, with a high level of tacit understanding.


Go out and recruit the right guy for the field. Maybe you already have, just that you might need to align the level of skill set equally, and it takes time to build this relationship. Remember this as the pilot, in every relationship, there must be a healthy level of give and take, return the favour. It enhances the partnership.

Your net worth is determined by your network of people (I prefer more females). Where have you and your buddy wingman been networking this weekend?

If not, do it tonight, the ladies are waiting.